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04-11-2012, 04:20 AM
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Timed Out
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that I need to start packing,pick my seat on the plane,dont forget to print out my itinerary.
spend time with my lil one *smiles* |
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04-11-2012, 05:01 AM
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Member
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Punky girly girl, glittery femme Preferred Pronoun?:
she, her, etc. Relationship Status:
Single, Recovering 
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My doggy is in my thoughts, he is getting up there in age and i just worry sometimes..
JustJo and her family are in my thoughts as well. 
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 ~*~Smouldering~*~Suit the action to the word, the word to the action. ~William Shakespeare
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04-11-2012, 05:17 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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dee Relationship Status:
Hitched up 
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That although i am not perfect i am glad i am who i am.
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04-11-2012, 08:27 AM
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Senior Member
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transman Preferred Pronoun?:
male 
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Location: Texas
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Planning for Vegas in May and Houston in June...
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04-11-2012, 05:40 PM
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Member
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Female Relationship Status:
Together 
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Location: In the sunshine
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Sagittarius: Someone who is normally your ally might be pushing your buttons today, prompting you to feel betrayed. Pay attention to your response because you could make everything worse by overreacting. Thankfully, there's a positive side to the current melodrama. Your heart opens as you share your vulnerability, enabling you to become aware of any emotions that have been suppressed. Once you're in touch with your feelings, you can then decide what to do about them.
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04-12-2012, 03:06 AM
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Member
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Transgressive Male Preferred Pronoun?:
masculine Relationship Status:
hog-tied with love 
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my back hurting is better than numbness.
it is better to struggle to be able to tie my own boots than to easily do so in a wheelchair, as I have already been there. reminding myself to be patient, no matter how restless I feel right now. to not get my hopes too high, I might still be trussed up like a turkey for a couple or a few more weeks. especially as I have sucked in the patience department the last 2 days. patience. have I mentioned that I am working on being patient. and for anyone who has seen kung fu panda 2.. "inner peace innerpeaceinnerpeace peacepeacepeacepeacepeace.... ... the mast is not a worthy opponent"
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"Iron rusts from disuse, stagnant water loses its purity, and in cold weather becomes frozen; even so does inaction sap the vigors of the mind." ~~ Da Vinci "If I were to think of and dwell on disastrous possibilities, I could do nothing. I throw myself headlong into my work, and come up again with my studies; if the storm within gets too loud, I take a glass too much to stun myself." ~~ Van Gogh |
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04-12-2012, 04:20 AM
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Timed Out
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Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status:
I don't drive a Uhaul. :)
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Getting ready for work and wondering what I can do to attract love. I've tried the online thing and that's not working. I mean I really can't move for love nor would I ask anyone to do that or I'm attracted to the ones who are taken. I mean this is what my love luck is like. So I want to get a love charm or love spell or do a dance to bring love. I guess I'm tired of not dating and it's time to do it and not be afraid of getting hurt. It's time I grew up and realize that I'm ready for love or a date. I can't let my mom living with me stop me because she won't be living with me much longer. What am I waiting for anyway? Life is just passing me by and I'm a ship that's just floating. Boy am I wasting time. Ok off to work.
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04-12-2012, 04:34 AM
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Infamous Member
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Femme Relationship Status:
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my Beloved is much on my mind this morning...
Despite everything hy's been through hy's still standing...still smiling...i admire hym so much for this...yes, Baby you're my hero! Hys compassion is amazing! How even little things bring us closer and strengthen our relationship...deepens our love... So much needs to be done...trying to figure out how to pull a rabbit out of a hat... The distance between here and our Island, while not unreasonable, can be so darn frustrating! i love hym so very much... |
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04-12-2012, 06:24 AM
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It just dawned on me that I am 42 this year. That in itself is staggering but on top of that this is the year that I can say I've been "out" for half of my life and for pretty much the entirety of that time I have aligned myself very much on the butch side of life... getting further and further on that side as time goes by.
I have had the air let out of my tires, have been in two high speed car chases, been called a fag an amazing number of times (in my earlier life I'd correct them and tell them I was a dyke - this pisses hormonal guys off more - which pleased me more), scared probably around two hundred women (ten a year? I'm being conservative) in the women's bathroom. Made several of them leave the bathroom for fear they entered the wrong bathroom. Confused even more by announcing it was a co-ed bathroom... Told several waiters I'd have "breasts" when asked "what'll you have, sir?" (again, earlier in life)... have had hackers threaten me... was tossed out of where I was living... was shut out of family member's lives... have had hateful life altering things told to me by family members... have been harassed by cops in midtown... have had very close friends walk away... have experienced workplace discrimination - from coworkers and management... and I was about two hours away from being in The Otherside when it was bombed. It's been one hell of a ride and I'd like to thank all of the aforementioned people for helping me along my journey. The flip-side of the coin. I've made an amazing extended family who doesn't give a rats ass who I sleep with or how I present. I've changed several people's minds/views by just "being me" and allowing them to see what a "real" gay person was like. I've been accepted as "one of the guys" by the majority of people at work at this point - and in fact the place I experienced the worst harassment at first - is the place that protects me the most today. I've had amazing sales people in men's stores - I haven't been fitted for a suit yet by a jackass. I don't know if I'm lucky or what - but thank god!! I've been fortunate enough to have been born in a time where I don't have to worry about being carted off to jail for not wearing "3 items of women's apparel". I give thanks to the Butches/TGs/FtMs/Studs before me who paved the way... I have been pleasantly surprised more and more by people who... well.. the cover did not match the book. I am learning day in and day out that as much as they can't judge me by my looks - I shouldn't judge them by theirs. There are some str8 up Southern Baptist looking women out there who blow me away with their liberal views. That's all I'm saying. So yeah... Here's to the next 21 years... I can't wait!
