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			 "Anyone can carry his burden, however hard, until nightfall.  Anyone can do his work, however hard, for one day.  Anyone can live sweetly, patiently, lovingly, purely, till the sun goes down.  And this is all life really means."  ~Robert Louis Stevenson 
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			It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			 "Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace."  ~Victor Hugo 
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			 "Practical life teaches us that people may differ and that both may be wrong: it also teaches us that people may differ and both be right.  Anchor yourself fast in the latter faith, or the former will sweep your heart away."  ~Augustus William Hare and Julius Charles Hare 
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			 Sometimes in our flower bed of life, we have to get rid of the weeds 
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			Happiness grows at our own firesides, and is not to be picked in strangers' gardens. - Douglas Jerrould
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you” 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I Crave Your Mouth, Your Voice, Your Hair 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I crave your mouth, your voice, your hair. Silent and starving, I prowl through the streets. Bread does not nourish me, dawn disrupts me, all day I hunt for the liquid measure of your steps. I hunger for your sleek laugh, your hands the color of a savage harvest, hunger for the pale stones of your fingernails, I want to eat your skin like a whole almond. I want to eat the sunbeam flaring in your lovely body, the sovereign nose of your arrogant face, I want to eat the fleeting shade of your lashes, and I pace around hungry, sniffing the twilight, hunting for you, for your hot heart, like a puma in the barrens of Quitratue. Translated by Stephen Tapscott ~Pablo Neruda 
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	"Sure. It's easy to love someone who's lovable. But, it's hard to love someone who is difficult. The real challenge is to try and love a difficult person."  | 
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			"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them." ~ John Fitzgerald Kennedy
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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	"How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world." ~ Anne Frank “Life's most persistent and urgent question is: 'What are you doing for others?'” ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.  | 
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	Remember anyone can love you when the sun is shining...In the storm is where you learn who truly cares for you  
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			 "Sad will be the day for any man when he becomes contented with the thoughts he is thinking and the deeds he is doing - where there is not forever beating at the doors of his soul some great desire to do something larger; which he knows he was meant and made to do." -  Phillips Brooks 
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			 "Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves." - Carl Jung 
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			 "Don’t believe what your eyes are telling you. All they show is limitation. Look with your understanding, find out what you already know, and you’ll see the way to fly." - Richard Bach 
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			What is a friend? A single soul shared by two people. - Aristotle 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			“Sometimes the most important thing in a whole day is the rest we take between two deep breaths.” Etty Hillesum
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			hangs in the heavy night air haunting and beguiling I watch enamored she begins to sway to call out almost taunting I hesitate watching her sultry dance pulling Me to her I take refuge under her canopy I lie under her staring up into her most intimate places I feel her all around Me and drift off to sleep in the morning slivers of light awaken Me and I know I must go I now know too much you see ~ERS 
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			 "No single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us.  To live is to be slowly born."  ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry 
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