What do you want? - Page 7

*Anya* · 04-19-2013, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by calibri

I've found that quite a good way of finding the kind of person you want is online dating. Yes, I know, it has its downfalls, but really it's just a mixed bag like with meeting people in person. The beauty is that you get to know a lot about people (and have a good guess at whether they're suitable for you or not) just based on what they say on their profile. You don't have to waste time on entire dates screening people when a quick glance of their profile gives you a good indication of compatibility.

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Originally Posted by *Anya*

I agree completely. I am very honest with what I am looking for in my profile. I am looking for a life partner at this stage of my life and dating is the only way I know of to possibly meet "the one". As stressful as dating can be, I also find it fun and interesting to meet bright women with such varied backgrounds and occupations.

I believe that chemistry is everything. It can't be manufactured or wished to happen; it either is there or not. Unfortunately, there is no way to know if it is present or not, without meeting someone in person!

There really, for me, is no way to know without that meeting. Once you know if there is chemistry, you still have to find out if values, beliefs, outlook on life matches or meshes with yours. That takes a lot more time and energy but I feel it is totally worth it unless one wants to spend the rest of ones life alone.

I do not.

Shortly after I wrote this I did find "the one". The one I laugh with ( sometimes at) cry with, act like a silly, goofy girl, talk with about everything under the sun and listen to her own hopes, fears, dreams and joyful moments and dry her eyes when her butch eyes leak and the most special and life-affirming of all: we make love, every glorious chance that we get.

Sometimes I have to pinch my self that I am so lucky. What did I want?

What I have found: a brainy, sharp, attractive, funny, loving butch who loves me, thinks I am really funny and laughs at all of my jokes (even the groaners)!

girl_dee · 04-20-2013, 09:45 AM

to not feel like half of me is missing no matter where i go

TheMerryFairy · 04-20-2013, 11:03 AM

I want these cramps to go away, to watch a movie with company, a coffee milkshake and more lunch.

imperfect_cupcake · 10-13-2013, 09:42 AM

well I finally think I'm ready to be able to have a relationship. I'm actually pretty open to many things but there are things I *need* not want:

they can't be hung up on "being a gentleman" or we'll never get anywhere. I do need someone who isn't sexually shy. who can talk filth. who is t going to hold back because they think they need to act to some bizarre code. we'll be waiting forever if they wait more me to get dirty first. I can talk filth to peel paint off a wall but I am reactive and I bounce off of another's desire for me. being lusted after gets me going. I will respond very well but they have to start the engine.

I need a sense of humour that can take teasing/taking the piss. this is how I flirt. banter. I need someone able to tease and take the piss back so we can flirt with humour/sex. then get dirty. talking to me about flowers and chocolates and kittens and the colour of my eyes is not going to turn me on. think burlesque humour. naughty. nasty. slightly vulgar.

I'm still old fashioned in many ways but not in "protecting my honour" stuff. my honour doesn't need saving/protecting, it needs ravaging

I need someone who is a bedroom dominant rather than a top. I go weak kneed for someone who wants to use me for their own pleasure, not someone whos main concern is my pleasure. if their pleasure is to force me to orgasm 15 times then do it, don't ask me in bed what I want. I'm not a bottom, I'm a submissive. I there to be thiers. to do/take whatever they want. if the onus is in me to decide or say... doesn't work well for me.

I need someone who loves to talk. or converse. ever since coming home I dated a string of lone wolf/string silent types and it just doesn't work. if you can't laze about with me and talk about yourself and your life or how you see things or what you want to be doing... I'll get bored and lonely. I want to go to the natural history museum and sit on the floor by the butterfly case and talk about what the things you see makes you think of or remember. we'll have a great shag in the morning, have coffee and brekkie, then head out for a day of exploring and conversation.

and a submarine. I'd like someone to have a submarine.

cinnamongrrl · 10-13-2013, 09:53 AM

I want a pony...it's long over due....

Oh...and time to magically elapse me past this uber boring unit in school...blah

AND

For ice cream to be health food...with advertisements saying... Eat More Ice Cream!

and world peace

That is all for now....

Venus · 10-13-2013, 01:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl

I want a pony...it's long over due....

Oh...and time to magically elapse me past this uber boring unit in school...blah

AND

For ice cream to be health food...with advertisements saying... Eat More Ice Cream!

and world peace

That is all for now....

TOTALLY agree on the icecream part. Wish I had some right now! Coffee flavored! I also want to be one of those people who manage to sleep during the day since I worked over 12 hours last night...

Soon · 10-13-2013, 04:05 PM

...more time together...

