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05-26-2014, 11:22 PM
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Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once.
Low self confidence. Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell!
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05-31-2014, 07:50 AM
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My 4 instant turn offs -
And for me, these apply to anyone; friends, colleagues, acquaintances, dates, whomever....
The sound of forced laughter is an all-out auditory assault; if you don't find something funny, you really don't have to laugh. In fact, I beg you to please just stop unless it's genuine. Obviously fake smiles; if you're gonna fake it, you had better make that performance count! Put some effort into it, for crying out loud, lol. Limp handshakes; just ugh all the way around. I will always prefer an overly-enthusiastic hand pumper (lol, is that the correct term? - I don't know how else to describe it) to shaking hands with a overused dishrag. How do these people get jobs, anyway? Halfhearted hugs. Either mean it; or just get offa me already, lol. I can cope with pretty much anything else. |
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07-05-2014, 06:04 PM
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~Pessimism
~Sloppy appearance ~No imagination
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07-05-2014, 06:58 PM
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turn off
most things everyone has covered ...
just like to add pity party ppl. poor me ..stuff. (suck it up.. move on we all have stories) Be well 
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07-05-2014, 09:14 PM
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Judgmental people
People that have that better than tho attitude As for possibly partners always answering I don't know when asked what they want to do or where they want to go. I mean some times it's understandable nut are you really that boring that you never know? People that are always PC Finally people that assume others ate ignorant because the person does not spell every word correctly after all this is not a class room.
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07-13-2014, 06:27 PM
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Are you in or are you out? Make up your mind!
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07-13-2014, 06:56 PM
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People that are self-centered and believe the world revolves around them. People that make other's struggles their 'own'. People that lie. People that think money makes the world go round.
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Anyone who feels the need to be loud and obnoxious out in public! Being loud and drawing attention is the main thing that'll send me running for the hill!
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05-31-2014, 12:22 PM
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05-31-2014, 12:31 PM
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Mentally Delicious
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Hygiene is a huge one - Dirty fingernails, teeth, hair, feet, or clothing is a huge turn off.
Name-dropping Hypochondria No sense of humor or having a stick up your ass Mean-spirited bullshit or rudeness Not being able to hold a conversation about current events or politics on even a small level Interrupting Not listening Racism/Sexism Owning an emu (LOL! I'm phobic!!)
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05-31-2014, 01:17 PM
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I think that someone who doesn't understand (at least not without a REALLY good reason.....like being raised by wolves in the forest or something) the fine lines that traverse and connect our social relationships.
For example, the lines between confident, cocky and arrogant. For me, I'm definitely okay with the first option and possibly the second option if there's humor in the equation but the last option is an instant switch flipper (and not in the ON direction). The line between dominant and controlling is another example. I like it when people....not just potential mates, but all people....toe the line of impropriety in one form or another but have enough sense to not fall off the deep end. For the record, I have no ill will towards emus or those who love and/or own and/or farm them. |
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05-31-2014, 02:02 PM
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Timed Out - Identity Issues
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People who are so self centered they seem to forget they are actually talking to another person. I like to be talked with, not talked AT.
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I'm misunderestimated. 
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