01-21-2018, 03:03 PM | #661 |
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laugh, a LOT.................
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i was talking to a friend today ..he said he needed a playmate.....i've been thinking about this and i realized sex has become so much more then a game, a fun romp ..exercise...it's not enough anymore ..eventually or maybe from the very beginning it was always meant for something much more meaningful...it's never too late to learn.... you are sharing some of the most profound truths the universe can give you..it will illuminate your deepest desires for connection, and grace...there is more to life then mere notes..it's a symphony of music..you share lying next to him..unique and perfect only the two of you will ever understand.....
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01-23-2018, 01:20 PM | #663 |
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Be authentic and true to yourself and what you bring and can give in a relationship.
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For me, I can only be involved with ONE woman at a time. That is what I wish for in my relationships, to be one of a pair...she & I. Is that so very much to ask for? I will NOT settle for anything more...or less...
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01-23-2018, 03:33 PM | #665 |
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If you're a butch write your gal little love notes or poems and tuck them somewhere she is sure to fine them............
sidebar: I suppose this is the modern equivalent of sending a text?? I'm old school give me a pen and paper over some electronics gizmo any day! |
01-23-2018, 04:03 PM | #666 |
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I like the sidebar better the text can get deleted or sent to cyber space ~ but a sweet note or a sexy note you can treasure
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Amen to "old school" ... hand written is best.
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Wow, y'all are really out here romancing women all over the place with handwritten notes! That's amazing.
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never let the other think for a moment they are not deeply loved.
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Frequently discover/learn about new things together.
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be the others person’s rock. Be THAT person in their life
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make absolutely certain you've go the other partner(s)' back, and trust them to have yours.
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live in the moment
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have each other's back - Thanks Cathexis-
have integrity, your partner will like that about you be kind, to each other and others |
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Talk about money, before and during a relationship. Have a plan, set goals. Discuss monthly budget and be accountable. Make it fun.
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Have respect for one another, no matter what the status of your relationship is (future, current, past, unknown) or how well you are currently getting along.
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fight fairly...it's not easy sometimes but very necessary..most important ..keep calm, no name calling, don't accuse instead, take turns expressing how you see it, strive for accommodation..you can't win unless you both win
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Spend some time actually getting to know someone before you pack it all up and move across the country for them....so much heartache could be avoided.
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Sexy texting is pretty hot!
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