DaddyNik12 · 10-13-2013, 05:43 PM

what I want is , life , to be okay and not have to stress ,

I want peace inside of myself , and peace again with a few others , theres more wants that I wanna post but don't think I can do it yet

RockOn · 10-13-2013, 07:16 PM

For a drunk to get honest, clean and sober. Then come back to me. She and I could have it all. It would take a very dedicated commitment and loads of hard work for things to level out to the good part but I have seen others do this and become very happy. The key is total honesty and total sobriety. She is gaming hard now, running on ego. I hope she will be okay.

I am not stupid. Chances of her getting honest, cleaning up and returning to me are a billion to one.

I love her.
Always will.
That is all.

Helena_Handbasket · 10-13-2013, 10:23 PM

I want someone who has the same definition of love that I do. Someone who is capable of commitment and a meaningful relationship. Someone who is responsible and intelligent. Someone who wont cheat and lie.

I'd like to have a better filter.

Bad_boi · 10-14-2013, 02:32 AM

A cup of tea

For this virus cold thingy to be done

No more anxiety

All of my friends and family to be healthy, happy and successful in their lives.

selty · 11-08-2013, 04:42 PM

I want someone who enjoys being doted on

selty · 11-08-2013, 04:43 PM

wait change my last note, I shouldn't be so personel..... I want cookies.... ohhh and some milk to dip them

ONLY · 11-08-2013, 08:33 PM

For it to be quicker and easier to get my girl

home for good, no more seeing each other every 2 - 3 months for 5-7 days.
I want her home so we can share our lives together as it is meant to be.
I want her happy.

ONLY · 11-09-2013, 04:44 PM

Was thinking how much I want to dance with my girl

right now, hold her nice and close, my lips right my her ear, my hands moving slowly up and down her back........
most likely won't get to do this until Christmas *sigh*

SimpleAlaskanBoy · 11-09-2013, 06:10 PM

Some rugelach & a nice big couch to cuddle on, instead of these stupid recliners.

~SAB

ConCrtAnge1 · 03-24-2014, 03:25 PM

I just want to be loved without any fears!

RockOn · 03-25-2014, 02:57 AM

Woke up about 2:30 a.m. ... Been eating brownie cookies and playing on the Internet for the past hour.

I need to go back to sleep now ... won't happen though. My butt will be dragging late afternoon.

*pulling another cookie out of the bag, accepting my fate*

Kimpooh · 05-10-2014, 10:58 PM

I just want to be loved, wholeheartedly & unconditionally... The way I love

kittygrrl · 05-11-2014, 10:38 PM

ripe strawberries & peace

10-13-2013, 09:53 AM	#125
cinnamongrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?: wild woman Relationship Status: No, thank you. Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Home in NC..gonna dig in like a tick this time… Posts: 7,660 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,225 Thanked 27,595 Times in 6,955 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I want a pony...it's long over due.... Oh...and time to magically elapse me past this uber boring unit in school...blah AND For ice cream to be health food...with advertisements saying... Eat More Ice Cream! and world peace That is all for now.... __________________

10-13-2013, 05:43 PM	#128
DaddyNik12 Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/Domme Preferred Pronoun?: Sir Relationship Status: still searching for ms right Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 580 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 515 Thanked 1,508 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 14895927	what I want is , life , to be okay and not have to stress , I want peace inside of myself , and peace again with a few others , theres more wants that I wanna post but don't think I can do it yet __________________ people with sharp tounges , cut thier own throat !! smirk*

10-13-2013, 10:23 PM	#130
Helena_Handbasket Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 67 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31 Thanked 230 Times in 47 Posts Rep Power: 1686714	I want someone who has the same definition of love that I do. Someone who is capable of commitment and a meaningful relationship. Someone who is responsible and intelligent. Someone who wont cheat and lie. I'd like to have a better filter. __________________

11-08-2013, 08:33 PM	#134
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139964	For it to be quicker and easier to get my girl home for good, no more seeing each other every 2 - 3 months for 5-7 days. I want her home so we can share our lives together as it is meant to be. I want her happy. __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

11-09-2013, 04:44 PM	#135
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139964	Was thinking how much I want to dance with my girl right now, hold her nice and close, my lips right my her ear, my hands moving slowly up and down her back........ most likely won't get to do this until Christmas sigh __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

04-20-2013, 09:45 AM	#122
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	to not feel like half of me is missing no matter where i go

04-20-2013, 11:03 AM	#123
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I want these cramps to go away, to watch a movie with company, a coffee milkshake and more lunch.

