Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet? - Page 46

SleepyButch · 07-04-2012, 04:17 PM

Lust is definitely acceptable. Especially that first twinge of lust, when either you or she says something and you feel that sexual electricity inside your bones... okay.. no pun intended there lol.

Mr Nice Guy · 07-04-2012, 04:32 PM

Lust gets me in trouble but I like it.

SugarFemme · 07-04-2012, 04:58 PM

IMHO language is VERY strong. When used in a way that elicits an emotional or physical response, it can and has been totally translated to lust for many of us. So even though you may not have met someone face to face, and all you have are words, those words can stir up a plethora of emotions, including lust. Just my .02 cents.

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Originally Posted by Julien

What's wrong with a little bit of lust?
Here's a question, can there be lust between two people even if they haven't met yet?
Personally I think so and have experienced it on occasion.

SugarFemme · 07-04-2012, 05:00 PM

Ivan, that two timer!! I thought I was his one and only true crush LOL.

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Originally Posted by Nomad

i'm crushing on Ivan Coyote today. i'm sure hy's crushing on me too.

Soft*Silver · 07-04-2012, 05:02 PM

Lust and crush are two separate things for me. Lust for me is instantaneously. Crushes take time. Its their character and personality that breeds a crush. Now, add lust to a crush and mix in mutual pursuit and there is potential for a relationship, friendship or romance. And over time, true love can develop....again, friendship or romance. Hopefully, both.

Mr Nice Guy · 07-04-2012, 05:09 PM

I'm a sucker for romance. But I think you all knew that.

***Hi everyone!!! Happy 4th

CharmingButch25 · 07-04-2012, 05:44 PM

Yes I most definatly do have a couple crushes here at the planet... but they will most likely never know.

Beloved · 07-04-2012, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by CharmingButch25

Yes I most definatly do have a couple crushes here at the planet... but they will most likely never know.

Come on, fess up! Nobody here bites, unless you want them to!

SleepyButch · 07-04-2012, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Beloved

Come on, fess up! Nobody here bites, unless you want them to!

Sometimes the rejection of a crush can be sting enough... I'm just saying.

JistMe · 07-04-2012, 07:14 PM

Assuming of course, that you are rejected.

Think positive!

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

Sometimes the rejection of a crush can be sting enough... I'm just saying.

Beloved · 07-04-2012, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

Sometimes the rejection of a crush can be sting enough... I'm just saying.

But it's a crush. I think most people would be flattered. It's not like asking someone on a date and they reject you.

Yeah, really. Jist me is right. BE POSITIVE!

SleepyButch · 07-04-2012, 08:12 PM

What makes a King out of a slave? Courage.

What makes the flag on the mast to wave? Courage.

What makes the elephant charge his tusk in the misty mist or the dusky dusk? Courage

What makes the muskrat guard his musk? Courage.

What makes the Sphinx the 7th Wonder? Courage.

What makes the dawn come up like THUNDER?! Courage.

What makes the Hottentot so hot? Courage

What puts the "ape" in ape-ricot? Courage

Whatta they got that I ain't got? Courage!

lol

~ocean · 07-04-2012, 09:23 PM

umm sleepy i think it took courage to post that lol ~~~~ just saying~~

Bella~Vita · 07-04-2012, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

What makes a King out of a slave? Courage.

What makes the flag on the mast to wave? Courage.

What makes the elephant charge his tusk in the misty mist or the dusky dusk? Courage

What makes the muskrat guard his musk? Courage.

What makes the Sphinx the 7th Wonder? Courage.

What makes the dawn come up like THUNDER?! Courage.

What makes the Hottentot so hot? Courage

What puts the "ape" in ape-ricot? Courage

Whatta they got that I ain't got? Courage!

lol

Go ahead and tell your crush .... gives some courage (((((((((( Sleepy )))))))) you can do it !

Princess · 07-04-2012, 10:10 PM

I have a big ol femmie-femme crush on sugarnspice <3

Ciaran · 07-04-2012, 10:17 PM

Telling someone you've a crush on them or not doesn't necessarily come down to courage. In most cases, it's as much about how that could be perceived by the other person.

