The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 94

Sweepea · 12-17-2010, 03:44 AM

Argggggg--- I have just spent the last two hours looking at profiles on about five different singles sites. What the Sam Hill do people want now days ? I know I am a great catch--- am I too old or too fat---- smoke? Good Grief---- I am tired of trying to sell my WONDERFUL self. Where do you FIND a transman in SO CA???( I just needed to vent) ((Thanks))

Gina · 12-17-2010, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweepea

Argggggg--- I have just spent the last two hours looking at profiles on about five different singles sites. What the Sam Hill do people want now days ? I know I am a great catch--- am I too old or too fat---- smoke? Good Grief---- I am tired of trying to sell my WONDERFUL self. Where do you FIND a transman in SO CA???( I just needed to vent) ((Thanks))

Seems you are looking and it's okay to vent...

lipstixgal · 12-17-2010, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweepea

Argggggg--- I have just spent the last two hours looking at profiles on about five different singles sites. What the Sam Hill do people want now days ? I know I am a great catch--- am I too old or too fat---- smoke? Good Grief---- I am tired of trying to sell my WONDERFUL self. Where do you FIND a transman in SO CA???( I just needed to vent) ((Thanks))

Its hard I know I don't bother to look anymore because some people live like 15 minutes from me and don't even want to meet for coffee so fuck them I'll be alone for the time being, they are all stuck up in NJ that is one thing I have learned!! In other news how are the lofters doing today?? Hopefully everyone is having a good start to their weekend...

blueeyes226_l · 12-17-2010, 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweepea

Argggggg--- I have just spent the last two hours looking at profiles on about five different singles sites. What the Sam Hill do people want now days ? I know I am a great catch--- am I too old or too fat---- smoke? Good Grief---- I am tired of trying to sell my WONDERFUL self. Where do you FIND a transman in SO CA???( I just needed to vent) ((Thanks))

I think alot of people want to met someone at partys,school,church, Gay events. Then taking a chance on any web places. I'm not saying its bad to on webs but,some people are that way do to fear if they answer a ad it could end up as not safe or a "bad deal"
blueeyes226_l.

Jet · 12-17-2010, 07:41 PM

Little warmer tonight. Everyone have a good one.

morningstar55 · 12-17-2010, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweepea

Argggggg--- I have just spent the last two hours looking at profiles on about five different singles sites. What the Sam Hill do people want now days ? I know I am a great catch--- am I too old or too fat---- smoke? Good Grief---- I am tired of trying to sell my WONDERFUL self. Where do you FIND a transman in SO CA???( I just needed to vent) ((Thanks))

omg....... i hear ya 100% .. lol
who knows what they are looking for .... I know what i want ..but im kinda giving up... im tired of trying to sell myself.

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Originally Posted by blue eyes

I think alot of people want to met someone at partys,school,church, Gay events. Then taking a chance on any web places. I'm not saying its bad to on webs but,some people are that way do to fear if they answer a ad it could end up as not safe or a "bad deal"
blueeyes226_l.

it doesnt matter where you meet these days....... be it internet or in person.
you really dont know the person you are dating, etc.... for a while.
for me i like old fashion dating in person kinda thing .. its a click thing too.
your either compatable or your not.

blueeyes226_l · 12-17-2010, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

omg....... i hear ya 100% .. lol
who knows what they are looking for .... I know what i want ..but im kinda giving up... im tired of trying to sell myself.

it doesnt matter where you meet these days....... be it internet or in person.
you really dont know the person you are dating, etc.... for a while.
for me i like old fashion dating in person kinda thing .. its a click thing too.
your either compatable or your not.

Yes,this is true as well. It takes time to get to know each other,more then one date.

Kobi · 12-17-2010, 10:16 PM

Sometimes I wonder.....

does one really want a well designed, flawlessly executed marketing strategy or a real person with flaws and all?

katsarecool · 12-17-2010, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

You are very welcom Cody

Blue eyes! We gotta get you some rep points!!!

Missing someone on here a lot!!!

morningstar55 · 12-17-2010, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobi

Sometimes I wonder.....

does one really want a well designed, flawlessly executed marketing strategy or a real person with flaws and all?

right.... you have to except me for good and bad habits , just as much as i have to deal with yours. ..specialy at our ages.. lol

oh boy..... looky at the people lined up at the bottom of the page.. lol lol ...

blueeyes226_l · 12-17-2010, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by katsarecool

Blue eyes! We gotta get you some rep points!!!

Missing someone on here a lot!!!

Who is on here I'm missing?

morningstar55 · 12-17-2010, 10:41 PM

well im gonna head to the bed here......
nites everyone

katsarecool · 12-18-2010, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

Who is on here I'm missing?

Oh it is just me here missing someone else!!!

raising2alone · 12-18-2010, 01:45 AM

I am sure I am missing someone too....now, who was that again

. Tis the season to feel the pains of being single at times, all the parties with "couples". I think we are better off single than being with someone that isn't THE one, that one that respects us for who we are, faults and all. We all deserve that much right!!!! If I had more time, I would probably miss someone too

, those darn twins!!!!! LOVE EM

morningstar55 · 12-18-2010, 07:38 AM

Good morning Lofters...

wow this topic from last night.. has been interesting.... for a moment i thought i was in the singles thread.. lol
I understanding raising 2 and others....... i am very lonely out here on the road... I can take passangers on road trips, but most back off when they find out its not a 2 day trip, i mean this is my job, some have said how they wouldnt mind learning this , and getting there lisense , etc... and i tell them i can train them, we can team , get more miles,, and $$ but then i never hear back from them , guess they lose interest.. and with dating its hard very hard to find mr right... and even if i did... they would have to be in western NY or NC ... lol .. but 1st thing i know i have to do , is get me off this darn truck and im making it a goal this yr... sooner the better. I'm shooting for May.. soo will see.

blueeyes226_l · 12-18-2010, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Kobi

Sometimes I wonder.....

does one really want a well designed, flawlessly executed marketing strategy or a real person with flaws and all?

