09-01-2016, 10:40 AM | #11 | |
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My dad's funeral is Friday and my daughters and brothers gently suggested I not go. I realized that somehow my mother has always identified with me and projected herself into me with a boatload of self-hate. She has no insight and always refused therapy. I got my brother to tell me where my dad's grave will be, I will pay my respects after they are gone. You must be thinking, "She must have done something awful". No, I never did. As my mother told me once, my dad cried when I was born because I wasn't a boy. It can only go downhill from there and it did.
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