What are your faults? - Page 8

Wrang1er · 06-03-2013, 08:54 PM

I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...

MissItalianDiva · 06-03-2013, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Wrang1er

I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...

Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits

WingsOnFire · 06-03-2013, 10:46 PM

Too many to name but I'm learning to forgive myself for them and move on to overcoming them... So that I don't live with regret again...

WingsOnFire · 06-03-2013, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Wrang1er

I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...

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Originally Posted by MissItalianDiva

Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits

I have to agree with MID.... I have spent too much of my time thinking I'm no good. I know I am not perfect but who is?

So if your a slob maybe you will meet a girl who would think it cute to tidy up while your not looking to help you out.

Communication.... Yeah I hear you on that. We could all use some help on that front...your not alone.

Procrastination? Well maybe the person you meet might want to make plans and help you keep them.

There is always a possible positive outcome to a negative thought. I have to remind myself of that sometimes too lol.

Don't be too hard on yourself.

Wrang1er · 06-06-2013, 04:04 AM

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Originally Posted by WingsOnFire

I have to agree with MID.... I have spent too much of my time thinking I'm no good. I know I am not perfect but who is?

So if your a slob maybe you will meet a girl who would think it cute to tidy up while your not looking to help you out.

Communication.... Yeah I hear you on that. We could all use some help on that front...your not alone.

Procrastination? Well maybe the person you meet might want to make plans and help you keep them.

There is always a possible positive outcome to a negative thought. I have to remind myself of that sometimes too lol.

Don't be too hard on yourself.

Thank you!

Wrang1er · 06-06-2013, 04:05 AM

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Originally Posted by MissItalianDiva

Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits

You are sweet to me.

MissItalianDiva · 06-06-2013, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Wrang1er

You are sweet to me.

Shhh dont ruin my reputation of being a hard ass lol. Not sweet it's true.

tygr_grrl · 06-15-2013, 08:28 AM

nothing like a rude awakening I've redeveloped a death grip lock on old baggage ....even the stuff I thought I let go of. And then it turns around and bites me on the ass when I 'm not looking. Luckily, I know that the old stuff doesn't serve me anymore.

Learning letting go is not a one time deal. It requires regular practice and patience with myself (and others). Accepting all of my not so-charming faults and making amends are also part of my process as I muddle through. Recognizing everything will eventually passes, even this.

SleepyButch · 06-15-2013, 08:32 AM

I tend to keep things inside instead of voicing them when I'm upset. I need to learn how to not be afraid of the consequences because whatever will be, will be.

wahya · 06-16-2013, 01:41 AM

1.That I believe all people are decent.
2. I trust too easy.
3. I play my music WAY to loud. lol
4.I sing terrible. lol
5. I eat way to fast

afrcnqueen · 03-31-2015, 08:56 AM

emotionally defensive/reactive
facial expressions don't always match what I feel
quite Stubborn
I haven't always been honest because of being insecure and not wanting to appear vulnerable/weak ( now I say fuck it!! tell it no matter what)
Very sensitive
very quiet at times
Haven't always stood up for myself (when I do I feel guilty)
haven't always loved myself as much as I deserve to be loved
I procrastinate
I have put others' needs before my own (friends and family)
I am my own worst enemy

Kätzchen · 03-31-2015, 10:10 AM

My faults:

Terribly sensitive, sweet, focused, indispensably... charming, when the occasion calls for charming decorum.

I am direct in my style of communication, until I go 'commando' (meaning, a subtle indirectness).

I put myself first, not because I am selfish, but because I care about treating and giving myself the respect I deserve to have on a consistent basis.

I am quiet by nature, but interact with others reasonably well.

I have been told that my resting face is not exactly a beautiful face, but on the other hand, I've also been told that my smile makes up for my flawed faults.

I am not perfect at all but I a content with my own brand of human perfection.

JDeere · 03-31-2015, 12:58 PM

I am too OCD or as it should be CDO lol

I am overly trusting and nice to a fault

I am loyal to the wrong people

I am very blunt where most folks take it as being mean

homoe · 04-04-2015, 02:50 PM

I'm anal when it comes to neatness and order! I like a place for everything and everything in its place!

Amulette · 04-04-2015, 04:21 PM

Sigh, I tend to view the world through rose colored glasses.

JDeere · 04-04-2015, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

I'm anal when it comes to neatness and order! I like a place for everything and everything in its place!

You are OCD!!!! Welcome to the club!

homoe · 04-04-2015, 06:42 PM

Thank you then..lol

JDeere · 04-04-2015, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

Thank you then..lol

You are welcome hahahahaha

Gemme · 04-04-2015, 07:05 PM

As I age, my tolerance for bullshit severely diminishes.

And my filter malfunctions more often than I would like.

The two things above might be related.

C0LLETTE · 04-04-2015, 08:00 PM

My only fault, and it's really tiny and barely noticeable, is that someone as fabulous and wonderful as I am, shouldn't be as humble as I am.

