Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet? - Page 31

Mr Nice Guy · 06-21-2012, 03:17 PM

What I want to know is why do you all like to torture me? LOL

Ginger · 06-21-2012, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Leigh

Being a naturally shy person, I also like when a butch makes the first move ~ not always because I'm shy but sometimes because I'm just so damn oblivious lol.

Butches always say how oblivious they are; that whole "2 by 4 Butch" thing (which took me the longest to figure out—they have to be hit over the head with a 2 by 4 to get it!)

Anyway if your obliviousness is typical for femmes, then I guess it's like the blind leading the blind! Which explains a lot, LOL

Julien · 06-21-2012, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Beloved

Just letting the butches know, I am available for crushing! Crush away!

Great! I'm there!

Wait did I say that out loud? or type it..... so much for being subtle...

SleepyButch · 06-21-2012, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by IslandScout

Very good point, Sleepy. No one likes to be crushed like a can and tossed to the recycle bin!! (God, I love my own jokes!)

Good to know that at least I would be recycled!

Mr Nice Guy · 06-21-2012, 04:46 PM

Ok, I'll be honest as I always am. The reason I don't crush online is because it won't go anywhere and I think that maybe I want a crush to lead to love. The second reason is that I could never ask someone to move their life for me. I'm not that kind of Butch. Maybe that's why my first screen name was Elusive. It was easier to be Elusive because I knew that I would be left alone which I was. But after a while I got a little lonely for friendship on here and that is why I decided to change it back to who I really am....Mr. Nice Guy

Don't get me wrong in this post. I really can't predict my life and what road I'll go down in the future. All I can do is enjoy the ride.

Mr Nice Guy · 06-22-2012, 11:05 AM

Hello Crush peeps, hope you all are having a wonderful day!! Come back and spill the beans. Lol

~ocean · 06-22-2012, 11:13 AM

knocks over the beans ,, ooops their spilled.....

~~

Ginger · 06-22-2012, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy

The reason I don't crush online is because it won't go anywhere and I think that maybe I want a crush to lead to love.

Why do you say so definitively, "It won't go anywhere," regarding online crushes?

I've met online, two people I fell in love with, and a couple people I dated and just had a lot of fun with.

For me, to start with that word connection is very bonding. I've had IM exchanges that changed my breath and made me cry; I felt so touched and listened to.

I'm in support of the online start to a relationship.

Julien · 06-22-2012, 11:30 AM

Good afternoon Ladies and the Guys. Are you having a great day? I'm trying to, but chores keep getting in the way and there is more to come. What a Friday.

ruffryder · 06-22-2012, 11:50 AM

Crushin' on my girl everyday! She just has that effect like that. . **squishy crushins** She's just too damn adorable not to!

Leigh · 06-22-2012, 12:12 PM

I love hym of course hehe.

Quintease · 06-22-2012, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by IslandScout

Why do you say so definitively, "It won't go anywhere," regarding online crushes?

I've met online, two people I fell in love with, and a couple people I dated and just had a lot of fun with.

Hmm.. I met one girl online who was lovely, but smoked pot every day. A friend, who turned into a one night stand, who never spoke to me again. Another who seemed lovely online but turned out to be psycho in real life, and of course my hubby, who made the whole online thing totally worthwhile

Ciaran · 06-22-2012, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by IslandScout

Someone very wise pointed out to me today, as I was making fun of how the butches just show up on this thread to look around and see if anyone is crushing on them—as opposed to owning up to who THEY are crushing on—that the femmes don't name names, either.

Maybe the idea is just for people who have crushes to all show up in the same place and mill around and wonder about each other. What are the chances of them being the object of each other's crushes? Maybe pretty good!

People are we in the seventh grade or what????

I suggest anyone with a crush PM the person you are crushing. Let her/hyr/him know how you feel! Own it! I dare you!

The good thing about crushes is that they can be anonymous.

I'd only tell who I crushed on if I was paid enough money (and, yes, I do accept Paypal).

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Originally Posted by Mr Nice Guy

Ok, I'll be honest as I always am. The reason I don't crush online is because it won't go anywhere and I think that maybe I want a crush to lead to love. The second reason is that I could never ask someone to move their life for me.

A crush is just a crush .... it's not a relationship and, in most instances will never have the opportunity to develop into an actual relationship. Most crushes aren't meant to go anywhere - at their best, they'll maybe give you a bit more energy in your step in the mornings.

Crushing on someone isn't akin to asking them to move in with you, nor should it be.

