Average Age of the Planet - Page 5

BoDy*ShOt · 08-27-2012, 01:44 PM

wow. this made me all reminisce-y..

I was 28 when I joined the dash site, and here I am at 41. I've met the gamut of people, and made some good friends and some who don't like me much.. meh. I've met lovers, brief boifriends, and a very LTR off of each of these sites. it's where I discovered my femme, and where I continue to learn and evolve.

DapperButch · 08-27-2012, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by BoDy*ShOt

wow. this made me all reminisce-y..

I was 28 when I joined the dash site, and here I am at 41. I've met the gamut of people, and made some good friends and some who don't like me much.. meh. I've met lovers, brief boifriends, and a very LTR off of each of these sites. it's where I discovered my femme, and where I continue to learn and evolve.

Holy crap! That really does put the length of time into perspective. I was 28/29 when I joined the dash, and now I am 42! Yowza!

gaea · 08-27-2012, 04:13 PM

i was 26 when i joined the dash site the year they developed it.....watched it evolve and i too have evolved.....I went away for awhile and came back...and then in 09 when the planet launched i joined here...

I am currently 42

ruby_woo · 08-27-2012, 04:19 PM

I was 19 when I started posting on the dash site, and now I'm 30.

Quintease · 08-27-2012, 05:23 PM

I was 37 when I started posting here and I'm still 37...

Red-Dragon · 08-31-2012, 12:40 PM

i've been on the planet since i think may i havent had a age issue...either that or i'm dense lol. i am one of the youngings but i love learning what the older ones have to offer you just keep learning until you teach what you've been taught

Teddybear · 08-31-2012, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Apocalipstic

I am a 16 year old boy in my head a lot of the time

*grin*

I HAVE met u. U DON'T act like one. Well u didn't the nite I met u

Teddybear · 08-31-2012, 02:06 PM

I'm 24x2 however I act like I'm barely a teenager most the time and after work I think I'm 102

State of mind for me

tazz · 08-31-2012, 02:42 PM

i was 22 when i came out, 35 or 36 when i joined the site, and now i'm 46.

so much has changed with the site and ME! i Was a femme at first, but over the years i have evolved so much into the Athlete/Androgynous spectrum of life. Living, Loving, and Learning every moment of it!!

i've met some peeps, been involved with some peeps, yeah... life is good

WintergreenGem · 09-01-2012, 10:07 PM

So the average age for this site is between 40 and 49. That means if I am ever single again I will have to snag a younger butch. *wink*

WintergreenGem · 09-01-2012, 10:12 PM

I met Graham on a butch-femme chat list. I was 39 then. We've been together almost 13 years. Mmm, that makes me 52. My mind thinks I am still in my thirties or younger. My body says no way.

WintergreenGem · 09-01-2012, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by aishah

i'm 24 chronologically, and around 5 mentally and 80 physically

it evens out. sorta.

You pretty much took the words out of my mouth. The concept anyway.

~baby~doll~ · 05-05-2013, 01:30 AM

I am old enough that I take more trips to the Doctor visit the local bar scenes. I now go to bed when I used to go out and wake up when I used to get home. But i love every minute of the age I am. I may even be able to lend some of my experiences to the younger people here.

05-05-2013, 03:57 AM

Just about to cross over into a higher age group

DapperButch · 05-05-2013, 07:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Daktari

Just about to cross over into a higher age group

70 and above?

05-05-2013, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

70 and above?

Cheeky fekker

Mopsie · 05-05-2013, 08:38 AM

Love that my age range (40-49) is the majority! Woot!

Queenie · 05-05-2013, 09:04 AM

I was 19 when I joined the dash site. I felt really lost before I found it. I've laughed, cried and discovered who I am because of it. I've met some of the most amazing people over the years. Gotten my heart broken a time or two due to LDR's. I never thought when I was 19 that 13 years later I would still be on a b-f site. Oh I just wish I could go back in time and tell that 19 year old shy little girl, that it will all be okay and to stop being so fucking shy!

