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			 good morning lofters - i will be on a while so see me in chat o 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			doing great blueeyes, how are you doing =)
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			good morning lofters!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Happy Thursday.. just got home from work, in between shifts actually, i have to go back later on.. gotta get a lil housework done, and sitting contemplating on what exactly i want for a tattoo, getting one on back of my neck, thinking maybe my birthday week.. but i need to figure out what font i want and what exactly i want it to say.. will also be getting my hair done, and my eyebrows.. heck may as well do the manicure, pedicure & some shopping too, *grinz* 2011 is all about doing things i've wanted and feeling good about myself.. how is everyone today? 
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			I'M NOT IN HER OFTEN, BUT I WANTED TO SAY HEY FOR A MOMENT AND HOPE THAT YOU'RE ALL DOING WELL
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Some idiot stole my debit card numbers and bought a bunch of stuff online with my money! I live paycheck to paycheck, had just sent out my mortgage bill ... really??!!! Spent an hour on the phone with the bank trying to straighten it all out. Need to go to a branch tomorrow with an affidavit to fax to fraud prevention.... and wait 5 to 7 days for a new card. I work hard for the little money I have..  honestly, just go earn it like everyone else. JERK! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			 good morning old farts...... haha 
		hope you all are staying warm.... Ruthie hope they catch the person who did this. 
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 UGH we have more snow I hate to complain but this is ridiculous the poor dog can barely get in the backyard let alone on the sidewalk!! WE have to wait for the guy to come and shovel for me, its too much for me to do by myself!! I'm seeing   this as a face right now its too much snow for one small area to deal with all the time!! Going to get dressed and get ready for the shovel guy to come and open up a pathway for me...I pray that there is no more snow coming to NJ or NY for Chrissakes!!
		
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			Hey ya'll just stopping by to say hello !  Early this month I started back to school so..as I say good bye to my 40's and hello to my 50's in Feb I am a student..I think thats kinda trippy ! But I like my classes and am doing really well so far ! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I hope everyone is doing great and staying warm !! I'm off to study for midterms :hamactor :  
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			Hello everyone! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I am new to the loft and new to this website, but wanted to check in. I am 42. I was really depressed when I turned 40, but now I am starting to ease into it. I kinda feel like middle age is like "middle school". Not one of the young kids, but not one of the "older" ones either. It can be an awkward age, but also a lot of fun. Hope you are all well!  | 
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			 hey there MadT .. welcome to the Loft.. 
		hell i got really depressed when i turned 30 .. lol im well umm...... 29 now... and i been 29 for a lonnng time... *wink* 
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			hi everyone ♥ 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			hope you all have had a terrific Thursday.. and have a wonderful kinda evening! Luv, great for you for goin back to school! i am hoping to do the same myself, i have already paid admission, just need to send the application this June (thats when they start taking them).. for the 2012 class.. *crossing my fingers* i paid early so i wouldn't back down this time (ive backed down twice) i'm petrified LOL!!!! 
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			Hi everyone.. hope you are getting ready for a great weekend. I  think I am getting the stomach flu... yuck
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Good Evening Lofters how is everyone doing tonight.  So this weekend is my birthday I turn 53 and I am going to celebrate at my Temple and hope the weather holds up so everyone shows up for some good food and fun..
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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