What is on your mind - Page 564

TheMerryFairy · 04-16-2013, 07:20 PM

A few specific things and floating thoughts and ideas about my traveling project

prettyboyreg · 04-16-2013, 09:20 PM

I'm sick of drama and I'm going to finally focus on me...

Gráinne · 04-16-2013, 10:01 PM

As I've only stated about 50,000 times before, my daughter is getting into competitive swimming and found out she's officially on the summer league, yay! But with that comes all the body issues a 14 year old has. She worries that her shoulders and arms will be too big, like a boy's. She's self-conscious about her height-5'6 and growing (the pants we bought in January-forget it). I think she'll be fine; she's pretty self-confident anyway. My own daughter inspires me.

It is sort of bittersweet when I tell her the positive things and support her, muscular athletic build and all, when I'm prone to see only my body faults. It's been hard for me to listen to myself and put my money where my mouth is. But accepting myself and even loving my naked self is a journey that can only benefit both of us.

KCBUTCH · 04-16-2013, 10:11 PM

wondering what my dog dreams about
he's always barking and running in his sleep- so cute
maybe he's chasing squirrels like I let him in the park when he was a pup

AnnRkey · 04-16-2013, 11:24 PM

Pretty excited to pick up my new puppy on Thursday!

DamonK · 04-17-2013, 12:53 AM

My wife.
School.
The future.

And no one but my wife will get this one... the Civil War.

StrongButch · 04-17-2013, 05:28 AM

Finishing my website for my photography.

Breezy · 04-17-2013, 07:38 AM

My husband.
The kiddo.
Our future.
A new home.

Cid · 04-17-2013, 08:39 AM

In the news again today a teenage girl took her own life because of cyber bullying. I hate hearing this. To make matters even worse, it was because she drank a bottle of gatorade with alcohol in it. I don't know if this was her choice or not, but being gang raped wasn't. Not only that, but they posted it on facebook and everyone in her school was talking about it. What I don't get is this...
1. Why were these boys so proud of something so disgusting?
2. Why was the girl (victim no less) the one that was embarrassed?
3. How do the parents keep themselves from ripping the f***ing heads off these
animals that did this to their daughter, I would have a hard time with that.
4. Where are the girls that should have been rallying around this girl?
5. When will it end?

I hate facebook for a number of reasons...this is just another reason to add to the list.

Cid · 04-17-2013, 09:10 AM

Here's something else I'd like to know. Why do a lot of people have to die
or be injured before anyone really notices?

TheMerryFairy · 04-17-2013, 04:11 PM

Work, projects, gypsy soul energy, daydreams while staring out the window with a cup of herbal tea, friends, dates , self care, meditation and what to eat for supper tonight.

Music is big on my mind today too! I have been singing to the radio all day, even at work on my breaks. I think my boss was highly amused during lunch hour.

KCBUTCH · 04-17-2013, 04:54 PM

I would say coincidences but knowing the universe the way I do, its generally planned in ways I have yet to comprehend....

StrongButch · 04-17-2013, 05:27 PM

At my age I have dirty dirty thoughts. Dont know if ill be around tomorrow. So go out smiling! (lol)

~ocean · 04-17-2013, 05:31 PM

hmmm ~ watching wich way the wind blows ~

StrongButch · 04-17-2013, 05:38 PM

Watch that wind wave grl might blow your skirt up! (lol)

TheMerryFairy · 04-17-2013, 10:11 PM

I am not really thinking much, but I am feeling a lot right now.

StrongButch · 04-18-2013, 06:16 AM

Ill be glad when I dont have to make my own coffee!

Wryly · 04-18-2013, 08:00 AM

Advice not asked for is usually not welcomed. Except in this case. PMs and chats with friends who have heard it all before confirm what I know in my heart.
Too often lately she is on my mind. But it is best not to go there.

thank you all - - you know who you are.

DMW · 04-18-2013, 09:14 AM

Hot Chic alert and how this job has way too many women as customers...and what the heck ...that I am a blockhead that needs to learn to read them better...
Ignore ignore ignore! Whatevah

starryeyes · 04-18-2013, 11:24 AM

I have been going through a really difficult time, work related, since January which has caused me to reevaluate my career. I am self-employed and work through interpreting agencies. The main one I work for (about 35 hours a week) went through some financial woes, and withheld payment for months. They are still 2 months behind on invoices. I have been "getting by" but it has made a serious impact on my life. In San Diego, there are no "staff" positions readily available unless you are willing to work in the video relay field (no thanks).

