What is on your mind - Page 304

GoddessJess · 06-13-2011, 02:02 PM

today on my mind is a mix of ugghh and whaaa!
lol with a side of "I don't wanna"
This last weekend my partner and I celebrated our anniversary, a friends sons graduation and then tackled yard work...this new chemo sucks butt! It's harder on me then the last round and now he wants to get all aggressive on me...jesus dude!
Im happy I havent lost my hair though and thanks to nano technology I havent lost my tits wich I may add was my biggest fear!
what? I love my boobs!

Leigh · 06-13-2011, 02:23 PM

I can't seem to stop thinking about what has been running through My head for a few days now ~ I need to make some serious changes in My life

Queerasfck · 06-13-2011, 02:24 PM

So thankful for the power outage at work. We all got sent home after only working three hours.

princessbelle · 06-14-2011, 08:26 AM

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BROTHER!!!!!!!

I miss you more than i could ever express.

No hats or birthday cake around today, but today...

I celebrate your beautiful life and remember how precious you were to me and so many other people. You were taken from us way too early.

Thank you for being the bestest big brother in the whole wide world!!!!!

I love and miss you SO much!!!!

your little sis

VuDu · 06-14-2011, 08:59 AM

How is it the dog takes up more surface area on the sofa than the humans do? *shakes head*

asphaltcowboi · 06-14-2011, 09:30 AM

how they came up with the word boob

UofMfan · 06-14-2011, 09:41 AM

How lucky and appreciated I am.

dixie · 06-14-2011, 10:06 AM

That I absolutely hate this time of month and all that goes along with it.

Gemme · 06-14-2011, 10:48 AM

I do not want to go to work today. I want to stay home with Ebon and listen to him work while I sit behind him, working on crafty goodness and watching the telly.

I do not want to go to work today.

asphaltcowboi · 06-14-2011, 11:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody

how they came up with the word boob
ok opps......think i have it

ok think i have it

asphaltcowboi · 06-14-2011, 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody

ok think i have it

friggin pic wont work.. dang it!! lol maybe its a pic of me.. sheeez cant believe it.. it shows up in the preview

sweetfemme247 · 06-14-2011, 12:30 PM

Thinking about my future and people I need to let go that have dragged me down, the good times and the bad times.

asphaltcowboi · 06-14-2011, 12:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody

wasnt worth it just frustrated me. hope it shows this time ..

asphaltcowboi · 06-14-2011, 12:38 PM

hmm dont know what im doing messin around on here today anyway.. have stuff i need to do.. grrr broke my bed wrestling with my dog last night... guess i better fix it befor bedtime.

JustJo · 06-14-2011, 01:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody

hmm dont know what im doing messin around on here today anyway.. have stuff i need to do.. grrr broke my bed wrestling with my dog last night... guess i better fix it befor bedtime.

Surrrreeeee.....wrestling with the dog.....

Leigh · 06-14-2011, 01:18 PM

Looking forward, wondering what is to come of the future

dixie · 06-14-2011, 09:35 PM

I took some kind of relationship assessment thingy a little while ago. I had to answer 100 q's. I finally got my results. Now I'm contemplating them. Kinda interesting, but didn't really tell me anything I didn't already know.

Interdependence...you need someone who reciprocates a strong feeling of attachment to a partner but who also respects and copes well with the fact that you benefit from a reasonable level of physical and psychological space at times.

Intimacy...you need someone who believes and acts on the belief that the intimacy of a relationship is sacred.

Self-efficacy...you need a partner who is energetic, enthusiastic and has high self-efficacy like you and will support or even participate in your personal and professional interests that feed your sense of identity and accomplishment.

Relationship readiness...you need someone who is not looking to be taken care of, but rather who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and satisfying relationship.

Communication...you need someone who is eager to give, collect and discuss information with you patiently versus communicate with you on superficial levels out of convenience.

Conflict resolution...you need a partner who is patient, a “big picture thinker” and can relinquish control and pride to make the best decisions for the good and growth of the relationship.

Sexuality...you need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love and who appreciates when it is planned to some extent rather than completely spontaneous.

Attitudes toward love...you need someone who believes that the best kind of love grows out of a strong friendship.

