Randomly Posting Stuff Cause You Feel Like It

[dixie]

Amazingly Simple Home Remedies:

1. AVOID CUTTING YOURSELF WHEN SLICING VEGETABLES BY GETTING SOMEONE ELSE TO HOLD THE VEGETABLES WHILE YOU CHOP.

2. AVOID ARGUMENTS ABOUT LIFTING THE TOILET SEAT BY USING THE SINK.

3. FOR HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE SUFFERERS ~ SIMPLY CUT YOURSELF AND BLEED FOR A FEW MINUTES,
THUS REDUCING THE PRESSURE ON YOUR VEINS. REMEMBER TO USE A TIMER.

4. A MOUSE TRAP PLACED ON TOP OF YOUR ALARM CLOCK WILL PREVENT YOU
FROM ROLLING OVER AND GOING BACK TO SLEEP AFTER YOU HIT THE SNOOZE
BUTTON.

5. IF YOU HAVE A BAD COUGH, TAKE A LARGE DOSE OF LAXATIVES, THEN
YOU'LL BE TOO AFRAID TO COUGH.

6. YOU ONLY NEED TWO TOOLS IN LIFE: WD-40 AND DUCT TAPE. IF IT
DOESN'T MOVE AND SHOULD, USE THE WD-40. IF IT SHOULDN'T MOVE AND
DOES, USE THE DUCT TAPE.

7. IF YOU CAN'T FIX IT WITH A HAMMER, YOU'VE GOT AN ELECTRICAL PROBLEM.

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[justanolecowboy]

I had some time last night to have my cigar and glass of bourbon and wander around (the planet) a bit … to read posts and threads that I sometimes don’t have time for – or just to see what people are feeling and thinking …

I read a lot of great stuff – great thinkers – great lovers – great people…and some of it I read and I think - wow…I wish I could write like that – or you know… “gosh – why didn’t I think of that” … so many giving and selfless people seem to hang out in abundance here at (this place) – and then I read some – that are so sad – people genuinely hurting and reaching out – and they are responded to with outpourings of support and kindness – also a very cool thing to see…and then I read some that are posted with great laughter and great intention for laugher – and that is just pretty darn cool too…

All in all some pretty cool things – but then I read (every once in awhile) some who is so unhappy with life and love – that their posts are just sad in that kindof way… (and) I’m sure it is because of great hurt or disappointment …and that age of saying of time will heal all wounds – doesn’t really help (sometimes) even though it is true…

But – I’m rambling…cause that’s what I do (lol) … I read something last night that really bothered me…and I did not respond directly – but I have thought about it a great deal.

This person and a few that responded were saying that they didn’t want to be in relationships or in a relationship because the “burden of responsibility” was just too much – well… I just find that sad.

And what follows is only (my thoughts) on responsibility in love – I don’t put what I think onto anybody else – just what I believe.

I’m an old fashioned kinda guy (as I told someone this morning) – with a few modern updates I hope…that is to say – I don’t beat my chest or carry a club…and drag a woman by her hair into the cave…lol – but yeah – I do have some old fashioned values – instilled by my grandfather and father – and my faith and belief in God (not always popular I realize) – but again, it is how I “feel” –

And I thought about responsibility and love – and how they kindof go hand in hand (at least in my book) – how responsibility can literally transform your relationship.

Love – (to me) involves two people giving themselves to each other – and this self-giving is nothing less than a total entrusting of one's self to the other person — a surrendering of one's own preferences, freedom, and will for the sake of the other.

This means that in significant love (however you might define that), the one who loves me would completely give herself to me – committing her will to the good of the relationship – (now – don’t throw things at me) …. and (because) of that complete giving – and the fact that she entrusts her life to me in this unique way – I (must) – in turn, have a profound sense of responsibility for her – for her well-being – her happiness – her emotional security- indeed everything that touches her life and she cares about (and I do – feel that responsibility). There for me exists in love a particular responsibility – but it is such a honor and privilege to (have that) responsibility…and I am (happily and quite joyfully responsible to that one who holds my heart).

The greater the feeling of responsibility for the person the more true love there is – and that should grow – daily – sometimes by leaps and bounds…sometimes just a little – but every day it grows… putting down roots – that grow taller and stronger and more entwined each day. It’s not more powerful emotions – but more powerful “love” itself. I don’t think the true measure for love is how much one enjoys being with their significant other – or how much pleasure is received – (authentic love) is not self-centered – constantly looking inward at your own emotions or desires. True love to me looks outward – in (complete awe) at my beloved who has entrusted herself to me – and I have the deepest sense of responsibility for her good – (especially) in light of the fact that she gives to me.

You see … there must be acceptance on both parts … I accept the gift of herself to me – and vice versa – for acceptance must also be giving – and giving receiving…(not sure I said that right but maybe you can figure it out).
Wait now…let me explain… how is or rather in what sense is the acceptance of her gift to me (a gift to her)…and this is where my Biblical teaching and upbringing comes into play (again – my point of view only here)…if I love (the one who holds my heart) as I should (and I certainly try)…I love here without selfishness – and not what I can get out of the relationship – emotional pleasure or even sexual pleasure – I love her simply as a PERSON. I accept her as the tremendous gift she is – and that I treasure and care for her…yes – having a profound sense of responsibility for her – and always seeking what is best for her – not what is best for me – but what is best for her…never doing anything to purposefully hurt her (ever).

