How to tell if she's into you...

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 10:54 AM

... this is meant to be a thread for all of us, not just for me to ask advice

Seriously, though, am I the only one who has trouble reading a girl? What, in your opinion, are the signs that she's interested?

Or is this "signs" theory just a bunch of crap?

MrSunshine · 02-28-2011, 11:02 AM

no, there are signs. just look out for the one that says "crap ahead"

The_Lady_Snow · 02-28-2011, 11:12 AM

If she's all up in your space asking you to buy her breakfast...

She might be into you

Julie · 02-28-2011, 11:16 AM

Or WORSE...
Asking you to make her Breakfast.
Gasp!

The_Lady_Snow · 02-28-2011, 11:44 AM

If she's asking you to dance.....

She might be into you

UofMfan · 02-28-2011, 11:48 AM

If she stalks you, she is really into you.

Julie · 02-28-2011, 11:54 AM

If she buys you your very own Cock...
She is into you!

weatherboi · 02-28-2011, 12:02 PM

If She takes you to meet Her friends across country...she is really into you!!!

morningstar55 · 02-28-2011, 01:22 PM

if she says yes to a 2nd date.......... she is into you

Kobi · 02-28-2011, 01:36 PM

I hear there are signs. I always miss them. I'm dense like that.

If I am interested in someone, I take the time to get to know them,
ask them about themselves, see what we might have in common.
Then, I ask you out....on a date.

If I have to guess or the other person has to guess, I'm thinking
we aren't that interested.

The_Lady_Snow · 02-28-2011, 01:36 PM

If she tells you her given name...

She just might be into you

Jax · 02-28-2011, 01:41 PM

Good Thread! I am new and just dipping in and jumping out trying to get used to the temp on the planet..Please bare with... She is into you if'?..? You cant go to the bathroom alone on your first date..

Rockinonahigh · 02-28-2011, 01:50 PM

I gave up tryin to figure out what girls /women want,its like tryin to row a boat thrue mud.I get the name and number then they dont anser the phone nor return your call when u leave a mesage when u call,they will chat on line and pick up all the info from u they can.Then when things are seemingly ok...poof, they are gone,if they arent intrested then why take the calls,im's ect to the length some do?Come on shurely nobody can be that bord they are willing to do stiff like this for fun and games.I dont play games with anyone so I gess im a target for some folks..Yes im hard headed, so I gess I must have missed something while we were swapipng info.Dense is the word I think.U can bet I an being way more careful now.

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 05:41 PM

Haha... well... it's hard to tell sometimes, especially if she's one of those super sweet girls who are in a band...

If she tells you that you're cute, and gives you her number... is she into you?

Soon · 02-28-2011, 06:19 PM

If she is interested, and really listens to what you have to say (and may give feedback!), she could--possibly--be into you.

DapperButch · 02-28-2011, 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jax

Good Thread! I am new and just dipping in and jumping out trying to get used to the temp on the planet..Please bare with... She is into you if'?..? You cant go to the bathroom alone on your first date..

I would say if she wouldn't let me go to the bathroom alone that is scary weird!

Gayla · 02-28-2011, 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy

Haha... well... it's hard to tell sometimes, especially if she's one of those super sweet girls who are in a band...

If she tells you that you're cute, and gives you her number... is she into you?

She gave you her number? Without prompting?

Yeah, she's into you. Call her!

DapperButch · 02-28-2011, 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by proximitywithoutintimacy

Haha... well... it's hard to tell sometimes, especially if she's one of those super sweet girls who are in a band...

If she tells you that you're cute, and gives you her number... is she into you?

I think you would at least be on the right track..

JAGG · 02-28-2011, 06:31 PM

When you first meet someone, if they smile alot when they talk to you, they are probably interested. If she askes for your number and actually calls you, and returns your calls and text messages, good sign she is interested.

Jax · 02-28-2011, 06:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch

I would say if she wouldn't let me go to the bathroom alone that is scary weird!

Ha Yes it was very scary..and thats why Jax never knows until its on me!!

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Soon Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: attached Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 6,896 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,046 Thanked 13,111 Times in 3,388 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	If she is interested, and really listens to what you have to say (and may give feedback!), she could--possibly--be into you.

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