Preferred Expressions of Affection...You need someone who can express affection through simple or grand acts of kindness – such as helping you out around the house, running errands for you or doing favors without being asked. This does not mean that you neither like nor need Verbal Communication. Rather, it suggests that you need someone who can show affection in ways other than just verbal expressions such as spontaneous compliments, frequent “I love you’s,” occasional notes for you to find and recognition of your achievements.

Leigh · 06-14-2011, 11:15 PM

I just finished having a shower and even with how little time it took to finish, I had been doing alot of thinking about My future and where I want it to go. As of right now I am 31 years old and other than having My G.E.D, I don't feel that I have much to show for it. I'm not currently working (though I have a couple of reasons for this right now), I don't have My own place and I'm not as independant as I would like to be. I realize that I am responsible for this however I really came to realize why I lack those things ~ I've been spending most of My adult life sabotaging My own need to be happy.

Having dealt with being constantly teased and tormented as a kid for My weight problems, suffering from depression and panic/anxiety attacks as well as a father who has no problem reminding Me constantly of what is wrong with Me as a person, I simply never thought that I deserved to be happy. I've had people tell Me that I deserve it, however I never really wanted to listen to that ~ until now. I've finally begun to really look into My soul and try to figure out what it is that I want ........ what is going to make Me happy? What are My goals, wants, needs? Where do I see Myself in 5 years? 10 years? This new found knowledge, and sense of empowerment, is really beginning to change My way of thinking.

I can see a very bright future for Myself, as long as I stick to going after what I want then I will succeed in being happy :-)

dixie · 06-15-2011, 05:43 AM

I just remembered that on Friday I have to work a 15hr shift. Oh, and we have a staff meeting at 4pm on Friday also. Yay...not.

06-15-2011, 06:13 AM

Whether or not I'm going to be able to hand my assignment in today or whether it will be tomorrow.

06-13-2011, 02:02 PM	#6061
GoddessJess Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Oh so Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess, Queen, Lover Relationship Status: In hys arms Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Bunker Hill, WV Posts: 12 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5 Thanked 19 Times in 7 Posts Rep Power: 472139	today on my mind is a mix of ugghh and whaaa! lol with a side of "I don't wanna" This last weekend my partner and I celebrated our anniversary, a friends sons graduation and then tackled yard work...this new chemo sucks butt! It's harder on me then the last round and now he wants to get all aggressive on me...jesus dude! Im happy I havent lost my hair though and thanks to nano technology I havent lost my tits wich I may add was my biggest fear! what? I love my boobs! __________________ Sure God created man before woman. But then you always make a rough draft before the final masterpiece. ~Author Unknown

06-13-2011, 02:23 PM	#6062
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I can't seem to stop thinking about what has been running through My head for a few days now ~ I need to make some serious changes in My life __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

06-13-2011, 02:24 PM	#6063
Queerasfck Senior Member How Do You Identify?: still ballin' Relationship Status: Triple X Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west side Posts: 2,544 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,716 Thanked 6,491 Times in 1,638 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	So thankful for the power outage at work. We all got sent home after only working three hours. __________________ http://www.advertisingarchives.co.uk...28750fb328.jpg

06-14-2011, 08:26 AM	#6064
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,499 Times in 5,201 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BROTHER!!!!!!! I miss you more than i could ever express. No hats or birthday cake around today, but today... I celebrate your beautiful life and remember how precious you were to me and so many other people. You were taken from us way too early. Thank you for being the bestest big brother in the whole wide world!!!!! I love and miss you SO much!!!! your little sis __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

06-14-2011, 08:59 AM	#6065
VuDu Member How Do You Identify?: Femme with a Wicked Twist Preferred Pronoun?: Trouble Maker Relationship Status: My heart is my own Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Between the cemetary and the reservoir Posts: 248 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 174 Thanked 208 Times in 92 Posts Rep Power: 1021102	How is it the dog takes up more surface area on the sofa than the humans do? shakes head __________________ You don't always get answers for what happens - because sometimes the answers were not for you, they were lessons for someone else.

06-14-2011, 09:30 AM	#6066
asphaltcowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: HAPPY Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 1,509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,367 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,042 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	how they came up with the word boob __________________

06-14-2011, 09:41 AM	#6067
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06-14-2011, 10:06 AM	#6068
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,384 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	That I absolutely hate this time of month and all that goes along with it.