Come on guys – imagine - how your woman might feel if she knew you completely accepted her this way – I accept my ladies love as a gift and love her for her own sake – not for my own – if you love her in this way – she will I guarantee you feel the security she needs to feel safe enough to entrust her heart – indeed her whole life to you fully – without fear of being let down – in other words – yep you guessed – committed love and acceptance fosters trust and makes emotional intimacy possible – and without emotional intimacy – you can never have lasting physical intimacy – (because it only seems empty and temporary)…

I want to make love to my ladies heart – then to her body – so when I touch her body – she doesn’t just feel a touch to her skin – but she feels it in her heart.

I want her to have complete trust in my love for her – she should never be fearful that I will use her - or that she will be mis-understood – or that I will not have patience in heart and mind and spirit – completely in all things … when a woman feels that – when she feels you are (responsible for her in love) – she will hold nothing back…because she trusts – and total trust brings intimacy (not just sex)….a woman will only grow to trust – or unveil her heart to you – to the extent she senses your commitment to her – your acceptance – and yes – your responsibility for her… in all ways. (not control – but responsibility) – big difference there. (just sayin’).

Is it easy? – yes and no – no because we are human (at least I know I am) … and yes – because when you love deeply and through God and for her best interest – nothing is more easy – its easy to get caught up in the day to day stuff of life – we get busy – we get preoccupied – but I can guarantee you – there is no greater responsibility – no greater joy that conveying to the woman in your life – that no matter what else goes on around you – SHE alone is your greatest priority.

Does it mean you won’t ever hurt or be hurt – no – again – we are human…but if you love with a heart of devotion and keep your eyes on that one you are devoted too…the likelihood is greatly reduced.

As my grandfather said – when you love someone – you love them ALL the way – through all the good – all the bad and all the in-between…you just simply love – with completeness of mind – body – heart and spirit and honor her with your words and actions in all ways – even when you are (not) together…


She says: How can you love me so? I’m far from perfect… I say…even your imperfections are loved by me - because I love you with completeness for ALL of who you are not (part of who you are) - (not that I’ve found any mind you – imperfections in her)…

I remain fully committed to her as a person who has given me the greatest gift I could ever receive..(herself – her love) – and I have unwavering acceptance in my heart for her – being patient in all things – for it simply is (for me to love her that way).

OK …I’ve rambled on here quite a bit – and I’m not even going to back and re-read – but just hit submit…again – this is my thoughts on responsibility and love and how happy my responsibility to her makes me – I could have no greater honor …

One more thing – as I drain the last little bit of my bourbon here…I read some about LDR last night as well – lots of advice there…they can and do work – if both are willing…but – distance (in miles is nothing) … while it may be inconvenient…it can be solved and dealt with – distance in space between hearts is a much bigger issue – and I’ve seen people who are in the same room … MILES and MILES apart – so … don’t let “distance in miles” rule your heart. (just my two cents worth).

The emotional stability you forge when not being able to be in (physical presence) – only enhances your relationship – you find a deeper knowing and appreciation of the complete person…often times there is a deeper sharing when apart - then when together (just a thought).

Thanks for letting me ramble – I appreciate it – have a beautiful night – don’t be afraid of Responsibility of Love – it is the single greatest thing that can happen to you… (and I thank God every day for that responsibility of love (for her) and for her graciousness in loving me – just an ole’cowboy – clearly I am blessed beyond all reason.

[Parker]

My puppy, Sally totally did this last night and scared the ever-living CRAP out of me.
I was in that state when you are just falling into a deep sleep then BARK-BARK-BARK-BARK!!!!!
For absolutely NO reason. None.
I almost pee'd.
Little monster.

[Parker]

My short skirt is not an invitation
a provocation
an indication
that I want it
or give it
or that I hook.

My short skirt
is not begging for it
it does not want you
to rip it off me
or pull it down.

My short skirt
is not a legal reason
for raping me
although it has been before
it will not hold up
in the new court.

My short skirt, believe it or not
has nothing to do with you.

My short skirt
is about discovering
the power of my lower calves
about cool autumn air traveling
up my inner thighs
about allowing everything I see
or pass or feel to live inside.

My short skirt is not proof
that I am stupid
or undecided
or a malleable little girl.

My short skirt is my defiance
I will not let you make me afraid
My short skirt is not showing off
this is who I am
before you made me cover it
or tone it down.
Get used to it.

My short skirt is happiness
I can feel myself on the ground.
I am here. I am hot.

My short skirt is a liberation
flag in the women's army
I declare these streets, any streets
my vagina's country.

My short skirt
is turquoise water
with swimming colored fish
a summer festival
in the starry dark
a bird calling
a train arriving in a foreign town
my short skirt is a wild spin
a full breath
a tango dip
my short skirt is
initiation
appreciation
excitation.

But mainly my short skirt
and everything under it
is Mine.
Mine.
Mine.

-eve ensler

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Originally Posted by GreeneyedMe

Don't put anything in your pockets!