The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 82

morningstar55 · 09-25-2010, 05:46 PM

wow....... did ya'll feel that??? that breeezzz??? hmmmm ** looking around**.. must of been that Jet stream coming in from Georgia way.. heh

evening LadyWu .. glad to see you doing ok over there..

Lady_Wu · 09-25-2010, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

What's rsd? hope you are on the mend!!

rsd is reflex sympathetic dystrophy, other defined as "PAIN disease."i am quite serious-that IS how it's defined. it is sometimes caused by an accident or sometimes you are just born w/it. in my case, though i did have a very bad auto accident, i think i was born w/it. i remember having these symptoms-extreme pain and cramping of my right extremeities-as a child. i am on the fentanyl patch and ultram for pain. sometimes even that does not help. i deal pretty well, though, and try not to complain. others have things far worse.
thank you for the well-wish!
Lady_Wu

Jet · 09-25-2010, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

wow....... did ya'll feel that??? that breeezzz??? hmmmm ** looking around**.. must of been that Jet stream coming in from Georgia way.. heh

evening LadyWu .. glad to see you doing ok over there..

i'm glad i cooled u off barb heh

morningstar55 · 09-25-2010, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet

i'm glad i cooled u off barb heh

cooled off??? nahh actually . it was a nice warm breeze ..the kind that feels like a hug and leaves you with a smile. *wink*

morningstar55 · 09-25-2010, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

wow....... did ya'll feel that??? that breeezzz??? hmmmm ** looking around**.. must of been that Jet stream coming in from Georgia way.. heh

evening LadyWu .. glad to see you doing ok over there..

Lady Wu.. well glad ur ok for the most part...... sorry your going thru so much pains... wish there was something we could do to help.

ruthie14 · 09-25-2010, 07:37 PM

Well spent yesterday in lots of pain, last night could only pace and toss my cookies, so today I spent in the er trying to get rid of a migraine. Whatever new stuff they give for migraines these days didn't work as well as what they gave me 4 years ago.. took 3 times with new meds to finally get rid of it. Came home had grits and slept for 4 hours. Figured I best get up and get dinner at least and move around a bit so I'll sleep through the night. Strange having dinner at 9 pm. lol Oh well, at least the pain is gone!

morningstar55 · 09-25-2010, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Well spent yesterday in lots of pain, last night could only pace and toss my cookies, so today I spent in the er trying to get rid of a migraine. Whatever new stuff they give for migraines these days didn't work as well as what they gave me 4 years ago.. took 3 times with new meds to finally get rid of it. Came home had grits and slept for 4 hours. Figured I best get up and get dinner at least and move around a bit so I'll sleep through the night. Strange having dinner at 9 pm. lol Oh well, at least the pain is gone!

wow glad ur feeling better.....

lipstixgal · 09-26-2010, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Well spent yesterday in lots of pain, last night could only pace and toss my cookies, so today I spent in the er trying to get rid of a migraine. Whatever new stuff they give for migraines these days didn't work as well as what they gave me 4 years ago.. took 3 times with new meds to finally get rid of it. Came home had grits and slept for 4 hours. Figured I best get up and get dinner at least and move around a bit so I'll sleep through the night. Strange having dinner at 9 pm. lol Oh well, at least the pain is gone!

I don't understand why they don't put you on imitrex or something like it for maintenance so you don't have to go to the ER all the time. but glad you are feeling better. I used to get migraines all the time with Lyme's disease so I understand pain!! glad you are on the mend..

morningstar55 · 09-26-2010, 06:12 AM

.....Goood morning Lofters.....

ruthie14 · 09-26-2010, 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

I don't understand why they don't put you on imitrex or something like it for maintenance so you don't have to go to the ER all the time. but glad you are feeling better. I used to get migraines all the time with Lyme's disease so I understand pain!! glad you are on the mend..

Tried imitrex but it didn't work on me. I am on other stuff.. but about once I year or so I end up with one getting that bad. I can usually head it off at the pass as they say. However work has been extrememly stressful both emotionally and physiclally, so I am getting more of them. This was the first to land me in the er however. Hopefully things at work are changing and the stress should decrese a bit. What I need is a new job that makes more money and has less stress.... but I have been looking for quite a while and can't find anything I can do. I just keep looking! Of course, now I have another hospital bill to deal with!!! urrrggg

justjoanie1 · 09-26-2010, 07:24 AM

Good morning, lofters...... Hope everyone's weekend is going well.

LotusFlower · 09-27-2010, 05:46 PM

Hi,

I had a nice weekend. It would be nice to see more people - friends are nice but !!

Too bad there wasn't a regular b-f thing going on in Philadelphia. Is there a dating thread going on anywhere here?

Love ya all

:heels:

ruthie14 · 09-27-2010, 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by LotusFlower

Hi,

I had a nice weekend. It would be nice to see more people - friends are nice but !!

Too bad there wasn't a regular b-f thing going on in Philadelphia. Is there a dating thread going on anywhere here?