For example, if someone told me that they had a crush on me, I'd probably be slighly spooked because, to me, subconsciously, the word "crush" has connatations of teenage years and slightly unbalanced reactions caused by a combination of overactive hormones and naivety.

That's not to disrespect those who crush - as I do too. However, I'd never tell someone that I had a "crush" on them. I might tell them that they are attractive or beautiful or something else but I wouldn't use the "crush" word.

sugarnspice · 07-04-2012, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Princess

I have a big ol femmie-femme crush on sugarnspice <3

There should totally be a femme equivalent to "bromance"

LaneyDoll · 07-04-2012, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by sugarnspice

There should totally be a femme equivalent to "bromance"

How about "femmebrace"?

Princess · 07-04-2012, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

How about "femmebrace"?

could workkkkkkkkk

sugarnspice · 07-04-2012, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

How about "femmebrace"?

ooo I like it Ang! I Femmebrace you!

07-04-2012, 05:02 PM	#905
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,908 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	Lust and crush are two separate things for me. Lust for me is instantaneously. Crushes take time. Its their character and personality that breeds a crush. Now, add lust to a crush and mix in mutual pursuit and there is potential for a relationship, friendship or romance. And over time, true love can develop....again, friendship or romance. Hopefully, both. __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

07-04-2012, 08:12 PM	#912
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	So what you are saying is... What makes a King out of a slave? Courage. What makes the flag on the mast to wave? Courage. What makes the elephant charge his tusk in the misty mist or the dusky dusk? Courage What makes the muskrat guard his musk? Courage. What makes the Sphinx the 7th Wonder? Courage. What makes the dawn come up like THUNDER?! Courage. What makes the Hottentot so hot? Courage What puts the "ape" in ape-ricot? Courage Whatta they got that I ain't got? Courage! lol

07-04-2012, 04:17 PM	#901
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Lust is definitely acceptable. Especially that first twinge of lust, when either you or she says something and you feel that sexual electricity inside your bones... okay.. no pun intended there lol.

07-04-2012, 04:32 PM	#902
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Lust gets me in trouble but I like it.

07-04-2012, 05:09 PM	#906
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	I'm a sucker for romance. But I think you all knew that. ***Hi everyone!!! Happy 4th

07-04-2012, 05:44 PM	#907
CharmingButch25 Timed Out How Do You Identify?: As just me! Preferred Pronoun?: Hy,Hym, Relationship Status: call me crazy working on me! Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Portland Posts: 493 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 281 Thanked 1,334 Times in 367 Posts Rep Power: 0	Yes I most definatly do have a couple crushes here at the planet... but they will most likely never know.

07-04-2012, 09:23 PM	#913
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,040 Times in 4,727 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	umm sleepy i think it took courage to post that lol ~~~~ just saying~~

07-04-2012, 10:10 PM	#915
Princess Member How Do You Identify?: princess Preferred Pronoun?: She, her. Relationship Status: One singular sensation! Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Topeka, KS Posts: 1,341 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,082 Thanked 4,582 Times in 1,009 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I have a big ol femmie-femme crush on sugarnspice <3

07-04-2012, 10:17 PM	#916
Ciaran Member How Do You Identify?: Altocalciphilic Preferred Pronoun?: Papa Smurf Relationship Status: Curmudgeonous spinster Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: London (but from Belfast) Posts: 678 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 471 Thanked 3,654 Times in 602 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Telling someone you've a crush on them or not doesn't necessarily come down to courage. In most cases, it's as much about how that could be perceived by the other person. For example, if someone told me that they had a crush on me, I'd probably be slighly spooked because, to me, subconsciously, the word "crush" has connatations of teenage years and slightly unbalanced reactions caused by a combination of overactive hormones and naivety. That's not to disrespect those who crush - as I do too. However, I'd never tell someone that I had a "crush" on them. I might tell them that they are attractive or beautiful or something else but I wouldn't use the "crush" word.