What is on your mind - Page 34

Diva · 01-20-2010, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_G

I don't know why it bothers me so much when people on my facebook page....people I grew up with or some of my local friends....say "you go girl" or "good luck girl", or "you are one crazy girl". I just shudder at that whole "girl" thing. ugh.

Lay off the funnel and look at Your profile, mah Shizzle......

It 'bothers You' cuz You don't ID as "she", "girl", etc. etc. etc.....

There are some who are slower to catch on.....I realize....

xo

Jet · 01-20-2010, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_G

I don't know why it bothers me so much when people on my facebook page....people I grew up with or some of my local friends....say "you go girl" or "good luck girl", or "you are one crazy girl". I just shudder at that whole "girl" thing. ugh.

Don't feel bad, I live in the female pronoun-polite capitol of the world where every sentence starts with.."Miss...." I have responses to those which I don't care to share..

violaine · 01-20-2010, 06:00 PM

colossal - help from vacongrkg

MrSunshine · 01-20-2010, 06:17 PM

double bingo

Cyclopea · 01-20-2010, 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just_G

I don't know why it bothers me so much when people on my facebook page....people I grew up with or some of my local friends....say "you go girl" or "good luck girl", or "you are one crazy girl". I just shudder at that whole "girl" thing. ugh.

I know just what you mean. I'm a very female butch, and yet I still get "sir'ed" all the time! It happened this morning when some clueless bastid said "Excuse me Sir? Sir?" I looked over to see what was going on and realized he meant ME. I looked at him with my best "Are you freakin' nuts?" look and he looked me up and down, up and down, then fixated on my shoes (Nikes) before he finally said "Er, um, maham?" Unbelievable. I am a very womanly butch so I just can't comprehend how some people's gender filters work.

MrSunshine · 01-20-2010, 06:18 PM

SOMEONE HURRY LOOK AT MY PROFILE!!!!! IT'S ON 666

Cyclopea · 01-20-2010, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Deadyboy

SOMEONE HURRY LOOK AT MY PROFILE!!!!! IT'S ON 666

Yayyyyyy!

LMAO!

MrSunshine · 01-20-2010, 06:23 PM

WTF that was the 666 post!

MrSunshine · 01-20-2010, 06:25 PM

is it normal to feel pain in your rectum when that happens or is that from the clenching?

Semantics · 01-20-2010, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Deadyboy

WTF that was the 666 post!

Proof:

I seen it with my own eyeball. Just one though.

violaine · 01-20-2010, 06:39 PM

[QUOTE=Deadyboy;36983]is it normal to feel pain in your rectum when that happens or is that from the clenching?

Spirit Dancer · 01-20-2010, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by violaine

violaine · 01-20-2010, 06:53 PM

medicine-

owls & crows -

ox

Spirit Dancer · 01-20-2010, 06:56 PM

Caw Caw
darkness of night violane sings sweetly

Just_G · 01-20-2010, 08:32 PM

Baby steps! I ordered the brochure from ITT Tech today! Now to figure out which courses I want to take and start the application process and work on financial aid.

A lot of change at one time for me....taking a deep breath as often as I can so I don't freak out. I am terrified!

Diva · 01-20-2010, 08:39 PM

I need for it to rain or not.
Make up your mind already.
If I'm gonna breathe humidity, there needs to be somethin' tangible to justify it.

Strappie · 01-20-2010, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Diva

I need for it to rain or not.
Make up your mind already.
If I'm gonna breathe humidity, there needs to be somethin' tangible to justify it.

Can I just have some heat.. someone turn the HEAT back on.. It's freezing in MN today.

T D · 01-20-2010, 09:40 PM

You two are funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnyyyyyy LOL

Duchess · 01-20-2010, 10:24 PM

I'm thinking it's so funny that friends I used to beg to come visit me in Atlanta, can't wait to come because of The Advocate naming Atlanta the gayest city. Here's a little tidbit.....

1. Atlanta
Georgia isn’t the most gay-friendly state, but Atlanta is undoubtedly our gayest city—with 29 gay bars here, there’s a reason it’s dubbed Hotlanta. Atlanta’s several queer events include one of the nation’s largest Prides in October (returning to Piedmont Park this year), and MondoHomo, a May event celebrating art, drag, burlesque, film, and BBQ. The gay epicenter is Midtown, anchored by Outwrite Books, a giant gay bookstore bucking the national trend—by staying in business! Atlanta guys are hunky, the ladies are gracious, the gay sports leagues are seriously well organized, and its housewives (and their gay BFFs, complete with handbags and heels) are now camp icons. And who doesn’t love the sweet lilt of a Georgia accent on a knockout guy or gal?

apretty · 01-21-2010, 12:33 AM

ez made some amazing banana bread with chocolate chips and pecans--i would like another piece but it's in the kitchen and i can't risk waking the dogs.

also, poor ez has a flu/cold/thing and a fever of 99 degrees. i hate him being sick, he doesn't want me hovering and hates soup. without soup making and/or hovering i'm at a loss as to what my possible role could be.

