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Old 12-22-2011, 01:23 PM   #6981
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Completely distracted at work today. We've decided to throw in the towel on getting any work done, and sit around one of the meeting rooms later this afternoon watching Elf, eating cookies, and drinking Bailey's. One of my coworkers is wearing a red snuggie with a Santa hat at her desk. She looks like Papa Smurf.
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Therefore... A King Lear quote comes to mind..

"Blow, winds, and crack your cheeks! rage! blow!
You cataracts and hurricanoes, spout
Till you have drenched our steeples, drowned the cocks!
You sulphurous and thought-executing fires,
Vaunt-couriers to oak-cleaving thunderbolts,
Singe my white head! And thou, all-shaking thunder,
Strike flat the thick rotundity o' the world!
Crack nature's moulds, all germens spill at once
That make ingrateful man!"
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Did I mention we have beer on Fridays? Because we totally have beer on Fridays.
I'm SOOOOO THERE! Of course I would have to cut the sleeves off my snuggie so I would look tough!
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missing someone's voice......having to help pack a bag....movie dates....snuggles....and stocking stuff
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That some members of my Scottish family maybe finally accepting the fact that I'm gay. ....I'm forever the optimist.
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Today has been a very strange day. Emotional. Thought provocating. Stalling in plans, for 2 very good reasons. Yet, I can not help but wonder.....

I think I shall peruse the rest of the forum and contribute on this day, it seems the wise thing to do.
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I totally have Beer Friday ENVY... *pouts prettily*
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On my mind, though Life may hand me a disappointment now and again. .. I am still able to stand up and dust myself off and move forward. I have a wonderful and loving family that means the world to me. Though there are miles inbetween one phone call from my Mom and she is right here.

Merry Christmas everyone.

Also, never forget to tell family, friends, whoever is important in your life that you love them. It takes only momemts to say the words, however it would be a life filled with regret if you had not and they were no longer in your life to give that moment to.
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what you're thinking at this very moment.....how excited the kids will be for christmas morning....how long until i hear my beautiful dear ones voices again...
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....reflecting on today.... being excited to have my monster back soon....and new yrs dates *smiles*
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One black spot in the rest of my amazing and wonderful Christmas Day...

... Its one thing to know and understand your parents dont and wont accept you... or support you for who you are... Its possible to look the other way as long as they do the same...

... however, it hurts... when they throw it back in your face...

... Talking to my mom today, about the idea of moving out of the country... and how difficult it is to get a work visa as a teacher in Canada... her response was, well marry some rich, kind man... that would make it simple... I said, actually mom, in Canada I can marry a woman if I want to... and she just right out says... "You need to marry a man." ... *blink* and the conversation ends there... This is nothing new... I have been out for a while now, I am not changing my mind, or going back in the closet for them... *sigh*

but... maybe I do need to stop letting the intolerance slide... maybe I need to put down my foot and put up some barriers... I deserve to be loved by my "family" and if the one I was born with cant do that unconditionally... Maybe its time I concentrated on the one I'm building that does...
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One black spot in the rest of my amazing and wonderful Christmas Day...

... Its one thing to know and understand your parents dont and wont accept you... or support you for who you are... Its possible to look the other way as long as they do the same...

... however, it hurts... when they throw it back in your face...

... Talking to my mom today, about the idea of moving out of the country... and how difficult it is to get a work visa as a teacher in Canada... her response was, well marry some rich, kind man... that would make it simple... I said, actually mom, in Canada I can marry a woman if I want to... and she just right out says... "You need to marry a man." ... *blink* and the conversation ends there... This is nothing new... I have been out for a while now, I am not changing my mind, or going back in the closet for them... *sigh*

but... maybe I do need to stop letting the intolerance slide... maybe I need to put down my foot and put up some barriers... I deserve to be loved by my "family" and if the one I was born with cant do that unconditionally... Maybe its time I concentrated on the one I'm building that does...



i'm sorry your family is throwing things in your face....my family tends to do the same....and you're right it hurts...and you shouldn't have to live with them making you feel less than they are...because of who you love...or how you live your life.....your friends...and the family we're building...love and support you...and no matter what...we'll stick together to make our dreams a reality.....we'll cut a path ...
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OMG what the hell possessed me to go Boxing Day shopping?! I just stood in a 45 minute line at Banana Republic to buy 2 sweaters. I am at this exact moment sitting on the floor in a dressing room at a department store trying to get 5 minutes where someone's elbow isn't in my face. :\

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One black spot in the rest of my amazing and wonderful Christmas Day...

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... Talking to my mom today, about the idea of moving out of the country... and how difficult it is to get a work visa as a teacher in Canada... her response was, well marry some rich, kind man... that would make it simple... I said, actually mom, in Canada I can marry a woman if I want to... and she just right out says... "You need to marry a man." ... *blink* and the conversation ends there... This is nothing new... I have been out for a while now, I am not changing my mind, or going back in the closet for them... *sigh*

but... maybe I do need to stop letting the intolerance slide... maybe I need to put down my foot and put up some barriers... I deserve to be loved by my "family" and if the one I was born with cant do that unconditionally... Maybe its time I concentrated on the one I'm building that does...
I come from a family of Homophobes too. In my immediate family, all thats left is my sister. She officially disowned me after my brothers funeral. Life became a little easier. Sad but true. If no chosen family is left when I finally croak off, animal rescue league will be heir to my estate.

Anyhow, the standard line I am subjected to, be it a funeral, wedding or a run in at a grocery store is *Will you ever lead a normal life?* To which I reply *Tsk, Define Normal, like yours you mean?* Just once I'd love to be asked *How are you?* or *So, what are you doing now?* I found out long ago, life goes on...without them.
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evolution.....*smiles* ...... and as a sidenote...wondering how a couple of gifts can leave such a big mess.....holy wrapping batman
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