What have you learned? - Page 8

RockOn · 07-31-2012, 03:16 PM

... to trust my gut instinct.

Also, if a person's words and actions do not match up, forget the words. Words can be cheap. The actions "speak" the truth.

Ginger · 07-31-2012, 03:29 PM

What have I learned? Clearly not enough.

laruss · 07-31-2012, 03:37 PM

Not to argue with crazy. Just back away slowly and talk to someone else who is sane.

Ginger · 07-31-2012, 03:41 PM

That music lifts me up, and gives me a way into feelings.

Breezy · 07-31-2012, 03:59 PM

I am going to spend less time here and more time in my community.

Ginger · 07-31-2012, 04:02 PM

Community isn't something I discover and dip into it; it's something I build, and dismantle, and rebuild, and tweak.

Mrs Arcstriker · 07-31-2012, 08:42 PM

I have learned that if I ever want to get Arcstriker out of cop-mode all I have to do is to put on my Latvian hair-drying bonnet...the one with the chin strap...

*Note to self...we really, REALLY need to stay home long enough to get some new towels...*

Scuba · 07-31-2012, 09:35 PM

Apparently not enough yet...

The JD · 07-31-2012, 09:46 PM

I learned yesterday that black widows move really FAST. Now I need to learn how to discourage her from inviting all her friends and holding the Spider Olympics in my back yard.

LeftWriteFemme · 07-31-2012, 10:02 PM

rockstar lover · 07-31-2012, 11:22 PM

Trust your instincts.

If it's too good to be true...it probably is.

kittygrrl · 08-03-2012, 10:44 PM

never to say never

RockOn · 08-07-2012, 09:04 PM

I have learned ...

there are times when it is smarter not to inquire about something glaringly noticible.

girl_dee · 08-07-2012, 09:11 PM

I've learned that some people are not what they claim to be, and others surprise you with being more than you ever imagined. Hey it's 11:11

Canela · 08-07-2012, 09:25 PM

I've learned...

~I am pretty damned crazy when I am hurt, broken or just plain angry. I thought I was past (read better than) that...

~I have the capacity to love again...who knew? I thought that wasn't possible anymore. Huh.

~I am not the best person in the world. I am human, and when cut, I too bleed.

~I am very sorry that I am all of the above and I hope the party(ies) involved will one day forgive me for being insane a little bit for a little while.

~I am stronger every day.

~I can and will heal. I will survive and one day love again.

~Miracles do happen.

kittygrrl · 09-16-2012, 11:54 PM

there is always a little nightmare in every fairytale

Elishat · 09-17-2012, 01:56 AM

Being given trust, and giving back acceptance, is pretty awesome.

lusciouskiwi · 09-17-2012, 03:46 AM

Sometimes I feel I haven't learnt nearly enough.

Tres · 09-17-2012, 07:25 PM

I've learned that no matter how much I think the problem is someone else's - I need to look at my own side of the street and really that is the only side I can sweep...

Greco · 09-19-2012, 08:32 AM

it's alright to let the walls down

Greco

07-31-2012, 03:16 PM	#141
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I have learned ... ... to trust my gut instinct. Also, if a person's words and actions do not match up, forget the words. Words can be cheap. The actions "speak" the truth.

07-31-2012, 03:37 PM	#143
laruss Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She or Goddess Relationship Status: Settled in Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Edmonton Alberta Posts: 1,322 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,849 Thanked 5,329 Times in 1,045 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Not to argue with crazy. Just back away slowly and talk to someone else who is sane. __________________ Creativity is a drug I can't do without. -Cecil B. DeMille

07-31-2012, 09:35 PM	#148
Scuba Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Flying Solo Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: PNW Posts: 2,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,749 Thanked 8,047 Times in 1,618 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Apparently not enough yet... __________________ https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-X...etuwo1_500.jpg ~~Bob Richardson~~

07-31-2012, 09:46 PM	#149
The JD Be the Fearless Bunny How Do You Identify?: Hers. Preferred Pronoun?: he Relationship Status: Medusa’s Snake Charmer Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: This must be the place. Posts: 649 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,740 Thanked 2,677 Times in 540 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I learned yesterday that black widows move really FAST. Now I need to learn how to discourage her from inviting all her friends and holding the Spider Olympics in my back yard. __________________ I don't deserve any credit for turning the other cheek as my tongue is always in it. ~Flannery O'Connor

07-31-2012, 10:02 PM	#150
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07-31-2012, 03:29 PM	#142
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,298 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	What have I learned? Clearly not enough.