Girl_On_Fire · 05-05-2013, 04:34 PM

I was barely 23 when I joined the dash site. I'm 33 now. What a difference 10 years makes. I had only been out of the closet for a year and I knew very little about the butch/femme dynamic. I was just heart-broken over a breakup and Google'd "butch femme" and it popped up.

I met one of my closest friends on that site and a few others who would lead me through some of the most profound awakenings (and painful lessons) of my life. I don't regret any of it.

Although I've recently had a set-back due to a very difficult breakup, I feel like life began at 30 for me. So much makes more sense now. I can't explain it. It's like puzzle pieces locking together. I don't mind age at all so long as I can be healthy, happy, and "with it" for the duration.

KCBUTCH · 05-05-2013, 04:42 PM

I think I was in my early 30's when I joined the dash site and now I'll see 42 this year - Love this place

View Poll Results: What age range are you?
19 or younger	3	0.69%
20-29	51	11.72%
30-39	99	22.76%
40-49	171	39.31%
50-59	100	22.99%
60-69	11	2.53%
70 and above	0	0%
Voters: 435. You may not vote on this poll

08-27-2012, 01:44 PM	#81
BoDyShOt Member How Do You Identify?: Queer. Femme. Preferred Pronoun?: girl ones Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Twin Cities Posts: 1,020 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,460 Thanked 2,096 Times in 532 Posts Rep Power*: 21474853	wow. this made me all reminisce-y.. I was 28 when I joined the dash site, and here I am at 41. I've met the gamut of people, and made some good friends and some who don't like me much.. meh. I've met lovers, brief boifriends, and a very LTR off of each of these sites. it's where I discovered my femme, and where I continue to learn and evolve. __________________ ...not your average betty.

08-27-2012, 04:13 PM	#83
gaea Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west coast Posts: 3,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,630 Thanked 14,363 Times in 3,381 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	i was 26 when i joined the dash site the year they developed it.....watched it evolve and i too have evolved.....I went away for awhile and came back...and then in 09 when the planet launched i joined here... I am currently 42 __________________ Gaea "Building a lifetime together one day at a time" Courage: the willingness to risk who you are for who you want to be and what you have for what you want You're not who your past says you are, you are who you choose to be today moving forward.

08-27-2012, 05:23 PM	#85
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	I was 37 when I started posting here and I'm still 37... __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

08-31-2012, 02:42 PM	#89
tazz Member How Do You Identify?: Athlete/tomboi Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, cutie Relationship Status: Estoy recibiendo cómodo con él Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: you never know where i might end up ;) Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,807 Thanked 1,759 Times in 642 Posts Rep Power: 20456639	i was 22 when i came out, 35 or 36 when i joined the site, and now i'm 46. so much has changed with the site and ME! i Was a femme at first, but over the years i have evolved so much into the Athlete/Androgynous spectrum of life. Living, Loving, and Learning every moment of it!! i've met some peeps, been involved with some peeps, yeah... life is good __________________ "She walks a different path than some of us, but those on her wavelength enjoy the journey with her." --DLOS

08-27-2012, 04:19 PM	#84
ruby_woo Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,848 Thanked 1,941 Times in 376 Posts Rep Power: 17615392	I was 19 when I started posting on the dash site, and now I'm 30.

08-31-2012, 12:40 PM	#86
Red-Dragon Member How Do You Identify?: just me Preferred Pronoun?: hym/dude/him/bro Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Alberta Posts: 139 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1 Thanked 87 Times in 35 Posts Rep Power: 447654	i've been on the planet since i think may i havent had a age issue...either that or i'm dense lol. i am one of the youngings but i love learning what the older ones have to offer you just keep learning until you teach what you've been taught

08-31-2012, 02:06 PM	#88
Teddybear Senior Member How Do You Identify?: by my name Preferred Pronoun?: He, him Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Here there everywhere. Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,620 Thanked 6,233 Times in 1,687 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I'm 24x2 however I act like I'm barely a teenager most the time and after work I think I'm 102 State of mind for me

09-01-2012, 10:07 PM	#90
WintergreenGem Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Ms, Miss Relationship Status: Married to Graham Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Lincoln, Nebraska Posts: 180 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 347 Thanked 505 Times in 140 Posts Rep Power: 6005574	So the average age for this site is between 40 and 49. That means if I am ever single again I will have to snag a younger butch. wink __________________ Did you take the time to truly know?

