I got his blessing

DJ Bear · 08-13-2013, 01:45 PM

Hello to everyone,

library_girl and I met here on the planet.

I met my baby's family for the first time this past week and I was nicely received. On my personal agenda I brought an expensive bottle of scotch with me--her father and I both share a love for great scotch. Anyway, last night I asked her father for his permission to marry his daughter and was given his blessing, with a hug and a smile! Woo hoooo the girl is soon to be mine! Afterwards it was the most calm I felt for the whole trip.

Now on to planning exactly where and how I will propose to my baby.

Rockinonahigh · 08-13-2013, 02:08 PM

Bear you are one classy dude,congratulations to you both.

Electrocell · 08-13-2013, 02:10 PM

Congratulations

Heavenleahangel · 08-13-2013, 02:32 PM

Congratulations! I simply adore a love story!

starryeyes · 08-13-2013, 02:46 PM

Yaya DJ! Can't wait to start wedding planning with Amy!! <3

SometimesSweet · 08-13-2013, 02:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DJ Bear

Hello to everyone,

library_girl and I met here on the planet.

I met my baby's family for the first time this past week and I was nicely received. On my personal agenda I brought an expensive bottle of scotch with me--her father and I both share a love for great scotch. Anyway, last night I asked her father for his permission to marry his daughter and was given his blessing, with a hug and a smile! Woo hoooo the girl is soon to be mine! Afterwards it was the most calm I felt for the whole trip.

Now on to planning exactly where and how I will propose to my baby.

Wow, such a lovely story! Congratulations to you both!

SS

Happyfemme · 08-13-2013, 04:03 PM

Congratulations what a wonderful story.

Gemme · 08-13-2013, 07:08 PM

Congrats!!!

girl_dee · 08-13-2013, 07:13 PM

Congrats! ..........

Bard · 08-13-2013, 07:35 PM

congrats I remember asking Desd's father for her hand in marriage and getting his blessing it is a wonderful thing

Tommi · 08-13-2013, 07:54 PM

MsBluem · 08-15-2013, 05:17 PM

That's so rad! Congrats! Hope you two have many happy years together.

Ginger · 08-15-2013, 06:04 PM

I'm just curious, what would you have done if he said no?

Or do people only ask permission when they're pretty sure they know what the answer will be, and they're doing it as a public gesture of commitment or something?

Also, if your fiancee was raised by two lesbians, not a butch femme couple, which one would you ask, or would you ask them both at once?

08-13-2013, 01:45 PM	#1
DJ Bear Member How Do You Identify?: Daddy, Papa, just Me Preferred Pronoun?: he, him, sir, bro, hey you Relationship Status: Married to library_girl Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Illinois with my baby girl Posts: 144 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 404 Thanked 553 Times in 138 Posts Rep Power: 8324585	I got his blessing Hello to everyone, library_girl and I met here on the planet. I met my baby's family for the first time this past week and I was nicely received. On my personal agenda I brought an expensive bottle of scotch with me--her father and I both share a love for great scotch. Anyway, last night I asked her father for his permission to marry his daughter and was given his blessing, with a hug and a smile! Woo hoooo the girl is soon to be mine! Afterwards it was the most calm I felt for the whole trip. Now on to planning exactly where and how I will propose to my baby. __________________ “Named must your fear be before banish it you can.” Yoda

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Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,309 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I'm just curious, what would you have done if he said no? Or do people only ask permission when they're pretty sure they know what the answer will be, and they're doing it as a public gesture of commitment or something? Also, if your fiancee was raised by two lesbians, not a butch femme couple, which one would you ask, or would you ask them both at once? __________________ Reach out.