The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 42

Rockinonahigh · 03-28-2010, 01:21 PM

morning miss.softness...I made a dozen and there are just so many my son and I can eat...please help your self.

Soft*Silver · 03-28-2010, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

morning miss.softness...I made a dozen and there are just so many my son and I can eat...please help your self.

I just need one! I LOVE biscuits!

ruthie14 · 03-28-2010, 02:00 PM

Hello Lofters, Dunno how I feel today. Was feeling great after seeing Suzanne Westenhoffer last night with friends. But today, I guess all the stress *shrugs* I was in church and they baptized a baby today. I could never have any and now too poor and or old to adopt. So I started to cry. Got myself together, but put a real damper on my day.

morningstar55 · 03-28-2010, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Hello Lofters, Dunno how I feel today. Was feeling great after seeing Suzanne Westenhoffer last night with friends. But today, I guess all the stress *shrugs* I was in church and they baptized a baby today. I could never have any and now too poor and or old to adopt. So I started to cry. Got myself together, but put a real damper on my day.

aww sorry to read you had a sad day......... hmmm what about fostering?? i dont know....... just a thought

ruthie14 · 03-28-2010, 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

aww sorry to read you had a sad day......... hmmm what about fostering?? i dont know....... just a thought

Thought about it, but they get taken away from you. Then you never see them again. Raised stepchildren for good part of thier growing up. Then the mother that never wanted them decides she does. They were teenagers by then and she left them alone alot. So she screwed them up. Between that and my exhusband, they don't talk to me anymore. Painful story, no one wanted them but me. Not even thier father. Fostering would be too much like that. I know there are not guarentees that your children will still want to be around you when they are grown, but it is far more likely if they are your children from birth or shortly after. Adopted or born of you. Fostering is almost a guarentee that they will leave you. Thanks anyway... It's a bad day... it will pass. It always does. You're a peach to give it some thought for me. I truely appriciate that.

morningstar55 · 03-28-2010, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Thought about it, but they get taken away from you. Then you never see them again. Raised stepchildren for good part of thier growing up. Then the mother that never wanted them decides she does. They were teenagers by then and she left them alone alot. So she screwed them up. Between that and my exhusband, they don't talk to me anymore. Painful story, no one wanted them but me. Not even thier father. Fostering would be too much like that. I know there are not guarentees that your children will still want to be around you when they are grown, but it is far more likely if they are your children from birth or shortly after. Adopted or born of you. Fostering is almost a guarentee that they will leave you. Thanks anyway... It's a bad day... it will pass. It always does. You're a peach to give it some thought for me. I truely appriciate that.

awwww......... sorry to hear about all that.. hey
just made some hot Green/white pear tea , and putting out some .. pepperridge farm..sausalito cookies they are chocolate chip with macadamia nuts am willing to share.. i promise i didnt cough on them.. LOL..

Soft*Silver · 03-28-2010, 06:16 PM

I have a friend who could never have children and every mother's day is so hard on her. She envies me for my child...even when she was at her worst behavior, she was still a blessing. I am sorry you could not have children.... there are no words to even suggest somehow it could be made better. My prayers will be for you to find comfort somehow ....

miss entycing · 03-28-2010, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by raising2alone

Well, a friend let me to this site and was glad to see this thread

. I am 55 and raising 17 month old twins, so we are never too old I say. I think I am not only blessed to be 55 years young and feel great, but to experience being a "dad" which I always wanted. Wasn't planning on doing it alone but life is what it is right

. Happy to be here!!!

I am SOOOO very happy to see you here- really, it made my week.
new babies? I am SO happy for you... I bet they are exquisite.

good evening lovely people....
I brought bushels of NC goldens for all... got some yummy boysenberry jam, and a big ol jar of huckleberry jam as well!
Life is good-

Jet · 03-28-2010, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by EntycingFemme

I am SOOOO very happy to see you here- really, it made my week.
new babies? I am SO happy for you... I bet they are exquisite.

good evening lovely people....
I brought bushels of NC goldens for all... got some yummy boysenberry jam, and a big ol jar of huckleberry jam as well!
Life is good-

I've never tasted those jams. Is that a southern thing?

Soft*Silver · 03-28-2010, 07:01 PM

speaking of jams,does anyone have recipes for hot pepper jam?

Rockinonahigh · 03-28-2010, 07:16 PM

Softness..hot pepper jam....not of the top of my head but give me a fue and I will see if I can find resipe for it.

raising2alone · 03-28-2010, 11:54 PM

Don't get me wrong, I love being my age, I think I am much smarter about raising kids now then I would have been. As to "how that happened"

, well, guy meets girl,

, marriage, couple finds donor. It gets sad after that

.

Now, about my twins, a boy and a girl, absolutely adorable and smart of course. A handful to be sure and spoiled rotten to the core but despite all of that they are great loving kids. They are very helpful with laundry, picking up their toys, speading them all over the house as well.

