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![]() “We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.” I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way. Let our scars fall in love.” ― Galway Kinnell |
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“The one who would be constant in happiness must frequently change.”
― Anthony de Mello “You are so intense. Like a storm. It's shocking how intense you are.” ― Francesca Lia Block “Do your own thing on your own terms and get what you came here for” ― Oliver James “Surround yourself only with people who are going to take you higher.” ― Oprah Winfrey
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The lies a treasure in her waiting to awaken, a breath longing to release
can you find your way on the map to celebrate her deepest desires? Are you worthy? Are you kind? Will she surrender her will to you at least and beg to be taken? Can you protect her now, in your fragile state? Are you full enough to give to her all she is worth? Can you wait to touch, to tame , to heal... She make you want? She calls you name? Be diligent and endure until the time comes for you to feed the fire she has within. IF you are not ready- stand fast captain - the ship will sail when you are ready to steer it!-ME
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1) The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams 2) A loving heart is the truest wisdom. 3) Destiny is not a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. It is not a thing we wait for, it is a thing to be acheived. 4) A wise woman learns by the mistakes of others , a fool by her own 5) At first they only dislike what you say , but the more correct you are the more they dislike you.
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![]() When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares. ~Henri Nouwen
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___REAL men never stop trying to show the woman they love how much she means to him ... (even) after he's got her.... (just sayin') ....
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Insights from myth, dreams, and intuitions, from glimpses of an invisible reality, and from perennial human wisdom provide us with hints and guesses about the meaning of life and what we are here for. Prayer, observance, discipline, thought and action are the means through which we grow and find meaning.
- Jean Shinoda Bolen
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It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” Judy Garland |
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Your eyes make me feel like a hunter who is being hunted by a beautiful gazelle.
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“... the best way of killing a rose is to force it open when it is still only the promise of a bud.” ― José Saramago
“Time grants a unique perspective which allows us to see events through a filter of accumulated wisdom.” ― Christopher Earle “Even now, he is every blue shirt getting into a truck cab, every runner along the river,every motorcycle coming and going.” ― Melissa Bank
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Author Popularity 6/10 Yakov Smirnoff was born on January 24, 1951
(Russian born American comedian. b.1951) "Homosexuality in Russia is a crime and the punishment is seven years in prison, locked up with the other men. There is a three year waiting list." Life isn't fair. It's just fairer than death, that's all. William Goldman, I used to dread getting older because I thought I would not be able to do all the things I wanted to do, but now that I am older I find that I don't want to do them. Nancy Astor (1879 - 1964)
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"As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back."
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1) Love doesnt make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile. 2) There is no remedy for love but to love more 3) Love is, above all, the gift to oneself 4) You dont have to go looking for love when its where you come from
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Nothing you do for me goes unnoticed.
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What do you know about being black? She asked the yellow colored girl.
Hey girl!
I see you walking. Looking and moving – you look just like me. Your hips are moving and tongue clicking. I see you speaking of my plight. Chocolate skin… Hold on girl! Caramel, almond, cafe con leche, caju, mel, and then chocolate. My hips don’t move, they sway My tongue dances formulating words foreign to this harsh idiom. Our cause is/not one of the same. Seeking to be seen, recognized, validated, and legalized. Our history are beats of a drum – African/ Caribbean/Indigenous/ Latina I am like you – not. You see me walking. I am just like you - not Then I speak. I am lost. Hey girl! Now, you don’t recognize me. ~SPS
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“I was full of a hot, powerful sadness and would have loved to burst into the comfort of tears, but tried hard not to, remembering something my Guru once said -- that you should never give yourself a chance to fall apart because, when you do, it becomes a tendency and it happens over and over again. You must practice staying strong, instead.”
“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.” “Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation.” “and when you sense a faint potentiality for happiness after such dark times you must grab onto the ankles of that happiness and not let go until it drags you face-first out of the dirt-this is not selfishness, but obligation. You were given life; it is your duty to find something beautiful within life no matter how slight.” |
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They call to me
full breasted, wet and restless they scream my name sweet tenderness, the wild tamed. Her, She, woman, femme her delicate tastes, supple skin, submissive ways. they look different, they are warm, kind, generous. She melts in my mouth She buckles under my sex she, who is not here but wanted her; the one that lingers femme, the half to my whole so familiar and never getting old. Though I've discovered a challenge to my want, the memory of you remains, she who calls to me is left behind because you are still there. teasing me with a love forgotten. Taunting me with the story of us turned to the breaking of me... My heart is not healed yet- it is then I realize I am not reaching for anyone but running away from you. I am not seeking to be with "her" I am trying to forget you I am lost, I am wandering. I am not yet free from the place you made in my heart. And my heart aches. So I step forward and fall back I reach and recoil I rise and dissolve. She who steals from my breathe- woman, who arouses my senses femme, she who feeds the flames of my desire My missing piece lies lost under the sofa The picture is there but it will take a thorough spring cleaning for it to be whole. So I wait, I distract and I cry... I run, I walk and I hide.-ME
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