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two weeks since last soda. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I get it. Drink the bloody, I mean delicious water. It's great surely no one will pick up on the sarcasm! I'm doing it. Going to get more after I submit this post. Thinker you had me cracking up at the visual of clomping along on my walk with 15lb jar. ![]() Oh yeah, I jumped on the scale this morning. -6lbs. Not a lot but it's a start in the right direction. Keep up the good work everyone. You all rock! |
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GT... -6 pounds, that's FANTASTIC! That is a great start... you should feel very proud! Keep up the great work. Just remember, a 1 pound loss is better than a 1 pound gain anyday!!!!
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Very true! lol Thanks for the lb perspective. And this water is tasty! Yeppers!
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Hi All. I have not written for a few days. Many of you saw my "Dear" post about my cock-a-poo Jani going into respiratory failure and I had to make the very, very difficult decision to put her down Saturday 8/6.
I am pretty much consumed with grief and it has totally taken my appetite away so I am an not having difficulty with my eating. For a couple of days I started thinking: "What's the point, who cares, I don't care" but I did not give into it. I have made through the craving for sweets-think it might be 8-10 days by now. I am not allowing myself to think about them or I will be lost, I am just too vulnerable right now and am just looking for a reason to make myself even more sad and miserable than I already am-eating sweets would do it for sure. I could then throw in self-loathing for good measure. I found that I can't go down the stairs at all as my knee gives out but for some bizzare reason I am able to walk upstairs without too terribly much pain. I about die on the 3rd flight but have now made it to 4. I don't know if it is enough to lose weight on but I feel better about having done it for the 3rd day in a row. Regards,
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Great Job GT! 6 pounds is a great loss and start!
Matthew ~ Happy to see you checking in. I hear ya when you say it seems tough. There are 2 things I want to tell u. The first being that any journey begins with a single step. Thats all it takes to get you going in the right direction. Second is that I would like to share a small bit of my journey. After being in an abusive 5 year relationship turned marriage, I found myself stepping on a scale and weighing 300 pounds. That was my heaviest ever! My immediate reaction was to eat. When I say eat, I mean I indulged in everything I wanted. My thought process was "fuck it" I had already gone that far and too hard to lose. One night, I was having trouble breathing, my feet were so swollen I couldnt walk, I could barely breathe....I stepped on that scale again. 305...I looked at myself in the mirror and told myself something that changed my life. I said "Today will be the last day of your life that you will weigh 305lbs" Over a year later, I kept my promise. I have lost 50 pounds. Yes I have had moments of weakness, but I maintain. Today, I am still striving to get myself healthy. I am more determined and seeing more results. All it took was a promise to myself and 1 Single Step in the right direction. Lets do this Matthew! We can do it together. |
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Good Evening Sunshyne,
A co-worker and I were talking yesterday about how she is trying to lose 10lbs to fit into her bridesmaid dress. I showed her a picture of me, from 2004, when I was over 200lbs on a 5'0" frame and she nearly fell over. She asked me why I had lost the weight and I told her, it was because I was fed up with having heart palpitations, problems breathing and being bloated all of the time. It will be five years come January 1st, 2012, that I have had a soda and I was drinking between 3 to 4 20oz bottles of Coke a day, before I went cold turkey; and I feel a helluva lot better today! I have since been able to beat heart disease, I can run up and down stairs until my knee gives out and I can walk almost 3 miles in about 30 minutes. I was telling my co-workers today, that I am shooting to lose another 20lbs by the time of the reunion, so I better get my ass in gear...I am enjoying reading Prevention magazine over the tabloids that my co-workers love to read when it is slow at work. When I start my new job next week, after training, I will have a set schedule so I can plan my workouts appropriately.. My next thing to give up is sweets..Which is going to be hard for me, since that is something I grew up on and is always available at my mom's house... Yes we can do this and it does take, that first step to do it! Congratulations to everyone and keep up the good work!!!! Hugs, Zimmy Quote:
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I had chicken soft tacos with Spanish rice and black beans on a flour tortilla for dinner tonight. I cooked in diced tomatoes and half of a green bell pepper with the chicken and let that cook with a little bit of taco seasoning while the rice was cooking. I made a small burrito out of the tortilla and I added a little bit of rice, black beans and chicken with a sprinkle of shredded lowfat mozzerella cheese. I had 3/4's of a cup of orange juice, to help with my blood sugar constantly dropping, with dinner and it filled me up...Now I want to go power walking, but I am afraid to, because of my sugar. I will monitor how I feel and if I feel ok in the morning, I will go power walking then... I can honestly say, all of the sodas, sweet tea and other sugary drinks is what messed up my blood sugar and they are something that I wish I had never drank... Zimmy
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Yes,its the devils incarnete,so far I have only had a couple of diet cokes in the last fue days or what will total the amount of a couple of them..I take a sip hear and there but mostly drink water.No its not easy cause I use to love my diet cokes,I mean thay were diet cokes..werent they??Yesterday i was at the store and wanted something to drinl I reached in the cooler and got a bottle of water insted of the soda that was next to it.One small step at the time.AS for sugar I only occasionaly eat something..I injoy it then am done for a while,I had a huny bun a couple of weeks ago.
