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View Poll Results: What age range are you?
19 or younger 3 0.69%
20-29 51 11.72%
30-39 99 22.76%
40-49 171 39.31%
50-59 100 22.99%
60-69 11 2.53%
70 and above 0 0%
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Old 10-22-2011, 06:46 PM   #61
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Maybe we should start saving to create a retirement community one day
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It sure is different being refered to as an older person by the younger generation, but I think back through the years and it is a blessing, my 1st friend passed when she was 17,,I was 15, many years have gone by and alot of life,,Im thankful for what I have had,,even if my hair is gray and I dont move as fast as I used to, and actually check out scooters when I go to Disneyland !
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We will make the most fabulous retirement fuckery ever!
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I think it is actually a really awesome idea. There are a few gay/lesbian communities out there, and people are flocking to them. They are expensive, though.

Someone who is good at creating that kind of thing should do it. If it was in a half decent location I would seriously relocate (a 55+ type community).
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Oh good, I'm not as far from the mean than I thought!! Oh yeah- a queer retirement community sounds great!
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Hmm, I first answered this when I was 39. I'm 41 now.
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As I been surfing around and posting since joining yesterday.. I wondered also the average age group of this forum. Thanks for this thread)~
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Old 03-02-2012, 05:21 AM   #68
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I started on the other B-F when I was 41. I'm now 48. Soon to be 49. I still feel young and look young.
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Holy Times Flies, Batman!



I was 35 when I posted before and am now 37, almost 38.
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Hmm, I first answered this when I was 39. I'm 41 now.
Same numbers here!
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Old 03-04-2012, 01:08 AM   #71
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I'm 36 ... soon-ish to be 37.

I act older as I've an old soul although I usually pass, in real life, as a 30 something if I mosturise before going outside
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I used to be insecure about stating my age. I am 57, Gemini, femme, Canadian. I thought I was too old to be of interest to younger butches. I turned that around and am grateful to be my age. I have lots of life experience, a feisty attitude, a kind and gentle heart. I still haven't found a soul mate, but the journey is certainly a lot of fun. And, Ciaran, you are one of the butches who made this "older and wiser" femme have a marvelous time at the get together in Vegas.



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I'm 53 - soon to be 54. It seems that people think I'm quite a bit younger - I'm not sure why. I generally pass for my wife's age - late thirties/early forties. I FEEL as old as dirt though! lol
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i'm 24 chronologically, and around 5 mentally and 80 physically it evens out. sorta.
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I'm 23 (24 in October) seems like my youth is held against me.
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I think it is actually a really awesome idea. There are a few gay/lesbian communities out there, and people are flocking to them. They are expensive, though.

Someone who is good at creating that kind of thing should do it. If it was in a half decent location I would seriously relocate (a 55+ type community).
i hear Hot SPrings is great for retirement. Maybe we should all gravitate to the hot springs as we age, then we won't have to travel so far for the reunion.....
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I'm 23 (24 in October) seems like my youth is held against me.
I think you're cool. Sometimes people are a bit overly wary of new people. I like that you bring your own experiences from the real world and are not just another person who has been online for years and years and knows all the right lingo and protocol. You also don't get angry or defensive when people seem to misunderstand you, which shows a lot of class. We need new blood- in terms of new people and younger people. I am glad you are here. Enjoy your youth!
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Already said this to Steph, but we all have opinions, don't let anyone get to you. We are wary of newbies, but then many of us have been stung by folks who had nefarious intentions. That's our baggage, not yours. Just be you, said that before too.
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