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04-13-2012, 05:20 AM
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Timed Out - Permanent
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butch stone Preferred Pronoun?:
masculine ones work best... Relationship Status:
♥ engaged to spritz ♥ 
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What's on my mind...
... is the "this and that" life offers. I'm on top of the world with my girl and all that we have, all that we dream of and all that we have not yet planned but ummmm plan to plan... I'm also thinking of the darkness I am about to step into with putting my application in at the shelter for employment after I have completed my internship. Yeh, it's just a job.. so you think but it's more to me than that. I have been dependent on disability for well over 20 years because of my sight. The interesting thing is... this... working in a homeless shelter is my "vision." It's completely unknown where things will go but faith and determination are my guide.... I'm freakin petrified. |
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04-13-2012, 08:22 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?:
50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status:
married to my forever
Join Date: May 2011
Location: salt air & sandy beaches
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...snip....[QUOTE=Tawse;563654] I was about two hours away from being in The Otherside when it was bombed.
[QUOTE] we have probably crossed paths there in the past. I WAS there that night..and was sitting right where that thing went off BUT had walked outside about 5 minutes before it went off. I saw that guy there and saw that backpack...never dreamed of anything so horrible...some of my friends were injured there that night.....horrible night!!!
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04-13-2012, 08:35 AM
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The group he belonged to is based in the small town where i work and in addition to their anti-abortion protests they are the main protest group at our local Pride and other LGBT events...when i was on the Pride Committee and saw them arrive at the festival i'd walk right up to their leader, greet him, introduce myself, make him shake my hand, escort him around a bit and offer any assistance he may need...it was so funny to watch him cringe as he shook my hand...lol |
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04-13-2012, 08:40 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?:
50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status:
married to my forever
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the dreaded longggg weekend without my cohort in crime....
 .On a brighter note, I am off to one of the other islands...to get my B12 shot, have some awesome shrimp and fried rice bowl at THAT spectacular place we usually go to... . and then to the beach...with my new 'noculars..to watch some dolphins!!! yea baby!!!!
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04-13-2012, 08:42 AM
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Infamous Member
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Hey, a rice bowl? Now that's just bragging! LOL Seriously though you more than deserve it...enjoy Baby...don't forget you can take pics and video with those new 'noculars of yours... |
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04-13-2012, 11:02 AM
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Senior Member
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BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm. Preferred Pronoun?:
Anything Respectful! Relationship Status:
Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities... 
Join Date: Sep 2011
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An on going argument with my Scottish cousin… I’m ready to walk away with grace and dignity.
Seeing a couple of people I trained with for the first time in 21 years….. WOW! It’s been so great to see them again, and chat about our lives and what we've done. They’ve changed physically and as people..... It’s also shown me how much I’ve changed within myself in that time, even though, (accoeding to them) I’ve not changed much physically, except that, I’m more attractive and look a lot like my Maori Grandmother now, yet, back then, I looked like my Dad… Thoughts of my future, those I care about and Jo…
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04-13-2012, 11:14 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Hitched up
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a picnic table and a cheese pizza
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04-13-2012, 02:20 PM
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Member
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Together
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Sagittarius: You may have grown discouraged over these last couple of months with assertive Mars retrograding in your 10th House of Career. You had no idea that it would take so long to accomplish your career goals. Now, as things start to pop, you can see the wisdom in the long gestation process. Nevertheless, don't worry about what you might have accomplished if you were able to work harder or faster; just pay attention to the tasks in front of you and give it all you've got.
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04-13-2012, 02:48 PM
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04-13-2012, 09:30 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?:
50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status:
married to my forever
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Deana's One Mo' Time...mostly....sometimes Model T's, sometimes the Otherside... and what was that one over in Midotwon in thst long dtrip mall place...dang I forget. My very FIRST bar in Atlanta....Sweet Gum Head....my very first ever witnessed "drag show" with Charlie Brown and Brandy Alexander and Brandy Daniels...Hot Chocolate....she threw me her wig one night....fond memories, too....and once in a while Tallulah's....Bankhead....smiles...is Chamber the one down on umm Peachtree St, I think..several floors, dark walls.....lol...old brain here...lol
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04-13-2012, 09:58 PM
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Senior Member
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relax timeee. ahhhh.
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