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Matthew - I am also a huge Pepsi drinker. Most days I can stay at 1 can or a 710ml bottle. But other days I'll have 2 or 3 cans or even 2 or 3 bottles of the stuff. It just depends on what I am doing.
I know that quite often I drink the stuff without even realizing what I am doing - - sort of from habit, you know? Having pizza? Well, I must have some Pepsi with it then. Same with chicken wings, or nachos or other fast foods. If I'm having a Subway sandwich I have to have a bag of chips (not the Baked kind, either!), too. One thing I have noticed this past year, though. That sometimes I can't actually taste the Pepsi. I know I'm drinking a carbonated drink but it doesn't "taste right." When that happens I'll sort of delay when I'll have a Pepsi - - I'll have ice water or ice tea with lunch instead. Then I'll try wait until later in the afternoon to have Pepsi. Usually I can hold out until I get the withdrawal headache. But if you are serious about wanting to kick the Pepsi (or any soda drink, for that matter) you can try what I did last year. When you get really sick with a cold just don't drink Pepsi. Drink watered down juice or water with a slice of lemon or hot tea with lemon or honey. Then you blame the Pepsi "withdrawal headache" on being sick. When you start to feel better you won't even miss the Pepsi - - at least I didn't. I managed to stay off the stuff for almost 6 months. Now I find it is easier to put off drinking it or even avoid it altogether for a couple days. However, I am currently still drinking the stuff - just not as much as I used to. And I alternate - for every can I drink I must drink a couple glasses of water. If I drink a 710ml bottle then I have a litre of water. At first I hated drinking water too. But I find that in the summer it is the best thing for me. |
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....MY new favorite snack...the walmart brand (great value) 90 calorie Strawberry Cereal Bar...yum
I am usually a chocolate person but these are great!
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My usual breakfast donut (I know, I know) has been replaced by bran cereal. *sigh*
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Good morning everyone
![]() I'm still struggling and contemplating and crunching numbers and doing all the stuff that is part of my personal process before I undertake a major change....but reading Matthew's recent posts got my brain going. Matthew, I'm sending you a great big hug, because I know how tough this struggle is...especially when you have someone in the household actively sabotaging you. Because I'm a "numbers" person though...in my work life I'm a project manager, and live and die by my spreadsheets...I did a little number crunching that might help to inspire you to make some changes. Here's what I found....cold, hard facts...not to alarm you, but to show you what's going on inside... One 12 oz. can of Pepsi probably looks harmless. It's small, it's cold...it tastes good. I had my own struggles with Coke...so I know how enticing and addictive it is. But....one 12 oz. can of Pepsi contains 150 calories, mostly in the form of high fructose corn syrup. One of the biggest arguments against high fructose corn syrup is that it contains mercury...a neuro-toxin. I haven't read the studies, so I won't say yea or nay on that...but just the possibility of ingesting neuro-toxin daily scares the crap out of me. Okay...but back to the numbers.... One can...150 calories. Let's say you drink 4 a day....not hard for any soda drinker to do. 4 cans a day is 1,460 cans a year (how much does that cost? You could take a nice vacation every year for that money?) 1,460 cans a year at 150 calories is 219,000 calories. Since it takes 3,500 calories to gain or lose a pound of weight...that's 62.5 lbs...in a year...on or off, depending on what you do. Drink those 4 cans a day....gain 62.5 lbs. in a year. Replace them with water...lose 62.5 lbs. in a year. Of course, that's assuming that nothing else changes in our diet or activity levels. The scarier thing for me....if the mercury/neuro-toxin thing is true....drinking 4 cans of Pepsi a day means you're consuming 59,850 grams of high fructose corn syrup in a year (41 grams a can). Since 454 grams of anything equals a pound....that's 131.8 pounds of high fructose corn syrup running through your body each year. This is the equation I ran for myself and my Coke consumption....right before I stopped drinking it forever. Hugs to you all.
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![]() Matthew... it's good to see you checking back here! Remember, do NOT look at the big picture of how much weight you need to lose. It's overwelming and you can end up sabatoging yourself before you even begin. Like many others here, I set small goals of 10 pounds at a time. Each pound you lose gets you closer to the first goal weight. Get a lil' calendar or notebook, and start giving yourself a GOLD STAR for every 5 pounds you lose (it might sound corney, but it's a way of celebrating those milestones). Once you hit that first goal, you would be sooo proud of yourself you will want to keep going! You CAN do this Matthew... we all believe in you! Take that first step, and nothing will be able to hold you back!! As for exercise, I can find a million excuses every single day why I don't have time... we ALL can find excuses. There just comes a point when we have to stop making excuses and just do it! *yes, I'm reminding myself this, too* I know for me, seeing so many of my friends being successful at losing weight has completed motivated me to keep going. I might not be losing as fast as others, but I am losing. I'm averaging 1 - 2 pounds a week. I'm already noticing changes in the way my clothes are fitting... but mostly how much better my body feels. At the grocery store the other night, I picked up 3 - 5lb sacks of potatos to remind myself how much weight I'm NOT carrying around anymore! Last edited by PinkieLee; 08-11-2011 at 07:40 AM. |
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