NEW YEAR,What are your wishes and goals - Page 3

Dominique · 12-28-2017, 05:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by homoe

I have found de-cluttering my space has worked wonders for me! It's definitely made my life more simpler, peaceful, and enjoyable!

This is so true! Who knew?

Dominique · 12-28-2017, 05:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kätzchen

It's never too late to be a better person or do something nice to make your home life simpler, more peaceful and enjoyable, right?

Here's to all the days ahead and finding more enjoyment along the way.

no, Katzchen, It’s never too late.

Written with eyeliner on my bathroom mirror, so I’ll see it daily, are the words “ improve a life. Yours or someone else’s “ .

Chad · 12-28-2017, 06:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chad

Happy 2017!

Time with friends and family is always my top goal. For the first time in a very long time my family and I are all located near each other. This makes my life as a dad and granddad very happy and complete.

Travel is important to me. I have two trips on the books for 2017 and I am planning to add more trips to the list.

My work is very important to me because I can make an important contribution to the environment. I plan to keep working on the balance between work and fun.

Dating is fun and I plan to "date" more this year. I joined a dating site to help me achieve that goal.

Work hard and play hard in 2017.

Chad

I just saw this from 2017. It is still relevant, I have loved spending time with my family this year.

One change is that I may slow down on the personal travel to spend more time with mom this year.

I have an awesome life and I am grateful for that.

Kelt · 12-28-2017, 09:27 PM

I want to go home. I am so out of place where I am, not even sure where that is, I split my time between two states and neither place is right.

I may fly down in the spring and pick up a temp apt or something...

'Cause who doesn't want to live in three states, right?

Mopsie · 12-29-2017, 07:32 AM

I've been thinking about the New Year. Normally I like to have goals. The social worker in me likes them to be measurable and realistic. But so far I just have sort of a mantra or a theme for the year.

Balance and consistency.

These are two things that I'm not particularly good at - I have a little bit of ADHD and a bit of an addictive personality so I tend to focus all my energy on one or two things at a time and then refocus something else. When I do that I forget areas of my life that need tending to - often those neglected areas are the ones that involve self care.

Bèsame* · 12-30-2017, 11:19 AM

Gayandgray · 12-30-2017, 11:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bèsame*

I like this!

Mopsie · 01-03-2018, 03:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mopsie

I've been thinking about the New Year. Normally I like to have goals. The social worker in me likes them to be measurable and realistic. But so far I just have sort of a mantra or a theme for the year.

Balance and consistency.

These are two things that I'm not particularly good at - I have a little bit of ADHD and a bit of an addictive personality so I tend to focus all my energy on one or two things at a time and then refocus something else. When I do that I forget areas of my life that need tending to - often those neglected areas are the ones that involve self care.

I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.

PlatinumPearl · 01-03-2018, 10:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mopsie

I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.

Awesome!! I too have started to mediate daily....I do the guided meditations on YouTube which I find helpful in silencing my busy mind.

A few of my intentions for 2018 include:

Meditation
More balance work/play
Be more creative

Gayandgray · 01-03-2018, 11:24 PM

Well since my health is now suffering I have no choice but to lose weight. I’m re-commiting back to low carb and starting to slowly add exercise to my daily routine. Like others, I too, want to try to meditate at least for a short amount of time to start, each day. I’m thinking even 5-10 minutes a day would help.

Bèsame* · 01-04-2018, 12:06 AM

Dont give up on your dreams...just keep sleeping 💤💤💤😇

akiza · 01-04-2018, 07:17 AM

i think that i've told that in my fb account and in groups i keep wishing the best for others and for me ^^ to be less shy,always open minded,to keep an eye on my weight*really i don't want to add more*,to finish that year

Mopsie · 01-20-2018, 12:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mopsie

I decided to focus on meditation first. My plan is to start meditating each day for ten minutes and increase that time as I am able.

I have been meditating most nights. I have worked my way up to about 20 minutes a day although I have to admit that some days I stopped before the 20 minutes was up.

I have really noticed that it helps me stay calmer during the day and more focused.

How is everybody else doing so far?

Kätzchen · 11-26-2019, 11:37 PM

Goal (s): I plan to have three big bills paid off in full, so when I take a vacation next fall, I can take the dream vacation I have always wanted.

My biggest wish is to see justice served to the current person occupying the WH, and to see all their followers get the comeuppance they deserve. So that the social message they receive loud and clear is that cheaters, liars and manipulators deserve no reward for their behavioral choices that hurt others.

Gemme · 11-27-2019, 09:49 AM

My main goal is to stay on my financial plan. It's a 3 year plan but if I get lucky with hours and get some good bonuses in, I could reduce that down to 2.5 years.

My wish is that my paperwork for the medical program I applied to goes through and I can start the treatments before the end of the year and January at the latest.

Chad · 11-27-2019, 10:02 PM

I don't really do New Years goals but for 2020 all I want is for my shoulder to be 100% again.

I am blessed with a great life and good health so I think that is all that I could ask for.

homoe · 12-27-2019, 09:32 AM

BUMP BUMP ..........

cathexis · 12-27-2019, 07:27 PM

We have to get out of this one-horse town. No movie theatre or any other entertainment.