07-31-2012, 03:41 PM	#144
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,298 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	That music lifts me up, and gives me a way into feelings.

07-31-2012, 03:59 PM	#145
Breezy Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: . Posts: 1,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,337 Thanked 4,555 Times in 1,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I am going to spend less time here and more time in my community.

07-31-2012, 04:02 PM	#146
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,298 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Community isn't something I discover and dip into it; it's something I build, and dismantle, and rebuild, and tweak.

07-31-2012, 08:42 PM	#147
Mrs Arcstriker Timed Out How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: her, she...female ones... Relationship Status: married to Arcstriker Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: CT Posts: 143 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 407 Times in 100 Posts Rep Power: 0	I have learned that if I ever want to get Arcstriker out of cop-mode all I have to do is to put on my Latvian hair-drying bonnet...the one with the chin strap... Note to self...we really, REALLY need to stay home long enough to get some new towels...

07-31-2012, 11:22 PM	#151
rockstar lover Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Found my forever girl :-) Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Alberta Posts: 103 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 564 Thanked 594 Times in 96 Posts Rep Power: 5496794	Trust your instincts. If it's too good to be true...it probably is.

08-03-2012, 10:44 PM	#152
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08-07-2012, 09:04 PM	#153
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I have learned ... there are times when it is smarter not to inquire about something glaringly noticible.

08-07-2012, 09:11 PM	#154
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	I've learned that some people are not what they claim to be, and others surprise you with being more than you ever imagined. Hey it's 11:11

08-07-2012, 09:25 PM	#155
Canela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Babe, she, her, ella Relationship Status: Well loved… Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 2,375 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,643 Thanked 6,505 Times in 1,694 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I've learned... ~I am pretty damned crazy when I am hurt, broken or just plain angry. I thought I was past (read better than) that... ~I have the capacity to love again...who knew? I thought that wasn't possible anymore. Huh. ~I am not the best person in the world. I am human, and when cut, I too bleed. ~I am very sorry that I am all of the above and I hope the party(ies) involved will one day forgive me for being insane a little bit for a little while. ~I am stronger every day. ~I can and will heal. I will survive and one day love again. ~Miracles do happen. __________________ . . . . . Happiness is like a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you ~Nathaniel Hawthorne

09-16-2012, 11:54 PM	#156
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Relationship Status: just for fun Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near the wild mushrooms Posts: 9,355 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,565 Thanked 21,947 Times in 7,073 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	i've learned.. there is always a little nightmare in every fairytale __________________ "MAKE AMERICA THINK AGAIN"

09-17-2012, 01:56 AM	#157
Elishat Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme, Dressage Queen Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Japan Posts: 10 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 54 Thanked 33 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 429510	I learned... Being given trust, and giving back acceptance, is pretty awesome.

09-17-2012, 03:46 AM	#158
lusciouskiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme lesbian feminist Preferred Pronoun?: Anything except for "aunty" Relationship Status: Happy with my butch. Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Aotearoa New Zealand Posts: 2,681 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 25,494 Thanked 9,096 Times in 1,899 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Sometimes I feel I haven't learnt nearly enough. __________________ happiness is a form of courage. George Holbrook Jackson Risk! Risk anything! Care no more for the opinions of others, for those voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth. Katherine Mansfield Motivate yourself or be miserable. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Wayne Dyer

09-17-2012, 07:25 PM	#159
Tres Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Butch, hey you Relationship Status: I love the swing of her hips and the call of her lips Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: The south Posts: 46 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 84 Thanked 87 Times in 25 Posts Rep Power: 1054552	I've learned that no matter how much I think the problem is someone else's - I need to look at my own side of the street and really that is the only side I can sweep... __________________ The little Prince woke to the sound of her beautiful voice for she is the only one in the forest of many who can bring a calm to the storms which occasionally brew within. It is her voice that matches his little Prince soul so perfectly and therefore nothing can erase his smile....

09-19-2012, 08:32 AM	#160
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,618 Times in 2,287 Posts Rep Power: 0	finally it's alright to let the walls down Greco