It could be the other person wants to answer ad's but,feel they have a lot of flaws and don't want to get hurt or rejected....I don't know people are funny. Not the HA HA funny.

cuddlyfemme · 12-18-2010, 11:56 AM

Just popping in to say hello to everyone!

morningstar55 · 12-18-2010, 10:38 PM

hey ya LOft dwellers....i have landed just east of Knoxville... in a place called ahh strawberry something..
anyways..... hope you all had a nice day... im heading to bed.
160 more miles to go til i get to Greensssville, SC

but will wait till morning to finish this trip.
good nites

blueeyes226_l · 12-18-2010, 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

It could be the other person wants to answer ad's but,feel they have a lot of flaws and don't want to get hurt or rejected....I don't know people are funny. Not the HA HA funny.

Lots of times being single sucks. Its a very lonly life. In alot of ways I dislike being alone but....thats life....

raising2alone · 12-19-2010, 12:13 AM

Hey blueeyes, I totally understand where you are coming from, this is when good friends over the holidays come in to play. Even if it is just a call from them or even an invite to a get together is a welcome thing. Try not to stay in, get out and enjoy your "chosen family" and your birth family if they are around. Sometimes it is hard to count our blessings but they are there, roofs over our heads, food to eat, people that love us, this thread

. Yeah I know, I have been accused of being an eternal optimist but I kind of like that! If we all reached out to someone, we would feel better too. Hang in there blueeyes!

12-17-2010, 03:44 AM	#1861
Sweepea Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Highland CA Posts: 19 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 31 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 79	WTF!!!!!!!!!!! Argggggg--- I have just spent the last two hours looking at profiles on about five different singles sites. What the Sam Hill do people want now days ? I know I am a great catch--- am I too old or too fat---- smoke? Good Grief---- I am tired of trying to sell my WONDERFUL self. Where do you FIND a transman in SO CA???( I just needed to vent) ((Thanks))

12-17-2010, 10:16 PM	#1868
Kobi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic. Posts: 9,234 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,840 Thanked 34,664 Times in 7,652 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Sometimes I wonder..... does one really want a well designed, flawlessly executed marketing strategy or a real person with flaws and all? __________________

12-17-2010, 10:41 PM	#1872
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	well im gonna head to the bed here...... nites everyone __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

12-18-2010, 01:45 AM	#1874
raising2alone Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Name says it all Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Kansas Posts: 28 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5 Thanked 43 Times in 20 Posts Rep Power: 15141	Missing someone I am sure I am missing someone too....now, who was that again . Tis the season to feel the pains of being single at times, all the parties with "couples". I think we are better off single than being with someone that isn't THE one, that one that respects us for who we are, faults and all. We all deserve that much right!!!! If I had more time, I would probably miss someone too , those darn twins!!!!! LOVE EM

12-18-2010, 07:38 AM	#1875
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Good morning Lofters... wow this topic from last night.. has been interesting.... for a moment i thought i was in the singles thread.. lol I understanding raising 2 and others....... i am very lonely out here on the road... I can take passangers on road trips, but most back off when they find out its not a 2 day trip, i mean this is my job, some have said how they wouldnt mind learning this , and getting there lisense , etc... and i tell them i can train them, we can team , get more miles,, and $$ but then i never hear back from them , guess they lose interest.. and with dating its hard very hard to find mr right... and even if i did... they would have to be in western NY or NC ... lol .. but 1st thing i know i have to do , is get me off this darn truck and im making it a goal this yr... sooner the better. I'm shooting for May.. soo will see. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

12-17-2010, 07:41 PM	#1865
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,646 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	Little warmer tonight. Everyone have a good one.

12-18-2010, 11:56 AM	#1877
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496121	Just popping in to say hello to everyone!

12-18-2010, 10:38 PM	#1878
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	hey ya LOft dwellers....i have landed just east of Knoxville... in a place called ahh strawberry something.. anyways..... hope you all had a nice day... im heading to bed. 160 more miles to go til i get to Greensssville, SC but will wait till morning to finish this trip. good nites __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

12-19-2010, 12:13 AM	#1880
raising2alone Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Name says it all Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Kansas Posts: 28 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5 Thanked 43 Times in 20 Posts Rep Power: 15141	Life alone Hey blueeyes, I totally understand where you are coming from, this is when good friends over the holidays come in to play. Even if it is just a call from them or even an invite to a get together is a welcome thing. Try not to stay in, get out and enjoy your "chosen family" and your birth family if they are around. Sometimes it is hard to count our blessings but they are there, roofs over our heads, food to eat, people that love us, this thread . Yeah I know, I have been accused of being an eternal optimist but I kind of like that! If we all reached out to someone, we would feel better too. Hang in there blueeyes!