What TO DO in a relationship..... - Page 9

girl_dee · 09-02-2011, 05:40 AM

Stay up late and watch a scary movie in bed!

Sorry to have kept you up so late Syr!

bigbutchmistie · 09-03-2011, 04:53 PM

Always if you have had her on your mind all day about what you would like to do to her LOL

Always go home and SHOW her LOL

justkim · 09-03-2011, 06:10 PM

Be intimate with her... intimacy doesn't always involve sex...

Laughter...

A L L day foreplay... :: blink ::

Be silly...

sara-bera · 09-03-2011, 06:38 PM

Say thank you for everything... even if it's not exactly what you wanted.

Accept compliments with grace.

Trade compassion and acceptance for anger.

Bard · 09-03-2011, 06:57 PM

Let them take care of you, as you would for them. never miss a chance to tell them what they mean to you. do things together the little things a walk in the moonlight just holding hands while watching tv.. always remember what brought you together and how wonderful she makes you feel

PS Desd I love you
to infinity and beyond

justkim · 09-04-2011, 06:23 AM

Kiss me like every kiss is our first kiss...

Venus007 · 09-04-2011, 09:00 AM

Tell them when you need to be alone
Use logic gently
Be quiet together reading
Listen to complex music together, really listen, with attention
Sit in the woods holding hands
Learn to temper your speech
Embrace mindfulness
Breathe
Be present in your body
Dare to reveal

dixie · 09-04-2011, 09:15 AM

"For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are those 'It might have been.'"
- John Greenleaf Whittier

Be true to your feelings and share them. Tell the person what they mean to you. If you do not, then you/they may never know what truly could have been. Never miss an opportunity of happiness and/or love. It is much better than having regrets or wondering "what if".

girl_dee · 09-04-2011, 04:23 PM

Say I love your or whatever you are feeling in the moment because you truly want to express it, not because you want to hear something back.

girl_dee · 09-06-2011, 08:04 PM

Use some communication skills! I am so terrible at this.

MzzBehaving · 09-06-2011, 08:32 PM

Respect is a very important element.
Communication without it you have nothing.
Learn to listen to your partner, what you think may not be important is to them.
Compromise if you cannot do this then you are selfish.
Never think you are always right, learn how to say you are sorry when you are wrong.
Never, never make plans to do the uhaul thing so fast, will lead to the end.
Know just because you talk to someone everynight does not mean you know them, people can be who they want on the phone and in the first few meetings.

bigbutchmistie · 09-06-2011, 08:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MzzBehaving

Respect is a very important element.
Communication without it you have nothing.
Learn to listen to your partner, what you think may not be important is to them.
Compromise if you cannot do this then you are selfish.
Never think you are always right, learn how to say you are sorry when you are wrong.
Never, never make plans to do the uhaul thing so fast, will lead to the end.
Know just because you talk to someone everynight does not mean you know them, people can be who they want on the phone and in the first few meetings.

AMEN AMEN AMEN AND AMEN and especially AAAAAAAMMMMMEEEN to the last one! oOOOOOO so true

bigbutchmistie · 09-06-2011, 08:52 PM

If she cooks for me I will always clean up. If I cook for her I will always clean up and take out the trash...

Run her a bubble bath with candles and let her relax as I cook for her....

Let her eat and relax...

Then give her a full body massage before she passes out asleep in my arms

Liam · 09-06-2011, 09:04 PM

Be impeccable with your word.

LaneyDoll · 09-06-2011, 09:06 PM

Make time.
Make amends.
Make time.
Make out.
Make time.
Make it all better.
Make time, make time, make time.

bigbutchmistie · 09-06-2011, 09:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

Make time.
Make amends.
Make time.
Make out.
Make time.
Make it all better.
Make time, make time, make time.

In case yall didnt get it she said Make Time

LOL j/k Laney

girl_dee · 09-07-2011, 12:15 PM

Do chores together! It's fun!

AlphaDrug · 09-07-2011, 04:47 PM

Always sleep in the same bed.

Compliment each other even on the worst days.

girl_dee · 09-07-2011, 05:01 PM

Compliment your partner! Say the things you said in the days when you were in a lustmance!

Elijah · 09-07-2011, 05:57 PM

For the love that all that is holy, above all else, Make a Good Choice!! Do not excuse bad behavior early in the relationship and think...."If I just love them enough they will change." It's not going to happen, in fact, it almost always gets worse. So trust your gut and believe that you deserve "xyz", whatever that is for you. Remember, we teach people how to treat us. /rant

~Elijah

09-03-2011, 06:10 PM	#163
justkim Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Relationship Status: <3 myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 2,023 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,062 Thanked 6,801 Times in 1,553 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Be intimate with her... intimacy doesn't always involve sex... Laughter... A L L day foreplay... :: blink :: Be silly... __________________ Kim "A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success." - Unknown -

09-03-2011, 06:57 PM	#165
Bard Family Man How Do You Identify?: TG Male Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones Relationship Status: She just gets me Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ..... Posts: 2,828 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,997 Thanked 12,786 Times in 2,431 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Let them take care of you, as you would for them. never miss a chance to tell them what they mean to you. do things together the little things a walk in the moonlight just holding hands while watching tv.. always remember what brought you together and how wonderful she makes you feel PS Desd I love you to infinity and beyond __________________ This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill Fifteen percent concentrated power of will Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain And a hundred percent reason to remember the name! Give yourself over to absolute pleasure. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh - erotic nightmares beyond any measure, and sensual daydreams to treasure forever. Can't you just see it? Don't dream it, be it.

