Singles - Page 417

Mr Nice Guy · 06-19-2012, 06:43 PM

I agree FtM, it's hard to find Femmes anywhere. Especially in small towns. I'm trying the online thing. It's worth a shot.

ruby_woo · 06-19-2012, 09:43 PM

The single butches should come to Vancouver, you'd all be very popular. There are about a million femmes, and maybe 4 butches. I've already dated two of them.

I may start hittin' up Seattle, lol.

Julien · 06-20-2012, 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by ruby_woo

The single butches should come to Vancouver, you'd all be very popular. There are about a million femmes, and maybe 4 butches. I've already dated two of them.

I may start hittin' up Seattle, lol.

I may have to consider moving way north. Thanks Ruby Woo for the info.

Good morning to all the singles. I hope you have a great day and I'm off to play in the library. I'll check back later.
Julien

Breezy · 06-20-2012, 08:26 AM

Good morning everyone.

It is quiet so far today. It is bright,beautiful and promises to be a scorcher. I think frequently about the things I can do to bring my energies up into the positive realm so I don't keep creating negative experiences in my life. Does anyone else do this?

What are some things you do or can do to bring yourself to a positive state of mind? I remind myself I can change my mind anytime I choose. I remind myself I am in control of thoughts and therefore in control of my emotions. I know my thoughts lead directly to what I feel. If it is negative thinking my emotions are negative, the same for positive. I also make sure I belly laugh at least a few times every day, leave my past in the past and move forward. I don't pretend away or ignore issues or grief, I process them in a timely manner.

Okay, your turn.

Julien · 06-20-2012, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Breezy

Good morning everyone.

It is quiet so far today. It is bright,beautiful and promises to be a scorcher. I think frequently about the things I can do to bring my energies up into the positive realm so I don't keep creating negative experiences in my life. Does anyone else do this?

What are some things you do or can do to bring yourself to a positive state of mind? I remind myself I can change my mind anytime I choose. I remind myself I am in control of thoughts and therefore in control of my emotions. I know my thoughts lead directly to what I feel. If it is negative thinking my emotions are negative, the same for positive. I also make sure I belly laugh at least a few times every day, leave my past in the past and move forward. I don't pretend away or ignore issues or grief, I process them in a timely manner.

Okay, your turn.

Hi Breezy,
Let me commend you on your approach to life and I agree with you, you have the power to control your negative and positive thoughts. I must say at times it can be so difficult to do. I know this to be true. However, I work daily at framing things in as positive a manner as I possibly can. Of course it can't be done on everything. I remind myself to not compare myself to others because that can be a cause of trouble. I smile at everyone I meet and do not judge them unfairly. With that being said I value integrity, loyalty, honesty, honor, fairness, and compassion. I look for the same values in others. I have figured out that if those things are lacking then a connection will probably not be made.

I'm not sure if that is the answer you were looking for, but it is a start.

Mr Nice Guy · 06-20-2012, 05:31 PM

Still single and wanting a pool to jump in.

FtMGuy · 06-20-2012, 07:37 PM

I agree, I have had some good luck meeting femmes on line, my ex & I met on line we were together 11 years so it does work although it can be expensive, she lived with me for 4 years here in lincoln and I lived in the UK with her for 7 years
I am willing to travel, and I like traveling so its all good.

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy

I agree FtM, it's hard to find Femmes anywhere. Especially in small towns. I'm trying the online thing. It's worth a shot.

MickMan · 06-21-2012, 05:59 AM

Good morning everyone. Just popping in to say hi. Hope everyone is well.

Mick

Julien · 06-21-2012, 06:07 AM

Good morning everyone. Nothing to say other than I just woke up and am getting ready for my day. I hope Your day is a good one. I'll be back after work at the library, yes I know fondling books.

Breezy · 06-21-2012, 08:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Julien

Hi Breezy,
Let me commend you on your approach to life and I agree with you, you have the power to control your negative and positive thoughts. I must say at times it can be so difficult to do. I know this to be true. However, I work daily at framing things in as positive a manner as I possibly can. Of course it can't be done on everything. I remind myself to not compare myself to others because that can be a cause of trouble. I smile at everyone I meet and do not judge them unfairly. With that being said I value integrity, loyalty, honesty, honor, fairness, and compassion. I look for the same values in others. I have figured out that if those things are lacking then a connection will probably not be made.

I'm not sure if that is the answer you were looking for, but it is a start.

Julien, there are no right or wrong answers.

Thank you so much for your input.

Any other takers on my question?

Julien · 06-21-2012, 11:07 AM

Hi Mick and Breezy

Well I'm back from the library, it was a short day filled with books, book jackets, bar codes, spine labels and tape. No wonder I had a tough time staying awake. I didn't see any interesting books come in, or at least those that I might be interested in. Bummer.

Breezy · 06-21-2012, 12:15 PM

Hugs for you Julien. Good books tomorrow maybe?