Happy to be here and thanks for the welcome...peace and blessings.

ruthie14 · 03-29-2010, 05:07 AM

morning lofters.. Hope everyone has a great day!

miss entycing · 03-29-2010, 06:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Jet

I've never tasted those jams. Is that a southern thing?

southern thing? um... don't really know- maybe just a berry thing.

morning Lofter's, have a lovely day.

morningstar55 · 03-29-2010, 07:09 PM

evening Lofters
worked a bit today. feeling kinda crappy .... landed in North western Pa.. took a nap, .. laying around watching tv.... *sigh*

morningstar55 · 03-30-2010, 07:00 AM

morning Lofters......

looks like its gona be a nice sunny day here so far in North west Pa ...

miss entycing · 03-30-2010, 06:46 PM

evening Lofter's...
having a quiet night with the hubby and kitties, and all is well-
hope everyone is smiling and blissfully contented this evening!

ruthie14 · 03-30-2010, 07:32 PM

Evening lofters. Hope everyone is having a wonderful day! Bought my mom a beautiful hydrangea today for Easter. It is such a light pink it looks white. Georgous. Also bought more seeds including moonflowers. I have to wait for a cloudless night though, to see which way the moon travels. Love the way they smell at night. I love spring! Ruthie

Cowboi · 03-30-2010, 07:43 PM

Good Evening to all. Hope that everyone is enjoying some beautiful spring weather!
I am looking forward to a long weekend! All work and no play makes the Cowboi grouchy!! LoL
Have a pleasant night.

Soft*Silver · 03-30-2010, 07:55 PM

you know you are getting older when the entire staff of the imaging and scoping care center know you by name and asks how you've been since , well, hey, last week??? LOL

03-28-2010, 06:16 PM	#827
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,502 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,428 Thanked 15,619 Times in 3,976 Posts Rep Power*: 21474856	I have a friend who could never have children and every mother's day is so hard on her. She envies me for my child...even when she was at her worst behavior, she was still a blessing. I am sorry you could not have children.... there are no words to even suggest somehow it could be made better. My prayers will be for you to find comfort somehow .... __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

03-28-2010, 07:01 PM	#830
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,502 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,428 Thanked 15,619 Times in 3,976 Posts Rep Power*: 21474856	speaking of jams,does anyone have recipes for hot pepper jam? __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

03-28-2010, 11:54 PM	#832
raising2alone Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Name says it all Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Kansas Posts: 28 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5 Thanked 43 Times in 20 Posts Rep Power: 15141	Love my age! Don't get me wrong, I love being my age, I think I am much smarter about raising kids now then I would have been. As to "how that happened" , well, guy meets girl, , marriage, couple finds donor. It gets sad after that . Now, about my twins, a boy and a girl, absolutely adorable and smart of course. A handful to be sure and spoiled rotten to the core but despite all of that they are great loving kids. They are very helpful with laundry, picking up their toys, speading them all over the house as well. Happy to be here and thanks for the welcome...peace and blessings.

03-29-2010, 07:09 PM	#835
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	evening Lofters worked a bit today. feeling kinda crappy .... landed in North western Pa.. took a nap, .. laying around watching tv.... sigh __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

03-30-2010, 07:00 AM	#836
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	morning Lofters...... looks like its gona be a nice sunny day here so far in North west Pa ... __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

03-28-2010, 01:21 PM	#821
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,937 Times in 3,936 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	morning miss.softness...I made a dozen and there are just so many my son and I can eat...please help your self.

03-28-2010, 02:00 PM	#823
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Hello Lofters, Dunno how I feel today. Was feeling great after seeing Suzanne Westenhoffer last night with friends. But today, I guess all the stress shrugs I was in church and they baptized a baby today. I could never have any and now too poor and or old to adopt. So I started to cry. Got myself together, but put a real damper on my day.

03-28-2010, 07:16 PM	#831
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,937 Times in 3,936 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Softness..hot pepper jam....not of the top of my head but give me a fue and I will see if I can find resipe for it.

03-29-2010, 05:07 AM	#833
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	morning lofters.. Hope everyone has a great day!

03-30-2010, 06:46 PM	#837
miss entycing Senior Member How Do You Identify?: dangerous, but worth the risk. Preferred Pronoun?: just be nice.. it's that easy. Relationship Status: CapitalM's carved upon my skin. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: on the southern edge of sanity, under a carolina moon. Posts: 3,276 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,341 Thanked 8,262 Times in 2,255 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	evening Lofter's... having a quiet night with the hubby and kitties, and all is well- hope everyone is smiling and blissfully contented this evening! __________________ True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate their life, through devotion, to something beyond themselves. Whenever someone awakens fully, it affects human consciousness at a collective level. It is like dropping a stone into a dark murky pond. Ripples of light... Not one word need be spoken.

03-30-2010, 07:32 PM	#838
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Evening lofters. Hope everyone is having a wonderful day! Bought my mom a beautiful hydrangea today for Easter. It is such a light pink it looks white. Georgous. Also bought more seeds including moonflowers. I have to wait for a cloudless night though, to see which way the moon travels. Love the way they smell at night. I love spring! Ruthie

03-30-2010, 07:43 PM	#839
Cowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Holding My Red Circle Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Louisiana Posts: 1,811 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,051 Thanked 3,962 Times in 1,230 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Good Evening to all. Hope that everyone is enjoying some beautiful spring weather! I am looking forward to a long weekend! All work and no play makes the Cowboi grouchy!! LoL Have a pleasant night. __________________ Let There Be Cowgirls

03-30-2010, 07:55 PM	#840
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,502 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,428 Thanked 15,619 Times in 3,976 Posts Rep Power*: 21474856	you know you are getting older when the entire staff of the imaging and scoping care center know you by name and asks how you've been since , well, hey, last week??? LOL __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears