What pissed you off today? - Page 30

Vlasta · 01-17-2012, 10:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet

Every morning or after every bath I get pissed and upset lately at loosing so much hair ... by the handful ... wondering why I'm not bald yet? It brings flash backs to when mom lost her's due to chemo. Lupus and other health issues piss me off. So limiting.

I am sorry , but I am in the same situation . Never in my life I was loosing my hair , Now, for the past three months , I think due to the stress, I just get out of the shower and I am pulling handful hair out of my head . It almost feels like I am on a round of chemotherapy .

My life has been in turmoil and I didn't have a time to make appointment with a MD . I never specialized in Dermatology so I am not as educated about conditions . I know a basic things , but that about it .

I am hoping when my situation resolve , I will make an appointment and I will see what is going on . Good luck to you , take care yourself . You are important

Random · 01-18-2012, 01:57 AM

I had semi sweet choc morsals in the pantry...
Now I don't...

hmmmmm

So much for choc dipped choc haznut sandwich cookies..

Honey · 01-18-2012, 03:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Random

I had semi sweet choc morsals in the pantry...
Now I don't...

hmmmmm

So much for choc dipped choc haznut sandwich cookies..

No Cookies ?!! F**k !! now Im pissed off !!!! Wheres ma girl Smouldering...She bakes !!

Honey · 01-18-2012, 03:12 AM

Still fuming about my baby having trouble getting a Visa to get into the country !! S/hy may just have to marry me....Muahahahaha...(this could work to my advantage !)......lemonade, anyone ??

Rockinonahigh · 01-18-2012, 12:55 PM

Today I had to contact the sso about sighning up for medicare,I got the agent from hell,she was more than simi rude..sorta like the teacher that u cant ever say a word to she says..we wont talk about that cause this is what I know I looked it up.........U can bet im getting it straightend out.People like this grade my nerves to no end no mater how nice I am.

Honey · 01-18-2012, 06:46 PM

Femmes that paid ZERO attention to your butch until they realize hys taken.....theres gonna be a WWE smackdown !!

Gráinne · 01-18-2012, 07:27 PM

I think the events of the last few days prove I should just shut up, because people make no damn sense.

Some background, to make a long story even longer: My daughter (13) is good friends with a fifth-grade girl who lives in the next building, "Hannah". Hannah has a 3rd grade brother who is friends with my son (11). They live with their father.

Downstairs from us is our neighbor, his oldest daughter, OD's two children, OD's boyfriend, neighbor's younger daughter (who goes to school with my daughter), and the boyfriend's younger brother. I don't like neighbor, but he is the supervisor of maitenance for the complex, and so I have to stay on his good side.

So that's the cast of characters.

Last weekend, Hannah asked if she could spend Sunday night at my apartment (Monday was no school). As I understood, her father was going to be out of town all night. I was concerned about this, and so told her that I had to talk to her dad myself to understand. I asked about her brother, and she said he would stay in their apartment with the boyfriend's younger brother, age 14.

I do know that the younger brother has a juvvie record, and I just plain feel hincky around him. He's ridden other kids' bikes (including mine) without permission. I've combated bad language from the kids ever since he's been here. I've discouraged my kids from playing with him.

Nothing more was said about Sunday until Sunday afternoon, when I finally spoke with Hannah's father. He was coming home after all, and I told him I'd just needed to verify where he was going to be before Hannah spent the night. He bristled at this, and said "So she isn't welcome in your home?"

I assured him he was, but I needed to know where a parent was going to be when there was a sleepover. I then said something like, "I'm probably overstepping my bounds, but I do have to say I was concerned about *Hannah's brother* staying with *younger brother*. I felt that *younger brother* was probably not such a hot influence for my own kids, and have discouraged the friendship." Father seemed grateful to hear that, as they are fairly new here and didn't know anyone too well.

Well, according to my daughter, all the sh*t hit the fan. Somehow, the father is angry with me (of course; he probably knows I'd call the authorities if I knew a 14 year old was staying overnight alone with a 9 year old). The family downstairs is angry with me. My daughter is angry with me. Not one adult has come to talk to me; this is all second-hand.

I don't understand people. I know minding my own business isn't my strong suit, but I don't see what I did wrong. My take is everyone knows I will call them on bullshittery and that's what makes them angry. I don't know.

I have so much to do tonight, and all I want to do is curl up and listen to music.

Kelsfemme · 01-31-2012, 10:03 PM

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Admin · 01-31-2012, 10:17 PM

KelsFemme-

June JUST moderated this thread for an ugly post so I am kinda agog that you immediately came in here and posted something ugly.

I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt and not time you out for what you just posted since you have never been in trouble here but I want you to review the part of our Terms of Service where we ask folks to leave their personal drama and ugly posts off of the site.

Don't use this or any other thread to poke, jab, or otherwise post things that will spread drama across the site.

Thanks,
Admin

Admin · 01-31-2012, 10:26 PM

All -

The Mod team is at their limit for people using these threads as their personal drama toilets and we will not be issuing any more warnings about posts that most people would KNOW are ugly.

Any further posts that poke at an ex, stir drama, or are just plain hateful or ugly will receive an immediate time-out.

We have had an inordinate amount of reported posts and crazy bullshit in the last week so if you find yourself feeling ugly, it would be best for you to log out and take a walk rather than test the boundaries of moderation here.

Posting in this community is a privilege, not a right and nobody here has the right to hold the community hostage with their drama or ugly feelings. PLEASE do your best to respect the rules of this community and operate as if there are other people who have to exist in this space with the words you put out there.

Thanks,
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smouldering · 02-01-2012, 06:42 AM

What pissed me off? This morning, 4am JUST as i was falling back asleep, my upstairs neighbor decides to *stomp stomp stomp* around right above my head.. Grrr... I will NOT miss this when we move.. and can it be soon please?
Thanks!...

dixie · 02-21-2012, 07:32 AM

Not falling asleep til late last night because your mind won't shut off sucks.

Being woken up at 6am sucks.

Being woken up at 6am by an ASSHAT sucks worse.

Knowing that I have an exam this afternoon in which I will have no competent brain functioning due to lack of sleep sucks even worse than that.

Grrrrrrrrr

Sassy · 02-28-2012, 07:11 PM

People I refer to as friends are planning a going away party for a dear friend of mine. They all seem to think it's a great idea of it's held at my ex husband's house. This would effectively uninvite me. I can be in the same room as my ex and politely ignore him. There's no way I can go hang out in the house he lives in, among all of the things/possessions/furnishings/art/dvds/etc that were purchased by my paychecks over the course of a decade, and listen to his egotistical rantings, abrasive soliloquies and crass jokes and NOT pull a sword from a wall and stab him repeatedly. I just can't. I won't. And it's BS for anyone to ask me to. ... So I guess I'll see just who gives a damn about whether or not I get invited to my friend's send off. Oh, and it's a surprise party. So I can't talk to my friend and mention this. He would just show up to a big send off and I wouldn't be there. RAWR~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Gemme · 02-28-2012, 07:27 PM

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/0...6pLid%3D139296

A woman fights cancer and is considered cancer free. Years later, she gets pregnant and has a beautiful baby girl. After the baby's born, they realize the cancer has come back and now the mother has stage 4 melanoma. The mother passes away.

Now, the baby, at 9 months, has also been diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma. It passed from her mom to her in utero.

How sad for that man to lose his wife and now be facing losing his baby girl and from the exact SAME disease that took his wife.

That makes me sad and pisses me off all at the same time.

Gemme · 02-28-2012, 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sassy

People I refer to as friends are planning a going away party for a dear friend of mine. They all seem to think it's a great idea of it's held at my ex husband's house. This would effectively uninvite me. I can be in the same room as my ex and politely ignore him. There's no way I can go hang out in the house he lives in, among all of the things/possessions/furnishings/art/dvds/etc that were purchased by my paychecks over the course of a decade, and listen to his egotistical rantings, abrasive soliloquies and crass jokes and NOT pull a sword from a wall and stab him repeatedly. I just can't. I won't. And it's BS for anyone to ask me to. ... So I guess I'll see just who gives a damn about whether or not I get invited to my friend's send off. Oh, and it's a surprise party. So I can't talk to my friend and mention this. He would just show up to a big send off and I wouldn't be there. RAWR~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Why don't you ask your friend if you and he can spend some time together before he leaves? Just pick another day other than the one of his party.

Sassy · 03-02-2012, 09:15 PM

Today? How about this week ... A silly, leggy, giggly thing got a promotion some time back. I had hopes. But no, she's a silly, leggy, giggly thing. ... She failed to deliver on a project. Which should have been her problem. We share a boss. Our boss isn't here this week. ... Our bosses' boss decided project needed delivered and damn fast. Suddenly, this is put in my lap and deemed to now be my problem. ... But but but ... my department is understaffed and we already have issues getting another project done on time. ... I tried explaining. Seems it wasn't my bosses' boss' problem. Just mine. ... Days and days of 12 hr shifts, working from home and general SUCK ... and now ... Whew! ... Project is finally done. ... But wait ... silly, leggy, giggly thing seems certain that she participated in accomplishing majority of said project... WAT?

deedarino · 03-02-2012, 09:19 PM

Not a darn thing could piss me off today :-)

Gemme · 03-02-2012, 10:32 PM

This did.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/0...6pLid%3D140274

Sassy · 03-03-2012, 08:51 PM

Eggshells.

tonaderspeisung · 03-06-2012, 07:05 PM

this morning the news reported that robert b. sherman died at 86
he wrote a bunch of memorable songs including
it's a small world (after all)

of all the songs why include the audio for this contagious ear worm - whyyyyy?

i can't make it go away for the life of me and everywhere i've tried to escape to it has reared it's catchy head

01-18-2012, 01:57 AM	#582
Random Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: back in the land of trees and snow Posts: 2,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,017 Thanked 5,326 Times in 1,379 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I had semi sweet choc morsals in the pantry... Now I don't... hmmmmm So much for choc dipped choc haznut sandwich cookies.. __________________ ~Volunteer~ "It gets in your blood"

01-18-2012, 07:27 PM	#587
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,818 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,011 Thanked 7,245 Times in 1,415 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	tired, frustrated, angry I think the events of the last few days prove I should just shut up, because people make no damn sense. Some background, to make a long story even longer: My daughter (13) is good friends with a fifth-grade girl who lives in the next building, "Hannah". Hannah has a 3rd grade brother who is friends with my son (11). They live with their father. Downstairs from us is our neighbor, his oldest daughter, OD's two children, OD's boyfriend, neighbor's younger daughter (who goes to school with my daughter), and the boyfriend's younger brother. I don't like neighbor, but he is the supervisor of maitenance for the complex, and so I have to stay on his good side. So that's the cast of characters. Last weekend, Hannah asked if she could spend Sunday night at my apartment (Monday was no school). As I understood, her father was going to be out of town all night. I was concerned about this, and so told her that I had to talk to her dad myself to understand. I asked about her brother, and she said he would stay in their apartment with the boyfriend's younger brother, age 14. I do know that the younger brother has a juvvie record, and I just plain feel hincky around him. He's ridden other kids' bikes (including mine) without permission. I've combated bad language from the kids ever since he's been here. I've discouraged my kids from playing with him. Nothing more was said about Sunday until Sunday afternoon, when I finally spoke with Hannah's father. He was coming home after all, and I told him I'd just needed to verify where he was going to be before Hannah spent the night. He bristled at this, and said "So she isn't welcome in your home?" I assured him he was, but I needed to know where a parent was going to be when there was a sleepover. I then said something like, "I'm probably overstepping my bounds, but I do have to say I was concerned about Hannah's brother staying with younger brother. I felt that younger brother was probably not such a hot influence for my own kids, and have discouraged the friendship." Father seemed grateful to hear that, as they are fairly new here and didn't know anyone too well. Well, according to my daughter, all the sh*t hit the fan. Somehow, the father is angry with me (of course; he probably knows I'd call the authorities if I knew a 14 year old was staying overnight alone with a 9 year old). The family downstairs is angry with me. My daughter is angry with me. Not one adult has come to talk to me; this is all second-hand. I don't understand people. I know minding my own business isn't my strong suit, but I don't see what I did wrong. My take is everyone knows I will call them on bullshittery and that's what makes them angry. I don't know. I have so much to do tonight, and all I want to do is curl up and listen to music. __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

01-31-2012, 10:03 PM	#588
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02-01-2012, 06:42 AM	#591
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02-28-2012, 07:27 PM	#594
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01-18-2012, 03:12 AM	#584
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01-18-2012, 12:55 PM	#585
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,937 Times in 3,936 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Today I had to contact the sso about sighning up for medicare,I got the agent from hell,she was more than simi rude..sorta like the teacher that u cant ever say a word to she says..we wont talk about that cause this is what I know I looked it up.........U can bet im getting it straightend out.People like this grade my nerves to no end no mater how nice I am.

01-18-2012, 06:46 PM	#586
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01-31-2012, 10:17 PM	#589
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01-31-2012, 10:26 PM	#590
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02-21-2012, 07:32 AM	#592
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,385 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Not falling asleep til late last night because your mind won't shut off sucks. Being woken up at 6am sucks. Being woken up at 6am by an ASSHAT sucks worse. Knowing that I have an exam this afternoon in which I will have no competent brain functioning due to lack of sleep sucks even worse than that. Grrrrrrrrr

02-28-2012, 07:11 PM	#593
Sassy Member How Do You Identify?: Female Relationship Status: Together Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: In the sunshine Posts: 598 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 815 Thanked 1,928 Times in 460 Posts Rep Power: 19641162	People I refer to as friends are planning a going away party for a dear friend of mine. They all seem to think it's a great idea of it's held at my ex husband's house. This would effectively uninvite me. I can be in the same room as my ex and politely ignore him. There's no way I can go hang out in the house he lives in, among all of the things/possessions/furnishings/art/dvds/etc that were purchased by my paychecks over the course of a decade, and listen to his egotistical rantings, abrasive soliloquies and crass jokes and NOT pull a sword from a wall and stab him repeatedly. I just can't. I won't. And it's BS for anyone to ask me to. ... So I guess I'll see just who gives a damn about whether or not I get invited to my friend's send off. Oh, and it's a surprise party. So I can't talk to my friend and mention this. He would just show up to a big send off and I wouldn't be there. RAWR~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

03-02-2012, 09:15 PM	#596
Sassy Member How Do You Identify?: Female Relationship Status: Together Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: In the sunshine Posts: 598 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 815 Thanked 1,928 Times in 460 Posts Rep Power: 19641162	Today? How about this week ... A silly, leggy, giggly thing got a promotion some time back. I had hopes. But no, she's a silly, leggy, giggly thing. ... She failed to deliver on a project. Which should have been her problem. We share a boss. Our boss isn't here this week. ... Our bosses' boss decided project needed delivered and damn fast. Suddenly, this is put in my lap and deemed to now be my problem. ... But but but ... my department is understaffed and we already have issues getting another project done on time. ... I tried explaining. Seems it wasn't my bosses' boss' problem. Just mine. ... Days and days of 12 hr shifts, working from home and general SUCK ... and now ... Whew! ... Project is finally done. ... But wait ... silly, leggy, giggly thing seems certain that she participated in accomplishing majority of said project... *WAT?*

03-02-2012, 09:19 PM	#597
deedarino Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Woman Relationship Status: In recovery. Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Oregon Posts: 632 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,518 Thanked 1,955 Times in 496 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Not a darn thing could piss me off today :-) __________________ Squint your eyes and look closer. I'm not between you and your ambitions. I am a poster girl with no poster. I am thirty-two flavors and then some. And I'm beyond your peripheral vision, so you might want to turn your head~Ani I want to think again of dangerous and noble things; I want to be light and frolicsome; I want to be improbable, beautiful and afraid of nothing as if I had wings Mary Oliver

03-02-2012, 10:32 PM	#598
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03-03-2012, 08:51 PM	#599
Sassy Member How Do You Identify?: Female Relationship Status: Together Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: In the sunshine Posts: 598 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 815 Thanked 1,928 Times in 460 Posts Rep Power: 19641162	Eggshells.

03-06-2012, 07:05 PM	#600
tonaderspeisung Member How Do You Identify?: asleep at the synthesizer Preferred Pronoun?: crown prince of dirty disco Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: the dollar bin Posts: 1,392 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,082 Thanked 1,790 Times in 856 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	this morning the news reported that robert b. sherman died at 86 he wrote a bunch of memorable songs including it's a small world (after all) of all the songs why include the audio for this contagious ear worm - whyyyyy? i can't make it go away for the life of me and everywhere i've tried to escape to it has reared it's catchy head