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01-16-2012, 12:10 PM
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OFOS Butch......wants to find an OFOS Femme
Being an "older, matured" OFOS butch...I am realizing that these qualities/attributes are going by the wayside. It is a shame...as I want these to be always a part of ME..who I am. These are a part of my everyday life. Manners, courtesy, respect, and chivalry are the main ingredients of me.
I am a 1950's model of OFOS Butch...I prefer feminine pronouns BUT am NOT offended by hy, hym, boi, daddi...words are just words...those do NOT in any way define me nor make me who I am....as my inner soul is who/what I am. I have many, many miles on me..my "odometer of life" has rolled over a time or two...BUT I am guaranteed to make it past one million miles..and then some. I am blessed with stamina, endurance, patience, and a sense of humor that gets me through. I live life to its fullest each day. I am always positive and upbeat, and see the glass as half full. I am kind, gentle, fiercely loyal, protective..being a Leo! My disposition is always sunny, I am very very protective of my den. My body has its fair share of knicks, dings, and "repair marks" BUT is a healthy body...my heart is in excellent shape and is ready to fall in love again..when the right one comes along. Being a minimalist and not about material things of the world, I am quite comfortable, live within my means, and have a heart the size of Texas. I am generous to a fault, I love hard, I love deeply, and I love monogamously! Some of my greatest joy comes from writing to my special lady...may it be poetry, erotica, or silly love notes....maybe a scrawled in lipstick note on the mirror..or a note hidden in her purse to find later on...or maybe a special meal..just for us two..by the fireplace..or on the beach..and maybe a moonlight picnic in my SUV..by the water..I enjoy giving massages..and can rub muscles for quite a long time...kisses....ahhh...long, slow, deep kisses...flirting outrageously...holding hands... I am one of those rare breed of butches that I have no "preconceived" ideal in mind...all I am looking for is she be sincere, genuine, honest, and one whose heart will join mine..and we will beat as one...someone who is available and able to commit, who wants the chaos, the trials & tribulations life has, and who is able to simply join my hand with hers and let our hearts be as one... It doesn't matter where you came from..what you did...what matters is that NOW you will be here with me..a clean slate..the past is gone....we will make our own lives rich and full...you will have an inner beauty and incredible soul...it is the heart & soul that matter most to me..if that is beautiful then YOU will be the most gorgeous woman on the face of the earth to me!! You will have my undying love and rapt attention...you will walk along with me..equal in all respects..I will love you to eternity and back...you will always be treated and respected for the lady you are!!! The intimate part of US will be between us and decided privately between us...it is sacred to me...and as well to you, I hope!! Thanks for stopping by...reading what I have written. I am enjoying the Planet and I know she will offer you up to me..when the time is right...I am in no hurry...I am enjoying life..one day at a time...waiting for YOU...to come home...meanwhile I am enjoying flirting with the ladies here!!! Have an awesome day...from this OFOS butch...who owns it..who wears it..who KNOWS it is within my soul...a deeply rooted part of me....who "walks the talk and talks the walk"...xoxoxoxo...Clay
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01-16-2012, 05:00 PM
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I also had wanted to add that I am a hopeless romantic. I am always, always thinking of ways to let my woman know how much she means to me..I literally ooze it from my pores..and have a very vivid imagination...BUT with me..it is always about romance..whether we are newly dating..or been partnered for months or years...we will always have dates....in many places and ways...it is all about staying in love...and keeping that love vibrant, alive, and fired up!!
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01-17-2012, 05:28 AM
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My beautiful friend, I sincerely hope you meet that equally beautiful Femme you desire. I know you will both be very happy together when you do eventually meet each other.
 Oh! And make sure you send out my Wedding Invitation in good time so we can create myschief before your big day! ….The Carolinas won’t know what’s hit them! LOL! 
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01-17-2012, 07:16 AM
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awwww big hugs! You will find her. I just know it.
But in the mean time perhaps you can mosey on up to southern virginia and give us a hand on the farm weekends? There's a few of us ready to do great things. You'll work hard, get in great shape and who knows, might be a few cute fillies stroll in now and then. lol
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01-17-2012, 07:55 AM
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At risk of a stupid question, what is OFOS?
At any rate, I know you will find someone right for you 
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01-17-2012, 08:38 AM
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01-17-2012, 09:15 AM
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Whoever snags you will be one lucky lady! And she will not be after you just for what you can buy her.
(I am still less than amused by that in case you cannot tell.) Thank God you had a good, decent person helping you after your surgeries, one who was there out of pure kindness. 
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01-17-2012, 09:33 AM
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Thanks, Laney! I appreciate your kind words and support of me. Yes, I CAN tell...we have to let that go..and move on...k? smiles... Yes, I was very blessed with having her here for that surgery and aftewards to move me into my new apt. SHE IS an angel and a decent, kind, compassioante person! Love ya honey...Clay
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01-17-2012, 09:37 AM
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hi Sachita! Thank YOU also for your kind words. I appreciate that! Oh trust me, I wish I COULD be a part of that Dream Farm Team! I wouldn't be of much help at this time..lol...I have to sit to do most anything....having been all busted up in a debilitating motorcycle wreck in May 2006. I can walk, but with limits...short distances! I CAN cook and do some things though! Sounds like quite an adventure you will be having up there...yes, I would be in great shape and chase some of those young fillies around. I am so glad you have a carpenter coming. I Know she will be a huge help to you!!! Good luck....make it happen girl!! Clay
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01-17-2012, 09:40 AM
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ah the Mystress of Myschief! Thank you, for such glowing words about me...I thank you deeply! smiles... I will be sure to send YOU, Mystress Myschief a Wedding Invite..and you are right...the Carolinas won't EVER be the same afterwards!! This IS the Baptist Bible Belt of the South...lawd lawd...a quirky Kiwi on the loose....oh my stars...lmao..we WILL most defs get into Myschief!! Have an awesome day my friend...and CONGRATS to you also!!
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I reckon the deep south probably still hasn't recovered from the last time I was there! LOL! That could have been why they offered me a job there, again, recently!  LOL! Next Wednesday is the meeting/interview. I need to sit and meditate on this and the Uni places....it would be great to do both, if there were more houes in the day! LOL!
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01-17-2012, 12:32 PM
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awwww Clay when you aren't lookin she will appear right there !
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 If I wore a dress would it help my chances? 
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Wait a minute... I don't date femme girls. You won't need to wear a dress. But, since you are from London, you CAN speak to me in that yummy accent.
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*Disclaimer: I don't date Femmes....just hoping the Butch I'm dating can cook, too!  Hym wearing a dress is optional, but, not preferred! LOL!
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