09-01-2012, 10:12 PM	#91
WintergreenGem Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Ms, Miss Relationship Status: Married to Graham Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Lincoln, Nebraska Posts: 180 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 347 Thanked 505 Times in 140 Posts Rep Power: 6005574	I met Graham on a butch-femme chat list. I was 39 then. We've been together almost 13 years. Mmm, that makes me 52. My mind thinks I am still in my thirties or younger. My body says no way. __________________ Did you take the time to truly know?

05-05-2013, 01:30 AM	#93
~baby~doll~ Member How Do You Identify?: femme-bottom, lesbian, queer Preferred Pronoun?: feminine ones Relationship Status: Leather polyamorous family Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: with HER Posts: 1,110 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,494 Thanked 2,857 Times in 905 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I am old enough that I take more trips to the Doctor visit the local bar scenes. I now go to bed when I used to go out and wake up when I used to get home. But i love every minute of the age I am. I may even be able to lend some of my experiences to the younger people here. __________________ i will wait to love You. i will wait another day For You i'd leave all this behind. i will wait for you tonight. iwill waste another dream on You Always run to You. Uh Huh Her

05-05-2013, 03:57 AM	#94
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Just about to cross over into a higher age group

05-05-2013, 08:38 AM	#97
Mopsie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Female ones Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Shenandoah Valley Virginia Posts: 4,769 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36,246 Thanked 8,552 Times in 1,856 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Love that my age range (40-49) is the majority! Woot!

05-05-2013, 09:04 AM	#98
Queenie Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Preferred Pronoun?: Her Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: East Finchley Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 478 Thanked 1,886 Times in 523 Posts Rep Power: 16307164	I was 19 when I joined the dash site. I felt really lost before I found it. I've laughed, cried and discovered who I am because of it. I've met some of the most amazing people over the years. Gotten my heart broken a time or two due to LDR's. I never thought when I was 19 that 13 years later I would still be on a b-f site. Oh I just wish I could go back in time and tell that 19 year old shy little girl, that it will all be okay and to stop being so fucking shy!

05-05-2013, 04:34 PM	#99
Girl_On_Fire Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Relationship Status: On Hiatus Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Connecticut Posts: 690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,020 Thanked 2,684 Times in 562 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I was barely 23 when I joined the dash site. I'm 33 now. What a difference 10 years makes. I had only been out of the closet for a year and I knew very little about the butch/femme dynamic. I was just heart-broken over a breakup and Google'd "butch femme" and it popped up. I met one of my closest friends on that site and a few others who would lead me through some of the most profound awakenings (and painful lessons) of my life. I don't regret any of it. Although I've recently had a set-back due to a very difficult breakup, I feel like life began at 30 for me. So much makes more sense now. I can't explain it. It's like puzzle pieces locking together. I don't mind age at all so long as I can be healthy, happy, and "with it" for the duration. __________________ "Quit trying to reason with unreasonable people. It's like trying to have a meaningful conversation with an end table." ~ Girl_On_Fire

05-05-2013, 04:42 PM	#100
KCBUTCH Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Undaunted QUEER Dom, Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: MYSELF, Syr, Hy, or friend prefered Relationship Status: Cautious, indifferent... Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Below the foothills above the beach Posts: 1,848 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,240 Thanked 3,305 Times in 884 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I think I was in my early 30's when I joined the dash site and now I'll see 42 this year - Love this place __________________ "If you want to know the secrets of the Universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration"-Nikola Tesla