not sure if i'm going to be able to memorize everything i'll need to for A and P.

i shouldn't have had coffee this evening.

oh and i'm not being passive aggressive but someone was a real jerk when i extended myself the *last* time and they ignored me, and i did nothing besides be a good friend and they chose to just throw our friendship away for no good reason. (this is a real, live actual person and not a member)

01-20-2010, 06:53 PM	#673
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01-20-2010, 06:56 PM	#674
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01-20-2010, 08:32 PM	#675
Just_G Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Switch, Comedian...G...whichever. Preferred Pronoun?: He....with an e! Relationship Status: I'll take kinky & twisted for $200, Alex!! Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the middle Posts: 2,281 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 874 Thanked 6,165 Times in 1,450 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Baby steps! I ordered the brochure from ITT Tech today! Now to figure out which courses I want to take and start the application process and work on financial aid. A lot of change at one time for me....taking a deep breath as often as I can so I don't freak out. I am terrified! __________________ Happy are those who dream and are ready to pay the price to make them come true!

01-20-2010, 09:40 PM	#678
T D Member How Do You Identify?: Person of the trans variety Preferred Pronoun?: He, Sir, Bro, TD, Stevin Relationship Status: On occasion Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 1,165 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,428 Thanked 1,125 Times in 311 Posts Rep Power: 3570339	You two are funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnyyyyyy LOL __________________ “Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

01-20-2010, 10:24 PM	#679
Duchess Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Toe curling :-) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 2,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,792 Thanked 5,592 Times in 1,521 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	*I'm thinking it's so funny that friends I used to beg to come visit me in Atlanta, can't wait to come because of The Advocate naming Atlanta the gayest city. Here's a little tidbit.....* 1. Atlanta Georgia isn’t the most gay-friendly state, but Atlanta is undoubtedly our gayest city—with 29 gay bars here, there’s a reason it’s dubbed Hotlanta. Atlanta’s several queer events include one of the nation’s largest Prides in October (returning to Piedmont Park this year), and MondoHomo, a May event celebrating art, drag, burlesque, film, and BBQ. The gay epicenter is Midtown, anchored by Outwrite Books, a giant gay bookstore bucking the national trend—by staying in business! Atlanta guys are hunky, the ladies are gracious, the gay sports leagues are seriously well organized, and its housewives (and their gay BFFs, complete with handbags and heels) are now camp icons. And who doesn’t love the sweet lilt of a Georgia accent on a knockout guy or gal? __________________ *無料のライブ* Last edited by Duchess; 01-20-2010 at 10:53 PM.

01-20-2010, 06:00 PM	#663
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01-20-2010, 06:17 PM	#664
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01-20-2010, 06:18 PM	#666
MrSunshine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: The Gardner Preferred Pronoun?: Ummmm Relationship Status: Nah Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Sunshine State, State of Sunshine Posts: 2,616 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,577 Thanked 3,891 Times in 1,155 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	SOMEONE HURRY LOOK AT MY PROFILE!!!!! IT'S ON 666

01-20-2010, 06:23 PM	#668
MrSunshine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: The Gardner Preferred Pronoun?: Ummmm Relationship Status: Nah Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Sunshine State, State of Sunshine Posts: 2,616 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,577 Thanked 3,891 Times in 1,155 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	WTF that was the 666 post!

01-20-2010, 06:25 PM	#669
MrSunshine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: The Gardner Preferred Pronoun?: Ummmm Relationship Status: Nah Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Sunshine State, State of Sunshine Posts: 2,616 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,577 Thanked 3,891 Times in 1,155 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	is it normal to feel pain in your rectum when that happens or is that from the clenching?

01-20-2010, 06:39 PM	#671
violaine Timed Out How Do You Identify?: atypical Preferred Pronoun?: plague words and phrases Relationship Status: love wise guys of the avian world Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wekiva springs basin Posts: 3,236 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,934 Thanked 3,293 Times in 1,301 Posts Rep Power: 0	[QUOTE=Deadyboy;36983]is it normal to feel pain in your rectum when that happens or is that from the clenching?

01-20-2010, 08:39 PM	#676
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,174 Times in 5,239 Posts Rep Power: 0	I need for it to rain or not. Make up your mind already. If I'm gonna breathe humidity, there needs to be somethin' tangible to justify it.

01-21-2010, 12:33 AM	#680
apretty Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: sea shell Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: san diego Posts: 1,687 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,927 Thanked 4,373 Times in 1,012 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	ez made some amazing banana bread with chocolate chips and pecans--i would like another piece but it's in the kitchen and i can't risk waking the dogs. also, poor ez has a flu/cold/thing and a fever of 99 degrees. i hate him being sick, he doesn't want me hovering and hates soup. without soup making and/or hovering i'm at a loss as to what my possible role could be. not sure if i'm going to be able to memorize everything i'll need to for A and P. i shouldn't have had coffee this evening. oh and i'm not being passive aggressive but someone was a real jerk when i extended myself the last time and they ignored me, and i did nothing besides be a good friend and they chose to just throw our friendship away for no good reason. (this is a real, live actual person and not a member)