10-13-2013, 09:42 AM	#124
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	well I finally think I'm ready to be able to have a relationship. I'm actually pretty open to many things but there are things I need not want: they can't be hung up on "being a gentleman" or we'll never get anywhere. I do need someone who isn't sexually shy. who can talk filth. who is t going to hold back because they think they need to act to some bizarre code. we'll be waiting forever if they wait more me to get dirty first. I can talk filth to peel paint off a wall but I am reactive and I bounce off of another's desire for me. being lusted after gets me going. I will respond very well but they have to start the engine. I need a sense of humour that can take teasing/taking the piss. this is how I flirt. banter. I need someone able to tease and take the piss back so we can flirt with humour/sex. then get dirty. talking to me about flowers and chocolates and kittens and the colour of my eyes is not going to turn me on. think burlesque humour. naughty. nasty. slightly vulgar. I'm still old fashioned in many ways but not in "protecting my honour" stuff. my honour doesn't need saving/protecting, it needs ravaging I need someone who is a bedroom dominant rather than a top. I go weak kneed for someone who wants to use me for their own pleasure, not someone whos main concern is my pleasure. if their pleasure is to force me to orgasm 15 times then do it, don't ask me in bed what I want. I'm not a bottom, I'm a submissive. I there to be thiers. to do/take whatever they want. if the onus is in me to decide or say... doesn't work well for me. I need someone who loves to talk. or converse. ever since coming home I dated a string of lone wolf/string silent types and it just doesn't work. if you can't laze about with me and talk about yourself and your life or how you see things or what you want to be doing... I'll get bored and lonely. I want to go to the natural history museum and sit on the floor by the butterfly case and talk about what the things you see makes you think of or remember. we'll have a great shag in the morning, have coffee and brekkie, then head out for a day of exploring and conversation. and a submarine. I'd like someone to have a submarine.

10-13-2013, 04:05 PM	#127
Soon Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: attached Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 6,896 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,046 Thanked 13,094 Times in 3,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	...more time together...

10-13-2013, 07:16 PM	#129
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	For a drunk to get honest, clean and sober. Then come back to me. She and I could have it all. It would take a very dedicated commitment and loads of hard work for things to level out to the good part but I have seen others do this and become very happy. The key is total honesty and total sobriety. She is gaming hard now, running on ego. I hope she will be okay. I am not stupid. Chances of her getting honest, cleaning up and returning to me are a billion to one. I love her. Always will. That is all.

10-14-2013, 02:32 AM	#131
Bad_boi Member How Do You Identify?: Transman (male) Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His ect. Relationship Status: Handsome bastard. Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: May 2010 Location: Seattle Posts: 727 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 122 Thanked 1,824 Times in 499 Posts Rep Power: 0	A cup of tea For this virus cold thingy to be done No more anxiety All of my friends and family to be healthy, happy and successful in their lives.

11-08-2013, 04:42 PM	#132
selty Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: earth Posts: 40 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24 Thanked 94 Times in 24 Posts Rep Power: 214761	I want someone who enjoys being doted on

11-08-2013, 04:43 PM	#133
selty Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: earth Posts: 40 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24 Thanked 94 Times in 24 Posts Rep Power: 214761	wait change my last note, I shouldn't be so personel..... I want cookies.... ohhh and some milk to dip them

11-09-2013, 06:10 PM	#136
SimpleAlaskanBoy Member How Do You Identify?: Bisexual trans guy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Daddy to a sweet daisy. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: O-H-I-O Posts: 410 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,426 Thanked 1,010 Times in 295 Posts Rep Power: 5996528	Some rugelach & a nice big couch to cuddle on, instead of these stupid recliners. ~SAB __________________ "Eeyup."-Big Macintosh, MLP:FiM <-----Pocky Jedi "There's only one rule I know of babies-G-d damn it, you've got to be kind." -Kurt Vonnegut (G-d Bless You, Mr. Rosewater)

03-24-2014, 03:25 PM	#137
ConCrtAnge1 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Super single Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: Illinois Posts: 37 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 263 Thanked 131 Times in 30 Posts Rep Power: 1298757	I just want to be loved without any fears!

03-25-2014, 02:57 AM	#138
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Woke up about 2:30 a.m. ... Been eating brownie cookies and playing on the Internet for the past hour. I need to go back to sleep now ... won't happen though. My butt will be dragging late afternoon. pulling another cookie out of the bag, accepting my fate

05-10-2014, 10:58 PM	#139
Kimpooh Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian, just me ;-) Preferred Pronoun?: She... Her... Baby... Babe... ;-) Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2014 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 11 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24 Thanked 27 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 246928	I just want to be loved, wholeheartedly & unconditionally... The way I love __________________ <3 Pooh "If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." Bob Marley

05-11-2014, 10:38 PM	#140
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