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This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill Fifteen percent concentrated power of will Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain And a hundred percent reason to remember the name! Give yourself over to absolute pleasure. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh - erotic nightmares beyond any measure, and sensual daydreams to treasure forever. Can't you just see it? Don't dream it, be it. |
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03-16-2013, 07:09 PM | #463 |
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listen to each other take the time to enjoy the simple things like the sound of her heart beating when you hold her close at night , the feel of her skin next to yours
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03-16-2013, 07:11 PM | #464 |
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you're so right, it can ruin a good thing..
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ensure you guard your "me time", and make sure your partner has their "me time".
relax......for goodness sakes, clinging too tightly makes someone like me bolt. if you live together, whenever you get up ask, "hun, can I get you anything while I'm up?" |
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03-16-2013, 07:20 PM | #466 |
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03-16-2013, 07:28 PM | #467 |
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~ dont relive the past ~ live in the today ~ forgive and accept ~ make love BUT have sex often ~ ** wink wink **
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03-16-2013, 07:38 PM | #468 |
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Know yourself, and be self aware, the older I get the more I see how important this is
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03-16-2013, 09:25 PM | #469 |
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03-17-2013, 11:17 AM | #470 |
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~ in my own opinion : ~ I have only been in love 2x's ~ I don't fall in lust ~ I have loved but not in love ~ being a spiritual being I belive God puts ppl in our paths for a reason ~ don't forget how you met ~ what your partner has given to u ~ spirtiualy ~ and what u have given back to them ~ cherrish your connection ~ honor ~ respect eachother ~
(even tho in an arguemnet words get said ) ~ thats how I know my love for hym is endless ~ noone can take hys place ~ I submitt to hys strength ~ follow hys lead ~ I'm not perfect ~ hys guidence keeps me focused ~ my love and devotion I give to only hym ~ realtionships need to be worked on ~ seasoned ~ I will always love hym ~ even if .......~
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03-17-2013, 11:36 AM | #471 |
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*Reflect and grow together. *Pick your battles. Some are just not worth having. *Forgive. I can struggle with this one. I have experienced lots of hurt and sometimes it is just hard to forgive those that add to that hurt. *Don't forget the Romance. *Be affectionate. Love and Lust...have those moments of pure "rip your clothes off" passion. But then again, what do I know! lol |
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live a reality based life.
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03-17-2013, 12:16 PM | #474 |
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Listen even when you're angry.
Love and put yourself first.
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03-17-2013, 12:19 PM | #475 |
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we need a what NOT to do in a relationship...for us relationship challenged individuals.....just sayin'
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I think it's vital to be selfish sometimes. Selfish in the way I interpret that word at its root. Be focused on your self. Have a rich inner life. Be complete unto yourself so that you can bring a whole, fully formed you to the mix. That whole "you complete me" thing disturbs me. I don't want to complete you, but I'd love to be your balancing counterpart. I'll gladly be the savory to your sweet and want you to be the acid in my base.
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Ascot i get that completely. i don't want to need another to complete me as a human. i am not missing any parts (Syr may disagree!)
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I'm a big believer in least said soonest mended but sometimes you have to call someone about how they're treating you. Sometimes being too understanding, too patient, trying too hard to be kind for fear of offending someone and hurting their feelings, sometimes all this does is tell them you think they're too weak to hear the truth. That's not respecting or loving someone or yourself.
When I was splitting from my ex husband because I had woken up to my sexuality, there was no direction to run because of our little girl, except to scrape the barrel of the cess pit where our relationship was and tell each other some bare truths. In the end it made us realise how much we really cared about each other, because after everything was said we were still there, neither of us ran away. I have a good friend who I know I can always count on now.
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