Because of this, I have been applying for jobs out of state, trying to find a position that has stability, benefits, room for growth and is more challenging. I have an interview for a position at a government office in Philadelphia next week. It's a phone interview and I need to send a work sample (sign language interpreting) before May 1st. I have never been to Philadelphia, not sure if I am that interested but am going to interview anyways for the experience.

Another position just opened up in Washington D.C that looks like an amazing opportunity. I worked in D.C on a special contract for a few months and I loved it. I don't know how competitive this position will be, but I am going to apply anyways. It will be taking me way out of my comfort zone and throwing me into the middle of politics, but I am ready for the challenge.

Guess we will see what happens! I'm open to change

04-16-2013, 09:20 PM	#11262
prettyboyreg Member How Do You Identify?: TG Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2012 Location: Central CA Posts: 337 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 894 Thanked 1,512 Times in 293 Posts Rep Power: 15589055	I'm sick of drama and I'm going to finally focus on me... __________________ Acceptance is the key to everything!

04-16-2013, 10:01 PM	#11263
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,818 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,011 Thanked 7,245 Times in 1,415 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	As I've only stated about 50,000 times before, my daughter is getting into competitive swimming and found out she's officially on the summer league, yay! But with that comes all the body issues a 14 year old has. She worries that her shoulders and arms will be too big, like a boy's. She's self-conscious about her height-5'6 and growing (the pants we bought in January-forget it). I think she'll be fine; she's pretty self-confident anyway. My own daughter inspires me. It is sort of bittersweet when I tell her the positive things and support her, muscular athletic build and all, when I'm prone to see only my body faults. It's been hard for me to listen to myself and put my money where my mouth is. But accepting myself and even loving my naked self is a journey that can only benefit both of us. __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

04-16-2013, 10:11 PM	#11264
KCBUTCH Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Undaunted QUEER Dom, Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: MYSELF, Syr, Hy, or friend prefered Relationship Status: Cautious, indifferent... Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Below the foothills above the beach Posts: 1,848 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,240 Thanked 3,305 Times in 884 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	wondering what my dog dreams about he's always barking and running in his sleep- so cute maybe he's chasing squirrels like I let him in the park when he was a pup __________________ "If you want to know the secrets of the Universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration"-Nikola Tesla

04-17-2013, 05:28 AM	#11267
StrongButch Member How Do You Identify?: I see the world thru a lens Preferred Pronoun?: Yes Boss Relationship Status: Chillin out with awesome women Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 1,376 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,018 Thanked 4,184 Times in 1,179 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Mind Finishing my website for my photography. __________________ Life is like music,so it can be played in many different styles.

04-17-2013, 08:39 AM	#11269
Cid Member How Do You Identify?: ultra femme princess Preferred Pronoun?: she, lady..whichever Relationship Status: waiting for the right one Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Don't follow me, I'm lost. Posts: 807 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,627 Thanked 2,731 Times in 632 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	In the news again today a teenage girl took her own life because of cyber bullying. I hate hearing this. To make matters even worse, it was because she drank a bottle of gatorade with alcohol in it. I don't know if this was her choice or not, but being gang raped wasn't. Not only that, but they posted it on facebook and everyone in her school was talking about it. What I don't get is this... 1. Why were these boys so proud of something so disgusting? 2. Why was the girl (victim no less) the one that was embarrassed? 3. How do the parents keep themselves from ripping the f***ing heads off these animals that did this to their daughter, I would have a hard time with that. 4. Where are the girls that should have been rallying around this girl? 5. When will it end? I hate facebook for a number of reasons...this is just another reason to add to the list. __________________ Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.

04-16-2013, 07:20 PM	#11261
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	A few specific things and floating thoughts and ideas about my traveling project

04-16-2013, 11:24 PM	#11265
AnnRkey Member How Do You Identify?: As Myself Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Unknown & Known Universe Posts: 226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 406 Thanked 420 Times in 143 Posts Rep Power: 2875676	Pretty excited to pick up my new puppy on Thursday!

04-17-2013, 12:53 AM	#11266
DamonK Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: May 2010 Location: . Posts: 2,199 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,527 Thanked 7,762 Times in 1,881 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	My wife. School. The future. And no one but my wife will get this one... the Civil War.

04-17-2013, 07:38 AM	#11268
Breezy Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: . Posts: 1,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,337 Thanked 4,555 Times in 1,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	My husband. The kiddo. Our future. A new home.

04-17-2013, 09:10 AM	#11270
Cid Member How Do You Identify?: ultra femme princess Preferred Pronoun?: she, lady..whichever Relationship Status: waiting for the right one Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Don't follow me, I'm lost. Posts: 807 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,627 Thanked 2,731 Times in 632 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Here's something else I'd like to know. Why do a lot of people have to die or be injured before anyone really notices? __________________ Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.