Love ya all

:heels:

There are lesbian happenings but b-f.... that is hard to come by. I keep trying! Look on the nj thread. I post general things in NJ there, but I have had a hard time getting b-f folks to get together. If you have any ideas let me know. I am just over the bridge from you.

Ruthie

Jet · 09-27-2010, 06:12 PM

Flyin' in and out.
have a good one.

MysticOceansFL · 09-27-2010, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

There are lesbian happenings but b-f.... that is hard to come by. I keep trying! Look on the nj thread. I post general things in NJ there, but I have had a hard time getting b-f folks to get together. If you have any ideas let me know. I am just over the bridge from you.

Ruthie

Its the same way in The Floridian thread!!!

lipstixgal · 09-27-2010, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticOceansFL

Its the same way in The Floridian thread!!!

Mysticoceans how's the weather in florida? Wishing I was there already!!

How are the lofters tonight?? HOpe everyone is doing well and had a great day!!

Jude · 09-28-2010, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by JoSchmooze

My thing is femmes....
Femmes in all shapes, sizes, short or tall....
Femmes with a sly sense of humor....
Femmes who don't mind a butch helping in the kitchen...
Femmes who like to have their butch open their doors....
Femmes who can dance a two step but who know when it's time
to sit down and take a bit of a rest....
Femmes who may be able to get me to do what I don't want to do.......
Femmes who are independent, those who know how to stand on their own two feet...
but who also lean a bit when they need to....
Femmes who can cock an eyebrow as if to say "oh no, you did not just say that".....
Femmes who also like butches!

Me likem Femmes......

------------------------------------------

Sounds like you're attracted to bona fide women and not baby girls.

Jet · 10-03-2010, 03:45 PM

Hope everyone had a good weekend

lipstixgal · 10-03-2010, 04:28 PM

Good evening lofters not feeling well at all. Sneezing, runny nose, scratchy throat achy took some allergy meds and some ibuprofen to help with the pain. HOpe you all had a good weekend!!

naturlover_52 · 10-04-2010, 02:33 AM

I can toltally relate to relapsing and being a caretaker
I was and did both recently.,....until brother;s felt dad and I would be better off w/ him in a retirement home...and me out here in the world...DO I miss being w/ him...YES.....could I handle it....now....no....need to get well and be happy....hope that doesn't sound selfish.....

09-25-2010, 05:46 PM	#1621
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	wow....... did ya'll feel that??? that breeezzz??? hmmmm looking around.. must of been that Jet stream coming in from Georgia way.. heh evening LadyWu .. glad to see you doing ok over there.. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-26-2010, 06:12 AM	#1629
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	.....Goood morning Lofters..... __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-27-2010, 05:46 PM	#1632
LotusFlower Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Geek Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 43 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 27 Thanked 31 Times in 13 Posts Rep Power: 48898	Weekend Hi, I had a nice weekend. It would be nice to see more people - friends are nice but !! Too bad there wasn't a regular b-f thing going on in Philadelphia. Is there a dating thread going on anywhere here? Love ya all :heels: __________________ Lotus Flower http://www.kanatayoga.com/x-icon.jpg

10-04-2010, 02:33 AM	#1640
naturlover_52 Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch/bi Preferred Pronoun?: she and her are just fine....Sweetcheeks hey you Relationship Status: seeing someone long distance but soon will be both in Ca love her very much Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: So Calif East San Gabrielle Valley aka the land of shake and bake Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 85 Thanked 89 Times in 44 Posts Rep Power: 3424	Wu I can toltally relate to relapsing and being a caretaker I was and did both recently.,....until brother;s felt dad and I would be better off w/ him in a retirement home...and me out here in the world...DO I miss being w/ him...YES.....could I handle it....now....no....need to get well and be happy....hope that doesn't sound selfish.....

09-25-2010, 07:37 PM	#1626
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Well spent yesterday in lots of pain, last night could only pace and toss my cookies, so today I spent in the er trying to get rid of a migraine. Whatever new stuff they give for migraines these days didn't work as well as what they gave me 4 years ago.. took 3 times with new meds to finally get rid of it. Came home had grits and slept for 4 hours. Figured I best get up and get dinner at least and move around a bit so I'll sleep through the night. Strange having dinner at 9 pm. lol Oh well, at least the pain is gone!

09-26-2010, 07:24 AM	#1631
justjoanie1 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lake Placid, FL Posts: 13 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 13 Times in 7 Posts Rep Power: 1354	Good morning, lofters...... Hope everyone's weekend is going well.

09-27-2010, 06:12 PM	#1634
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10-03-2010, 03:45 PM	#1638
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,646 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hope everyone had a good weekend

10-03-2010, 04:28 PM	#1639
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494760	Good evening lofters not feeling well at all. Sneezing, runny nose, scratchy throat achy took some allergy meds and some ibuprofen to help with the pain. HOpe you all had a good weekend!!