I haven't been out of the apartment except for doctor's appointments and one trip to the grocery since October 2018. I am going crazy, afraid I'm getting a little agoraphobic.

We need to move back to a city where there are things to do and places to go. Before my Partner's sister stranded us here, we lived in Albuquerque. Before that I was a traveling RN, taking contracts around the country. Now disabled, I don't know what to do with myself now.

homoe · 12-27-2019, 08:56 PM

~~
It's not a goal but I do wish I could pick up and haul myself off of Green Acres & to Chicago!

FireSignFemme · 12-27-2019, 11:18 PM

-Start a gratitude list and every day write down at least one thing I'm thankful for.

-Keep a baby book for my grandson since daughter-in law doesn't plan to do that.

-Spend time playing laser tag or engaging Monte in some other form of exercise at least three times a week.

12-29-2017, 07:32 AM	#45
Mopsie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Female ones Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Shenandoah Valley Virginia Posts: 4,769 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36,246 Thanked 8,554 Times in 1,856 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Balance and consistency I've been thinking about the New Year. Normally I like to have goals. The social worker in me likes them to be measurable and realistic. But so far I just have sort of a mantra or a theme for the year. Balance and consistency. These are two things that I'm not particularly good at - I have a little bit of ADHD and a bit of an addictive personality so I tend to focus all my energy on one or two things at a time and then refocus something else. When I do that I forget areas of my life that need tending to - often those neglected areas are the ones that involve self care.

12-30-2017, 11:19 AM	#46
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,301 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 28,995 Thanked 40,851 Times in 10,667 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	__________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

01-03-2018, 11:24 PM	#50
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,860 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,881 Times in 3,078 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Well since my health is now suffering I have no choice but to lose weight. I’m re-commiting back to low carb and starting to slowly add exercise to my daily routine. Like others, I too, want to try to meditate at least for a short amount of time to start, each day. I’m thinking even 5-10 minutes a day would help. __________________

01-04-2018, 12:06 AM	#51
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,301 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 28,995 Thanked 40,851 Times in 10,667 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Dont give up on your dreams...just keep sleeping 💤💤💤😇 __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

11-27-2019, 09:49 AM	#55
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,496 Thanked 108,178 Times in 25,669 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	My main goal is to stay on my financial plan. It's a 3 year plan but if I get lucky with hours and get some good bonuses in, I could reduce that down to 2.5 years. My wish is that my paperwork for the medical program I applied to goes through and I can start the treatments before the end of the year and January at the latest. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

12-28-2017, 09:27 PM	#44
Kelt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Beach Butch Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: SoCal Posts: 2,751 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19,765 Thanked 15,318 Times in 2,539 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I want to go home. I am so out of place where I am, not even sure where that is, I split my time between two states and neither place is right. I may fly down in the spring and pick up a temp apt or something... 'Cause who doesn't want to live in three states, right?

01-04-2018, 07:17 AM	#52
akiza Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: khaleessi lol ^-^ just go with aki,ana,kit or princess Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2017 Location: Congo-brazzaville Posts: 774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 318 Thanked 623 Times in 285 Posts Rep Power: 0	i think that i've told that in my fb account and in groups i keep wishing the best for others and for me ^^ to be less shy,always open minded,to keep an eye on my weightreally i don't want to add more,to finish that year

11-26-2019, 11:37 PM	#54
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: May 2010 Location: . Posts: 15,839 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,630 Thanked 33,387 Times in 10,548 Posts Rep Power: 21474866	Goal (s): I plan to have three big bills paid off in full, so when I take a vacation next fall, I can take the dream vacation I have always wanted. My biggest wish is to see justice served to the current person occupying the WH, and to see all their followers get the comeuppance they deserve. So that the social message they receive loud and clear is that cheaters, liars and manipulators deserve no reward for their behavioral choices that hurt others.

11-27-2019, 10:02 PM	#56
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,320 Times in 5,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	New year I don't really do New Years goals but for 2020 all I want is for my shoulder to be 100% again. I am blessed with a great life and good health so I think that is all that I could ask for.

12-27-2019, 09:32 AM	#57
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,571 Times in 14,919 Posts Rep Power: 21474890	BUMP BUMP ..........

12-27-2019, 07:27 PM	#58
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,709 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	We have to get out of this one-horse town. No movie theatre or any other entertainment. I haven't been out of the apartment except for doctor's appointments and one trip to the grocery since October 2018. I am going crazy, afraid I'm getting a little agoraphobic. We need to move back to a city where there are things to do and places to go. Before my Partner's sister stranded us here, we lived in Albuquerque. Before that I was a traveling RN, taking contracts around the country. Now disabled, I don't know what to do with myself now.

12-27-2019, 08:56 PM	#59
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,571 Times in 14,919 Posts Rep Power: 21474890	~~ It's not a goal but I do wish I could pick up and haul myself off of Green Acres & to Chicago!

12-27-2019, 11:18 PM	#60
FireSignFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: N/A Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: WA Posts: 4,434 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37,962 Thanked 10,326 Times in 3,143 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	-Start a gratitude list and every day write down at least one thing I'm thankful for. -Keep a baby book for my grandson since daughter-in law doesn't plan to do that. -Spend time playing laser tag or engaging Monte in some other form of exercise at least three times a week.