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this goes into clothing and caring about OURSELVES
why is it that straight people especially women....therapists especially try to hmmmm get us to dress differently.
I am soft butch and I am MOST comphy in Tshirts w/ Sayings/characters and jeans and or shorts...and I don't always LOOK Shnazzy...GREAT.... and get looked at as IF I don't WANT to take care of myself. BUT I just don't know how to change...LOOK different AND I sure AS hell DON"T do make up..... JUST asking and needing a lil advice.... Thanks.... |
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addition to my post
I also wear solid colored shirts...and the winter hoodies....I am a soft BUTCH and this is how I am most comphy....JUST don;t know how to dress....the only word coming to mind is glamorous, BUT I am thinking,,,,Proper is the better term
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Hi all! Just thought I'd bump this up a bit.
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I am most comfy in my work clothing (work boots, jeans, t-shirts and hoodies)... A few soft butch things: Have you tried polo shirts...same type of material as t-shirts but with a collar... If a full button down shirt is not too butch than soft(I have no clue) then those are great with a solid t-shirt under them with the top 2-3 buttons undone(been told by a few femme's that's yummy...lol)... Darker blue jeans look sharper than lighter colored... hoodies are ok...solid colors best(no rips/holes/stains...even tho my fav is this way...not best in public...lol) They make sweatshirts and sweaters that have a zipper at the top...still a pull over but a little more "style" than just a hoodie... Just a few suggestions of course...and my own personal opinion...Just trying to take what you said you are comfy in and spruse it up a little
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Im just the "boi next door" I wear cargo shorts alot with t shirts and a cap, or polo shirt and jeans. To work its cargo pants/ polo shirt. Im a big boi but I feel sexy as hell... I just love it when a femme thinks big butches are sexy....
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right now I don't have the money for new clothes. looking for a job and such and most of my stuff has holes in it. Only have 2 pairs of pants right now....because I went from being a Prince....to down and out in like 3 weeks. Don't like Polo Shirts I don't do many things w/ a color but learning...and for me for dress it would be slacks and some nice boots and a vest dress shirt and tie |
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I just wanted to pop in and give love and support to the big butches here and elsewhere in our universe. You are sooo attractive and sexy. Big shoulders, strong arms, tight jeans ... omg, now where IS my fan!
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I couldn't agree with you more, Sis. I miss snuggling into a strong, broad shoulder and feeling securely enfolded in a big bear hug.
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Im glad to see this thread again I had missed it... I love seeing all the femmes out there who love us big guys
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this is the first time ive seen this thread.. its good to see it.. tho i recently went from 280lbs to 210 at 5'10 im still built like a line backer.. ive always worried esp when i was at 280 that i was to big. that my size scared people away. i know there are some femmes that love the big butches. growing up i was fairly on the too skinny side lol and worried that some big butch would kick my ass if i didnt behave right. as an adult and a older butch im proud to join the ranks!
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I am SO very glad to see this thread again, missed it alot
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Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance):
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There's so much more to us all than that number on the scale or the tags in our clothes. A short list of things that matter to me are:
1 - even tempered; 2 - mature, well-mannered, respectful and polite; 3 - personal appearance - as in well groomed; 4 - employed; 5 - emotionally secure/confident - no need to prove themselves to anyone or for any reason; 6 - sense of humour and loves to laugh; 7 - understands the difference between breaking and curbing this high spirited femme; 8 - loves conversation/discussion; 9 - loves animals; and 10 - not hung up on an ex (or exes) and/or will not let an ex move back back in, tell me after the fact and expect me to be OK with it all. |
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