Mr Nice Guy · 06-21-2012, 02:00 PM

Hi all. Hope you all aren't melted like I am. I feel like a piece of chocolate.

Julien · 06-21-2012, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Breezy

Hugs for you Julien. Good books tomorrow maybe?

I won't be there tomorrow Breezy, they'll just have to wait.

hey Mr. Nice Guy, I guess all we need now is some graham crackers and marshmallows.

Mr Nice Guy · 06-21-2012, 03:05 PM

Very funny. Are you calling me a s'more? Lol

ruthie14 · 06-21-2012, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy

Very funny. Are you calling me a s'more? Lol

Does that mean you are a marshmallow inside? ( I know lots of butches like this.. crunchy grahm cracker on the outside and wonderful gooey sweetness underneath!)

Hope everyone is staying cool.. It's almost 6 pm and it's 96 outside. YIKES!

Ruthie

Julien · 06-22-2012, 07:13 AM

Good morning everyone. Happy Friday! The weekend is almost here.

asphaltcowboi · 06-22-2012, 02:27 PM

hello to all the singles... im just back in the "single" status.. just looking around to make friends.. my heads still spinning a little but its all good in the long run.
its friday!!! get to hit the local pub,play some pool an have a brewski or two!!

GreeneyedMe · 06-22-2012, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Does that mean you are a marshmallow inside? ( I know lots of butches like this.. crunchy graham cracker on the outside and wonderful gooey sweetness underneath!)

Ruthie

Hi Ruthie!!! My thoughts exactly!

Julien · 06-22-2012, 06:23 PM

So what's on the agenda for this evening? Is everyone going out to play? Some of us are staying in waiting for tomorrow to play.

For the Ladies

06-21-2012, 06:07 AM	#8329
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Good morning everyone. Nothing to say other than I just woke up and am getting ready for my day. I hope Your day is a good one. I'll be back after work at the library, yes I know fondling books. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

06-21-2012, 11:07 AM	#8331
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hi Mick and Breezy Well I'm back from the library, it was a short day filled with books, book jackets, bar codes, spine labels and tape. No wonder I had a tough time staying awake. I didn't see any interesting books come in, or at least those that I might be interested in. Bummer. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

06-22-2012, 07:13 AM	#8337
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Good morning everyone. Happy Friday! The weekend is almost here. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

06-22-2012, 02:27 PM	#8338
asphaltcowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: HAPPY Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 1,509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,367 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,042 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	hello to all the singles... im just back in the "single" status.. just looking around to make friends.. my heads still spinning a little but its all good in the long run. its friday!!! get to hit the local pub,play some pool an have a brewski or two!! __________________

06-22-2012, 06:23 PM	#8340
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	So what's on the agenda for this evening? Is everyone going out to play? Some of us are staying in waiting for tomorrow to play. For the Ladies __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

06-19-2012, 06:43 PM	#8321
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	I agree FtM, it's hard to find Femmes anywhere. Especially in small towns. I'm trying the online thing. It's worth a shot.

06-19-2012, 09:43 PM	#8322
ruby_woo Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,848 Thanked 1,941 Times in 376 Posts Rep Power: 17615392	The single butches should come to Vancouver, you'd all be very popular. There are about a million femmes, and maybe 4 butches. I've already dated two of them. I may start hittin' up Seattle, lol.

06-20-2012, 08:26 AM	#8324
Breezy Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: . Posts: 1,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,337 Thanked 4,555 Times in 1,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Good morning everyone. It is quiet so far today. It is bright,beautiful and promises to be a scorcher. I think frequently about the things I can do to bring my energies up into the positive realm so I don't keep creating negative experiences in my life. Does anyone else do this? What are some things you do or can do to bring yourself to a positive state of mind? I remind myself I can change my mind anytime I choose. I remind myself I am in control of thoughts and therefore in control of my emotions. I know my thoughts lead directly to what I feel. If it is negative thinking my emotions are negative, the same for positive. I also make sure I belly laugh at least a few times every day, leave my past in the past and move forward. I don't pretend away or ignore issues or grief, I process them in a timely manner. Okay, your turn.

06-20-2012, 05:31 PM	#8326
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Still single and wanting a pool to jump in.

06-21-2012, 05:59 AM	#8328
MickMan Member How Do You Identify?: Male/FTM Preferred Pronoun?: Those which are male Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 118 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 222 Times in 83 Posts Rep Power: 1071129	Good morning everyone. Just popping in to say hi. Hope everyone is well. Mick

06-21-2012, 12:15 PM	#8332
Breezy Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: . Posts: 1,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,337 Thanked 4,555 Times in 1,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Hugs for you Julien. Good books tomorrow maybe?

06-21-2012, 02:00 PM	#8333
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hi all. Hope you all aren't melted like I am. I feel like a piece of chocolate.

06-21-2012, 03:05 PM	#8335
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Very funny. Are you calling me a s'more? Lol