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11-26-2010, 11:52 AM | #1 |
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StepMonsters and other scary second parenting issues
I'm starting this for those of us who have or will step into the role of "the next parental unit". It's not easy. It can feel like you are stepping into a live mine field full of "so and so didn't do that" and "you're not my mom/dad" and "those are my kids!".
How do you navigate that? What are the rules/tips/tricks you've found for being a good stepparent? Let's talk about the wins and the losses. I've had both. One of my wins is my beloved son, KC. He's not mine by birth, but he's mine by love. He's 21 now and we are very close. One of my losses is his eldest sister, Dv. We talk a bit but the relationship will never be more than that of casual acquaintances. KC is our link to one another. Their mom and I do not speak except about the kids. We do not have a friendship at all due to choices we both made and behaviours we both exhibited. I regret that on many levels. So, how about you? Who's a stepmonster out there? *KC introduces me as his stepmonster. I love it. |
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blended family, parenting, second chances, step children, step parent |
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