04-17-2013, 04:11 PM	#11271
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Work, projects, gypsy soul energy, daydreams while staring out the window with a cup of herbal tea, friends, dates , self care, meditation and what to eat for supper tonight. Music is big on my mind today too! I have been singing to the radio all day, even at work on my breaks. I think my boss was highly amused during lunch hour.

04-17-2013, 04:54 PM	#11272
KCBUTCH Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Undaunted QUEER Dom, Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: MYSELF, Syr, Hy, or friend prefered Relationship Status: Cautious, indifferent... Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Below the foothills above the beach Posts: 1,848 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,240 Thanked 3,305 Times in 884 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I would say coincidences but knowing the universe the way I do, its generally planned in ways I have yet to comprehend.... __________________ "If you want to know the secrets of the Universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration"-Nikola Tesla

04-17-2013, 05:27 PM	#11273
StrongButch Member How Do You Identify?: I see the world thru a lens Preferred Pronoun?: Yes Boss Relationship Status: Chillin out with awesome women Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 1,376 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,018 Thanked 4,184 Times in 1,179 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Mind At my age I have dirty dirty thoughts. Dont know if ill be around tomorrow. So go out smiling! (lol) __________________ Life is like music,so it can be played in many different styles.

04-17-2013, 05:31 PM	#11274
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,124 Times in 4,736 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	hmmm ~ watching wich way the wind blows ~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean

04-17-2013, 05:38 PM	#11275
StrongButch Member How Do You Identify?: I see the world thru a lens Preferred Pronoun?: Yes Boss Relationship Status: Chillin out with awesome women Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 1,376 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,018 Thanked 4,184 Times in 1,179 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Mind Watch that wind wave grl might blow your skirt up! (lol) __________________ Life is like music,so it can be played in many different styles.

04-17-2013, 10:11 PM	#11276
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I am not really thinking much, but I am feeling a lot right now.

04-18-2013, 06:16 AM	#11277
StrongButch Member How Do You Identify?: I see the world thru a lens Preferred Pronoun?: Yes Boss Relationship Status: Chillin out with awesome women Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 1,376 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,018 Thanked 4,184 Times in 1,179 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Mind Ill be glad when I dont have to make my own coffee! __________________ Life is like music,so it can be played in many different styles.

04-18-2013, 08:00 AM	#11278
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094253	Advice not asked for is usually not welcomed. Except in this case. PMs and chats with friends who have heard it all before confirm what I know in my heart. Too often lately she is on my mind. But it is best not to go there. thank you all - - you know who you are.

04-18-2013, 09:14 AM	#11279
DMW Member How Do You Identify?: FTM/Male (Will 14) Relationship Status: Caught An Angel and she doesn't lie! Join Date: May 2012 Location: @ Posts: 784 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,256 Thanked 1,861 Times in 614 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Hot Chic alert and how this job has way too many women as customers...and what the heck ...that I am a blockhead that needs to learn to read them better... Ignore ignore ignore! Whatevah

04-18-2013, 11:24 AM	#11280
starryeyes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?: Guess... Relationship Status: Seat taken Join Date: May 2011 Location: Rocky Mountain High Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,199 Thanked 10,056 Times in 2,077 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I have been going through a really difficult time, work related, since January which has caused me to reevaluate my career. I am self-employed and work through interpreting agencies. The main one I work for (about 35 hours a week) went through some financial woes, and withheld payment for months. They are still 2 months behind on invoices. I have been "getting by" but it has made a serious impact on my life. In San Diego, there are no "staff" positions readily available unless you are willing to work in the video relay field (no thanks). Because of this, I have been applying for jobs out of state, trying to find a position that has stability, benefits, room for growth and is more challenging. I have an interview for a position at a government office in Philadelphia next week. It's a phone interview and I need to send a work sample (sign language interpreting) before May 1st. I have never been to Philadelphia, not sure if I am that interested but am going to interview anyways for the experience. Another position just opened up in Washington D.C that looks like an amazing opportunity. I worked in D.C on a special contract for a few months and I loved it. I don't know how competitive this position will be, but I am going to apply anyways. It will be taking me way out of my comfort zone and throwing me into the middle of politics, but I am ready for the challenge. Guess we will see what happens! I'm open to change __________________ "It's ok to make mistakes. It's ok to fall down. Get up! Look sickening....and make them eat it!" - Latrice Royale Starry