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			Hey ya nuts, this here is the "is it better" thread...hehehehehe
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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 Is it better to have a job that you like with little stress, or have a job that you love but it comes with long hours and a lot of stress? 
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 Is it better to have all bills paid or pay them a little bit every month?  | 
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 Is it better to enjoy your money now, or to not "play" as much now (invest your money), so that you don't risk having not enough money when you retire/are no longer able to work? 
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 Is it better to master one thing or to be a jack of all trades?  | 
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 Is it better to eat what you want in small portions or diet 
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 Is it better to see into the future but not be able to change anything or to have the power to change the future without knowing what's coming or the consequence?  | 
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 So, I'd go with making changes. Is it better to have book smarts or street smarts?  | 
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 Is it better to have firm plans or fly by the seat of your pants  | 
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 Is it better to have the respect of your children or your parents?  | 
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 Is it better to clear the air RIGHT AWAY or wait and collect your thoughts?  | 
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 Is it better to be blind about misgivings or have grace towardsa person?  | 
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 But we can say that about all "Is it better" questions, can't we? Quote: 
	
 Is it better to quit a job you've had for 10 years and start all over in an entry-level position in hopes of doing what you've always wanted to do, or is it better to continue working at a job where you have seniority but it gives you no satisfaction? Last edited by Orema; 02-29-2016 at 07:44 PM.  | 
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   But I tell myself I make good money and I have health insurance, etc. However, if I ever hit that lottery I will quit.     IS IT BETTER to try alternative medicine (herbs, homeopathy, reiki, accupressure,etc) or stick with traditional medicine the family doctor prescribes?
		
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