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I cannot flirt at all - by text, online or in person.
When I do try to flirt either the femme doesn't "get" that I'm flirting or I sound really strange. Once I spent quite a bit of time with someone - apparenlty she started dating and broke up with someone during that time. *sigh* No luck at all! Everyone who says to be a good flirter you should be yourself obviously aren't me! |
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I PROMISE I am not trying to derail.....I was sending flirty text messages to the woman I was dating at the time and they got a little racy. Well, I accidently forwarded one of the more racier ones to my ex-hubby . Good thing he has a great sense of humor. I got a text back asking me, " Can I watch"?? LMAO
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Is that ur text or mine?
O my gosh I know what u mean! I'm soo corny and nerdy I always get a huh? Or one these 0_o faces! So I always go with the worst lines ever and that way they know I'm at least showing interest and hey if they keep textin back they must enjoy whatever it is ur doing or saying!!
If that doesn't work text from Bennett always makes Me laugh! Good luck!! Fav line ever: okay first text and be like omg! Are u okay and then she say yeah y? Then BAM "“You must be tired because you’ve been running through my head all night." Pretty bad right! There are hundreds of bad lines and some good ones! |
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LOL, I never knew there were rules to flirting. Something thought out ahead of time that then ends up in a text could be quite nice indeed, as well as spontaneity. It's all in the delivery and the dance for me.
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... oh... I'm sorry buddy I thought you were flirting with me. I'll get some ice for that...
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Will flirt for cupcakes.
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I am a natural flirt, I like to make people feel good and even smile sometimes.. heck i even enjoy making people blush If i flirt it probably means i like ya, but don't worry it doesn't mean i want to marry you :P.
I think the one problem that i have from time to time, especially when it comes to online or via texting is my just being nice or supportive being confused with flirting.. :S
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I am severely flirting impaired....can't do it, rarely "get it" when it happens to me.
I can joke, be witty, be serious....but flirt? Think I need to take a workshop or something.
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Thinking of starting a flirting course just for Jo I have been known on occasion to flirt. I have been told I am charming and I love women. So flirting comes natural for me.
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If people really want to get to know the real me, then they will take the time too do so and not assume that I’m flirting with all and sundry just because I’m naturally chatty and friendly.
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HAHAHA...
Well apretty, it sure wasn't conscious flirting, however, subconscious is a whole nother matter, something we have no control over and are not even aware of. Obviously I got some reaction because "U" is posting sweet notes on my profile. LOL |
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My UFOMAN joke was not meant to be dismissive, I am truly sorry you took it that way. I learned long ago that people love to hear the sound of their name, so I make it a point of using people's names when I interact with them (even if it is only a screen name). It's just that it was stuck in my mind, because I read it that way. I will work very hard to fix the mental thingy so that if we ever interact again together, you will not feel "dismissed." I will respect your opinion as long as you state it as your opinion. But when you use the word "should" it raises my hackles. You are not the "keeper of the shoulds" and neither am I. I would still love to match your flirting trophies against mine. |
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I always plan my flirts, or not-flirts. By 'plan' I don't mean I write them down for days and analyse them, but I put some thought into what I say (by not-flirts I mean the flirts you're not doing because someone inappropriate is trying to flirt with you). I've flirted with everything from boys to girls and I don't feel the need to change my flirting style for identity, rather for the person.
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I almost understand significant others who get jealous about their person/partner flirting with others? But then, I only almost understand monogamy, so I know I'm out of the loop on that one. Jealousy just doesn't run deep in my bones.
But I definitely don't understand people/persons who get offended when an acquaintance or even a stranger flirts with them. I've always thought of flirting as a fun past-time that mutually bolsters egos. Being flirted with means someone found you cute, or smart, or funny... it's like a verbal exchange offered in reward for your ability to interest another person or engage with them on whatever level. It's the oldest game in the world. It's generally harmless. It's a compliment. Smile and fire back what you've got. If you're not interested, smile and say so and you or I will shrug and move on. Nothing lost. And at least two people shared a smile. For my sake, by all means, should you ever meet a 5-foot something gal w/green cat eyes and freckles and think she is cute/smart/funny, say so -- it might be me and I might need cheering up that day! |
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