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Old 03-27-2011, 09:56 AM   #141
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I'm very sorry for your loss, Mike.

I will be thinking of you and your family and am sending you strength during this difficult time.

Peace to you, SweetCali.
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Thoughts and prayers and deepest sympathy sent to you Mike and the girls.
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I'll sure miss that Lady who can run in stilettos (now *that* takes GAME!!)!! I'll never forget how kind and sweet she always was to me in chat, even though she never met me in person. I'll always remember her fondly and one of these days, I hope to get a {{{hug}}} from her in Heaven.

May she forever be surrounded by love, chocolates and strawberries!!!



My deepest condolences to Mike and Sweet's girls, and I hope that the love and support of this wonderful community will be a strong arm around you all in this time of sadness and loss.

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Old 03-27-2011, 10:42 AM   #144
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Everyone, thanks so much and I will post later but would everyone please refrain from posting on Kristis's Facebook page utill I make a post there. WE havent been able to tell all the girls yet as one is on an airplane and we are waiting until she arrives at her aunts house to tell the youngest. The wonders of the internet

thanks much, Mike
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My deepest sympathy and condolences to you Mike, your girls and your family. I've been where you are, just close your eyes, listen with your heart and she's forever with you. Take care of yourself.
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Much love and comfort to you Mike and also to SweetCali on the other side of the veil. <3

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May you find peace and comfort through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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All my love and thoughts to you, Mike. Please know we are all here supporting you and wishing you the peace and love you need. Rest in peace, Sweetcali.
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Many blessings are wished to you and your family for comfort and peace. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Our deepest condolences Mike and the kids. You all are in our thoughts Sweet is at rest now, may you all find peace knowing she is in no more pain. A light has left the world today, let us all remember and pass it on.
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my condolences to you and your family Mike. I was saddened to hear of her passing, she will be missed. If you need anything, you have my number..
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my thought and prayers go out to Mike and the girl..RIP Sweet. May your angels wings fly high as you soar into the heavens,
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sweet calico...we are saddened by your passing but hope that you have found a very soothing peace...and maybe a chocolate waterfall! this is from me sweet...'cause i'm the one who always called you this: (((((sweetchocodiva)))))

mike and family...you and the girls are in our thoughts and will continue to be. it is so very difficult for those of us who remain when it comes time for someone so loved to depart. find time for yourselves...to mourn an unthinkable loss but also to then begin cultivating and enjoying all the memories that will keep her with you in all the steps you take from this day forward. she'll be there.

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When the sun sets... I will see you.
When the sun rises... I will see you.

You have touched so many, Sweet Cali - with your goodness and kindness. May the journey you are on, be filled with so much light and love. I love you Truffle.

Mike ~ You are never alone.
You are surrounded by the love in which you have given.
I am standing with you.

Love to the girls... May their healing begin.

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Mike and "the girls"

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Take care of yourself Mike and when you feel you can't, know that there are others sending you love, light, energy and prayers to sustain you.
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Please listen, my dear friends:

My dear Kristen—our Sweet Calico: you have been a huge influence in my life over not enough years! You taught me so much about how to live with sweetness and kindness in a context of ambiguity and even of parody!! How you made me laugh! For instance, when you didn’t accept your “short-hair” look!!

Folks at my church have been praying for you—for Mike, the girls, the grandparents, and the wonderful good friends—for a long time. We will not stop.

My dear Sweet—we watched the jellyfish together. And you taught me how to love and live across barriers that once were boundaries. I honor your life and feel deeply in my heart your presence among us. Good-bye, dear friend.

Heart’s outpourings to all who love her!


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Sending love and light to you Mike and your family during this difficult time...

Sweet, thank you for your warmth and kindness. You will never be forgotten as you have touched so many lives and will live on in hearts of those who love you.
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I didn't get to officially "meet" Sweet until the Dash Bash in Oakland. This was a year after the Dallas event where I pawed through some clothing swap items, trying to find some suitable things to send home with Mike for her.

I remember when I met her how she warmly took both of my hands and we embraced like old friends. What a kind and wonderful person. What a sparkly spirit.

Although we are sad that she has moved on without us, how wonderful for all of us to have known her. To have had just a small glimpse of her life and her love for Mike and her children. Even in leaving us, Sweet has reminded us to be thankful for one another and to put a little Pink Princess Power out into the world.

Mike - Our love and thanks to you for caring for her during her transition and our deepest condolences in your sorrow. We are here for you, buddy.

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