09-04-2011, 06:23 AM	#166
justkim Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Relationship Status: <3 myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 2,023 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,062 Thanked 6,801 Times in 1,553 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Kiss me like every kiss is our first kiss... __________________ Kim "A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success." - Unknown -

09-04-2011, 09:00 AM	#167
Venus007 Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Serene Highness ;} Relationship Status: Dreamily contemplating some outrage against conventional morality Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Houston area Posts: 1,362 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,417 Thanked 4,766 Times in 1,142 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Tell them when you need to be alone Use logic gently Be quiet together reading Listen to complex music together, really listen, with attention Sit in the woods holding hands Learn to temper your speech Embrace mindfulness Breathe Be present in your body Dare to reveal __________________ . "I need no warrant for being, and no word of sanction upon my being. I am the warrant and the sanction. " Ayn Rand, Anthem "So you'll die happily for your sins. You'd rather die in guilt then live in love?" Timothy Leary

09-06-2011, 09:04 PM	#174
Liam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The Evergreen State Posts: 2,269 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,865 Thanked 6,910 Times in 1,862 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Be impeccable with your word. __________________ <3 Love is weird.

09-02-2011, 05:40 AM	#161
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,958 Times in 13,923 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Stay up late and watch a scary movie in bed! Sorry to have kept you up so late Syr!

09-03-2011, 04:53 PM	#162
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Always if you have had her on your mind all day about what you would like to do to her LOL Always go home and SHOW her LOL

09-03-2011, 06:38 PM	#164
sara-bera Member How Do You Identify?: female Join Date: May 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 1,161 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,687 Thanked 2,859 Times in 739 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Say thank you for everything... even if it's not exactly what you wanted. Accept compliments with grace. Trade compassion and acceptance for anger.

09-04-2011, 09:15 AM	#168
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,385 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	"For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are those 'It might have been.'" - John Greenleaf Whittier Be true to your feelings and share them. Tell the person what they mean to you. If you do not, then you/they may never know what truly could have been. Never miss an opportunity of happiness and/or love. It is much better than having regrets or wondering "what if".

09-04-2011, 04:23 PM	#169
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,958 Times in 13,923 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Say I love your or whatever you are feeling in the moment because you truly want to express it, not because you want to hear something back.

09-06-2011, 08:04 PM	#170
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,958 Times in 13,923 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Use some communication skills! I am so terrible at this.

09-06-2011, 08:32 PM	#171
MzzBehaving Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Stone by nature Preferred Pronoun?: She, her, Babygirl or princess will do. Relationship Status: Looking for that Mr Right, does he exsist??? Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Somewhere between here and there Posts: 26 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 40 Thanked 22 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 1068716	Respect is a very important element. Communication without it you have nothing. Learn to listen to your partner, what you think may not be important is to them. Compromise if you cannot do this then you are selfish. Never think you are always right, learn how to say you are sorry when you are wrong. Never, never make plans to do the uhaul thing so fast, will lead to the end. Know just because you talk to someone everynight does not mean you know them, people can be who they want on the phone and in the first few meetings.

09-06-2011, 08:52 PM	#173
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	If she cooks for me I will always clean up. If I cook for her I will always clean up and take out the trash... Run her a bubble bath with candles and let her relax as I cook for her.... Let her eat and relax... Then give her a full body massage before she passes out asleep in my arms

09-06-2011, 09:06 PM	#175
LaneyDoll Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Girly girl femme Preferred Pronoun?: She; Ma'am; Miss ;) Relationship Status: Pitbull protected. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 2,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,892 Thanked 7,686 Times in 1,608 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Make time. Make amends. Make time. Make out. Make time. Make it all better. Make time, make time, make time. __________________ There are beauties who stop traffic and then there are beauties who grow obsessively in the hearts of the susceptible.

09-07-2011, 12:15 PM	#177
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,958 Times in 13,923 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Do chores together! It's fun!

09-07-2011, 04:47 PM	#178
AlphaDrug Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Female Relationship Status: Fresh Meat Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Reisterstown, MD Posts: 102 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 303 Times in 75 Posts Rep Power: 3148778	Always sleep in the same bed. Compliment each other even on the worst days. __________________ "Theres only us, theres only this. Forget regret, or life is yours to miss. No other road, no other way... No day but today!"

09-07-2011, 05:01 PM	#179
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,958 Times in 13,923 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Compliment your partner! Say the things you said in the days when you were in a lustmance!

09-07-2011, 05:57 PM	#180
Elijah Member How Do You Identify?: Genderqueer Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones Relationship Status: Open to healthy possibilities... Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Michigan Posts: 554 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 738 Thanked 1,628 Times in 393 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	For the love that all that is holy, above all else, Make a Good Choice!! Do not excuse bad behavior early in the relationship and think...."If I just love them enough they will change." It's not going to happen, in fact, it almost always gets worse. So trust your gut and believe that you deserve "xyz", whatever that is for you. Remember, we teach people how to treat us. /rant ~Elijah __________________ "There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness but of power. They are messengers of overwhelming grief and of unspeakable love." ~Washington Irving