Gráinne · 06-22-2012, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Ciaran

The good thing about crushes is that they can be anonymous.

I'd only tell who I crushed on if I was paid enough money (and, yes, I do accept Paypal).

A crush is just a crush .... it's not a relationship and, in most instances will never have the opportunity to develop into an actual relationship. Most crushes aren't meant to go anywhere - at their best, they'll maybe give you a bit more energy in your step in the mornings.

Crushing on someone isn't akin to asking them to move in with you, nor should it be.

That's how I feel. If nothing else, it's "Oh goody! A post from Crush" and even if it's nothing to do with me at all, for some reason it's just a little pep in the step.

As for "tell them how you feel", the vast majority of posters here are super LD from me, and I'm not even looking for anything right now. Sure, I might find some excuse to "just happen" to have to talk to them, but more like a "Hi, how's it going?" thing.

Mr Nice Guy · 06-22-2012, 01:28 PM

My last post was just about how I feel about crushes that I've had in the past. Ok so they were in real life and not online but they have turned to love. I'm just really unsure about online crushes. I'm flattered if someone had one for me but I haven't really taken the time to crush on anyone myself. I think I would rather help along the crushes. It's fun.

Breezy · 06-22-2012, 01:29 PM

I am beginning to crush on several members of this site. They are all sweet, kind and compassionate. They are femmes, butches and FtM. LOL. It does make me feel a bit lighter.

Julien · 06-22-2012, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Breezy

I am beginning to crush on several members of this site. They are all sweet, kind and compassionate. They are femmes, butches and FtM. LOL. It does make me feel a bit lighter.

This is always nice to hear.

Breezy · 06-22-2012, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Julien

This is always nice to hear.

Thank you, Julien!

Zimmeh · 06-22-2012, 08:49 PM

I'm crushing on you to

Zimmeh

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Originally Posted by ruffryder

Crushin' on my girl everyday! She just has that effect like that. . **squishy crushins** She's just too damn adorable not to!

Breezy · 06-23-2012, 08:53 AM

Good morning. Have a fantastic day everyone.

06-22-2012, 11:30 AM	#609
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,701 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Good afternoon Ladies and the Guys. Are you having a great day? I'm trying to, but chores keep getting in the way and there is more to come. What a Friday. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

06-22-2012, 12:12 PM	#611
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I love hym of course hehe. __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

06-21-2012, 03:17 PM	#601
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	What I want to know is why do you all like to torture me? LOL

06-21-2012, 04:46 PM	#605
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Ok, I'll be honest as I always am. The reason I don't crush online is because it won't go anywhere and I think that maybe I want a crush to lead to love. The second reason is that I could never ask someone to move their life for me. I'm not that kind of Butch. Maybe that's why my first screen name was Elusive. It was easier to be Elusive because I knew that I would be left alone which I was. But after a while I got a little lonely for friendship on here and that is why I decided to change it back to who I really am....Mr. Nice Guy Don't get me wrong in this post. I really can't predict my life and what road I'll go down in the future. All I can do is enjoy the ride.

06-22-2012, 11:05 AM	#606
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hello Crush peeps, hope you all are having a wonderful day!! Come back and spill the beans. Lol

06-22-2012, 11:13 AM	#607
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,125 Times in 4,736 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	knocks over the beans ,, ooops their spilled..... ~~

06-22-2012, 11:50 AM	#610
ruffryder Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: guy ones Relationship Status: ... Join Date: May 2011 Location: chillin' in FL Posts: 3,690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,951 Thanked 9,678 Times in 2,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Crushin' on my girl everyday! She just has that effect like that. . squishy crushins She's just too damn adorable not to!

06-22-2012, 01:28 PM	#615
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	My last post was just about how I feel about crushes that I've had in the past. Ok so they were in real life and not online but they have turned to love. I'm just really unsure about online crushes. I'm flattered if someone had one for me but I haven't really taken the time to crush on anyone myself. I think I would rather help along the crushes. It's fun.

06-22-2012, 01:29 PM	#616
Breezy Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: . Posts: 1,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,337 Thanked 4,555 Times in 1,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I am beginning to crush on several members of this site. They are all sweet, kind and compassionate. They are femmes, butches and FtM. LOL. It does make me feel a bit lighter.

06-23-2012, 08:53 AM	#620
Breezy Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: . Posts: 1,372 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,337 Thanked 4,555 Times in 1,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Good morning. Have a fantastic day everyone.