06-14-2011, 10:48 AM	#6069
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,979 Times in 25,665 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I do not want to go to work today. I want to stay home with Ebon and listen to him work while I sit behind him, working on crafty goodness and watching the telly. I do not want to go to work today. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

06-14-2011, 12:30 PM	#6072
sweetfemme247 Member How Do You Identify?: fem Preferred Pronoun?: femme, she, her, baby, sweetie Relationship Status: holding my heart close and putting back up a wall Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: california, palm springs Posts: 994 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 206 Thanked 719 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 4115671	Thinking about my future and people I need to let go that have dragged me down, the good times and the bad times. __________________ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn

06-14-2011, 12:38 PM	#6074
asphaltcowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: HAPPY Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 1,509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,367 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,042 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	hmm dont know what im doing messin around on here today anyway.. have stuff i need to do.. grrr broke my bed wrestling with my dog last night... guess i better fix it befor bedtime. __________________

06-14-2011, 01:18 PM	#6076
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Looking forward, wondering what is to come of the future __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

06-14-2011, 09:35 PM	#6077
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,384 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I took some kind of relationship assessment thingy a little while ago. I had to answer 100 q's. I finally got my results. Now I'm contemplating them. Kinda interesting, but didn't really tell me anything I didn't already know. Interdependence...you need someone who reciprocates a strong feeling of attachment to a partner but who also respects and copes well with the fact that you benefit from a reasonable level of physical and psychological space at times. Intimacy...you need someone who believes and acts on the belief that the intimacy of a relationship is sacred. Self-efficacy...you need a partner who is energetic, enthusiastic and has high self-efficacy like you and will support or even participate in your personal and professional interests that feed your sense of identity and accomplishment. Relationship readiness...you need someone who is not looking to be taken care of, but rather who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and satisfying relationship. Communication...you need someone who is eager to give, collect and discuss information with you patiently versus communicate with you on superficial levels out of convenience. Conflict resolution...you need a partner who is patient, a “big picture thinker” and can relinquish control and pride to make the best decisions for the good and growth of the relationship. Sexuality...you need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love and who appreciates when it is planned to some extent rather than completely spontaneous. Attitudes toward love...you need someone who believes that the best kind of love grows out of a strong friendship. Preferred Expressions of Affection...You need someone who can express affection through simple or grand acts of kindness – such as helping you out around the house, running errands for you or doing favors without being asked. This does not mean that you neither like nor need Verbal Communication. Rather, it suggests that you need someone who can show affection in ways other than just verbal expressions such as spontaneous compliments, frequent “I love you’s,” occasional notes for you to find and recognition of your achievements.

06-14-2011, 11:15 PM	#6078
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I just finished having a shower and even with how little time it took to finish, I had been doing alot of thinking about My future and where I want it to go. As of right now I am 31 years old and other than having My G.E.D, I don't feel that I have much to show for it. I'm not currently working (though I have a couple of reasons for this right now), I don't have My own place and I'm not as independant as I would like to be. I realize that I am responsible for this however I really came to realize why I lack those things ~ I've been spending most of My adult life sabotaging My own need to be happy. Having dealt with being constantly teased and tormented as a kid for My weight problems, suffering from depression and panic/anxiety attacks as well as a father who has no problem reminding Me constantly of what is wrong with Me as a person, I simply never thought that I deserved to be happy. I've had people tell Me that I deserve it, however I never really wanted to listen to that ~ until now. I've finally begun to really look into My soul and try to figure out what it is that I want ........ what is going to make Me happy? What are My goals, wants, needs? Where do I see Myself in 5 years? 10 years? This new found knowledge, and sense of empowerment, is really beginning to change My way of thinking. I can see a very bright future for Myself, as long as I stick to going after what I want then I will succeed in being happy :-) __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

06-15-2011, 05:43 AM	#6079
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,384 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I just remembered that on Friday I have to work a 15hr shift. Oh, and we have a staff meeting at 4pm on Friday also. Yay...not.

06-15-2011, 06:13 AM	#6080
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Whether or not I'm going to be able to hand my assignment in today or whether it will be tomorrow.