06-03-2013, 10:46 PM	#143
WingsOnFire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer..femme.. .babygirl...girl Preferred Pronoun?: Female Ones... Relationship Status: Enjoying life but ready to meet someone Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Portland Oregon Posts: 3,945 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,015 Thanked 12,476 Times in 3,357 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Too many to name but I'm learning to forgive myself for them and move on to overcoming them... So that I don't live with regret again... __________________ Previously known as MidnightBlueEyes ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ http://gailsforum.files.wordpress.co...-psd340941.png

06-15-2013, 08:28 AM	#148
tygr_grrl Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiesty Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: free Join Date: May 2013 Location: Southwest Posts: 39 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 351 Thanked 161 Times in 32 Posts Rep Power: 2062689	old baggage nothing like a rude awakening I've redeveloped a death grip lock on old baggage ....even the stuff I thought I let go of. And then it turns around and bites me on the ass when I 'm not looking. Luckily, I know that the old stuff doesn't serve me anymore. Learning letting go is not a one time deal. It requires regular practice and patience with myself (and others). Accepting all of my not so-charming faults and making amends are also part of my process as I muddle through. Recognizing everything will eventually passes, even this.

06-15-2013, 08:32 AM	#149
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I tend to keep things inside instead of voicing them when I'm upset. I need to learn how to not be afraid of the consequences because whatever will be, will be. __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

03-31-2015, 08:56 AM	#151
afrcnqueen Member How Do You Identify?: By name Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Happy on my journey to Self- Love!! :-) Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: where Love resides..... Posts: 278 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,176 Thanked 704 Times in 208 Posts Rep Power: 8528783	What are your faults? emotionally defensive/reactive facial expressions don't always match what I feel quite Stubborn I haven't always been honest because of being insecure and not wanting to appear vulnerable/weak ( now I say fuck it!! tell it no matter what) Very sensitive very quiet at times Haven't always stood up for myself (when I do I feel guilty) haven't always loved myself as much as I deserve to be loved I procrastinate I have put others' needs before my own (friends and family) I am my own worst enemy __________________ I know I'm a handful, but that's what you've got two hands for...

03-31-2015, 10:10 AM	#152
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, please. Relationship Status: Cherishing my friends & chosen family Join Date: May 2010 Location: Pacific Wonderland ツ Posts: 15,939 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,759 Thanked 33,463 Times in 10,600 Posts Rep Power: 21474867	My faults: Terribly sensitive, sweet, focused, indispensably... charming, when the occasion calls for charming decorum. I am direct in my style of communication, until I go 'commando' (meaning, a subtle indirectness). I put myself first, not because I am selfish, but because I care about treating and giving myself the respect I deserve to have on a consistent basis. I am quiet by nature, but interact with others reasonably well. I have been told that my resting face is not exactly a beautiful face, but on the other hand, I've also been told that my smile makes up for my flawed faults. I am not perfect at all but I a content with my own brand of human perfection. __________________ “If you are neutral in situations of injustice, then you have chosen the side of the oppressor,” — Archbishop Desmond Tutu. “A winner is a dreamer who never gives up,” —Nelson Mandela “When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time,” — Maya Angelou

06-03-2013, 08:54 PM	#141
Wrang1er Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me, myself and I Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Here Posts: 1,526 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 7,045 Times in 1,354 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I take too many naps. My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror) I tend to be a slob when single. I don't always communicate well. Also, I procrastinate. and and and...

06-16-2013, 01:41 AM	#150
wahya Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: im good Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 296 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 506 Thanked 857 Times in 240 Posts Rep Power: 0	1.That I believe all people are decent. 2. I trust too easy. 3. I play my music WAY to loud. lol 4.I sing terrible. lol 5. I eat way to fast

03-31-2015, 12:58 PM	#153
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,841 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	I am too OCD or as it should be CDO lol I am overly trusting and nice to a fault I am loyal to the wrong people I am very blunt where most folks take it as being mean __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

04-04-2015, 02:50 PM	#154
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,565 Times in 14,919 Posts Rep Power: 21474890	I'm anal when it comes to neatness and order! I like a place for everything and everything in its place!

04-04-2015, 04:21 PM	#155
Amulette Member How Do You Identify?: Ma chérie, a sweet thing. Preferred Pronoun?: feminine Relationship Status: Following the scent of flowers. Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: La vie bohem Posts: 489 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 544 Thanked 796 Times in 232 Posts Rep Power: 0	Sigh, I tend to view the world through rose colored glasses.

04-04-2015, 06:42 PM	#157
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04-04-2015, 07:05 PM	#159
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04-04-2015, 08:00 PM	#160
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,185 Times in 4,343 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	My only fault, and it's really tiny and barely noticeable, is that someone as fabulous and wonderful as I am, shouldn't be as humble as I am.