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08-29-2013, 05:56 AM
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Where are all the lesbian femmes that love us lesbian butches ???
This thread is started for all of us that ID as lesbian butch to be able to see who the lesbian femmes are that love us, date us, partner with us, and support us as the butches we are. Where are you??? Come out come out where ever you are!!!!
I would also like to entertain a question in this thread as well. If you ID as lesbian butch or femme, do you enjoy having lesbian sex with your partner? What do you consider lesbian sex to mean to you by your own definitions.? ps. I didn't see a thread for this on the site.
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08-29-2013, 06:50 AM
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I know you will get a little education for using the phrase "lesbian sex"; be prepared!
I am sure that it will be done kindly because we all know that you are new I might as well start out. Lesbian sex includes any manner or in any way that two self-identified lesbians choose to have sex! Some lesbians are stone (we have many threads on the planet about what that means to a person or lesbian that identifies as stone), many lesbians are not stone (like me). There are endless ways and manners of having sex or making love-just like anyone else that may not ID as lesbian. My partner identifies as a lesbian butch. She embraces her butchness (made-up word), that she is female and that she is a woman. I love that about her. Neither of us is stone. I love that too.
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08-29-2013, 07:44 AM
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Stonefemme lesbian here. That means I'm strictly a receiver/bottom when it comes to sex. That's lesbian sex to me because I'm a lesbian and that's the way I have sex. Sadly for me, but seemingly fortunately for you Tru, I'm a member of a very tiny minority- both here on bfp and everywhere else.
I LOVE, collectively as well as individually when given a chance, butch women who are lesbians!
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08-29-2013, 11:35 AM
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I am not sure why I would get an education for using the phrase "lesbian sex". I have heard it said many times from other folks that ID differently than I do and the one thing they do say consistently is that they don't have "lesbian sex". So I put it up there because it seems that our ways of having sex are labled by others as those of us that that engage in sex in the lesbian community have what they call "lesbian sex", just as I stated in my original post.
I know what a stone butch is and a stone femme is. I myself use the term lesbian sex in meaning that my partner(when I am partnered at the time), and I would have sex together, her making love to me with no boundaries of my body and I to her with no boundaries of her body. And use whatever we feel is wanted at the time to use for play; Be it dildos or other stuff. Please don't take my choice of words to mean anything negative towards anyone. I am not using it to mean an offense towards anyone. And thank you all for coming here and talking to me abouti it. I have been feeling alone on this site and I was wanting to find others like me here and be able to correspond together, possibly make some new friends along the way. I too am a female lesbian butch woman and I embrace all of my femaleness from birth. I am not feminine by any means but I embrace all my female body parts and love it when my lesbian femme(when I have one in my life) loves on them too. wohoo!
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08-29-2013, 11:53 AM
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COOL Thread!! Lez Femme here...
I can deliver the mail and lick the stamp. 
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08-29-2013, 12:07 PM
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Well, I consider more kinds of sex than that "lesbian sex," like sex between stone butches and femmes if they ID as lesbian.
I get what you are saying. I have heard the phrase "lesbian sex" said in a disparaging way, usually meant to mean "do me, do you" oral and digital sex. But that's not fair. Lesbian sex is, in my opinion, whatever lesbians do when having sex. So I guess I would educate you a bit because the way you are using the terms does exclude. I think that butches who like to receive do get excluded themselves, so I get it when they are a little defensive. But you can't appropriate the term "lesbian sex" to exclude stone sex, whatever you may have heard from others. I am not a stone femme, but I have had a lot of sex with stone butch partners. It never once occurred to me that I wasn't having lesbian sex. |
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08-29-2013, 12:09 PM
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I know there are those who talk about lesbians as only having the "you do me then I do you" kind of sex. These people who define lesbian sex as this like to talk about how they find that very boring, too vanilla. Some people like to use this as a way to disparage lesbians. People love to do that. Love to diss lesbians and feminists; and lesbian feminists...well that's just a diss jackpot. I get that this is the way you like sex and that you are comfortable calling it lesbian sex. I am simply asking you to consider the implications and the history behind this. |
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08-29-2013, 07:10 PM
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I have to say that I was a tad bit nervous to make this thread today but for no god reason it seems. LOL I am quiet enjoying the posts here and getting much knowledge from you all have posted thus far.
As for the bedroom, I was not wanting anyone to be specific about anything, I think that is a sacred part of your privacy and wouldn't ever ask anyone to fully indulge into that. Thank you all for helping me continue the discussion going in this thread. keep on posting!!! ps......have a great weekend as well to all of you.
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08-29-2013, 07:57 PM
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Oh hell. No details?
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08-29-2013, 08:20 PM
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No shit??
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Fine I'll start::: As a femme lez.... I looooove unbuttoning a butchy shirt. GAWD FUCKING DAMN... standing up, laying down, sitting up... let me at that gawd damn thing. Slowly, keeping eye contact, then leaning my cheek to their chest and just breathing the most perfect moment that no else gets to have -- because it's that special of a spot to be right there. Call me a big ole romantic lezzie.. I don't give a shit. But thats HOT. What's next is knee shaking... and if a "safe word" is involved:: Mine is Tomato. 
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08-30-2013, 09:42 AM
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I'm still laughin at the last couple of posts. thanks I needed a good laugh................carry on!!
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08-30-2013, 10:17 AM
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Words have power, and words have slightly different emotional attachments to each one of us. I am loving this thread, Tru. Thank you for starting it.
And I also am thankful for the education as to how some people feel about some words. Thank you for a continuing education |
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08-30-2013, 12:08 PM
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So you really just want to know how others have sex? Is it first me, then you, then me? Or all me, me, me? Or all you, you, you? Technically, even if you're the one laying there *hand up* or hell, on your knees *other hand up* it still takes two to have sex.
I am a femme partnered with a butch and we have sex an assortments of ways, if ya really want to know! When I was a baby lesbian [*le sigh*] it seemed it was you, me, you, me, you, me. I mean, hey, it worked! I am the first to admit I like routines and schedules and stuff, but hey.. I have come [*giggle*] to accept that some people just want to give, give, give and you bet your ass you just better lie/kneel there and take it. With that being said, I am so totally okay with dishing out what was given! Oi, I think I need a shower now.. |
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04-28-2014, 04:14 PM
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I will say this. I hate labels no matter where they come from. However, yes, I am a young butch and a switch, but more than anything I am me. And when it comes to dating, I want a person. A real person. And it matters not if they are butch or femme. It only matters that they are a person that I can be happy with. And as far as sex, it is simply sex, or if I'm with a mate, it's expressing my love. Simple as that.
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Best post ever ! Ditto
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10-22-2013, 08:37 PM
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I Love Stone Butch
Where are all the Stone Butch for us Stone Femmes
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ETA: I just found one and bumped the thread for you.
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10-22-2013, 09:58 PM
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I consider myself to be quite versatile.... but the description provided Is def my preference.
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Jhenay, welcome to BFP.
Tru, it was nice for you to bump a stone butch thread. Also, some stone femmes and stone butches are also lesbians. I am a stone butch and a lesbian. 
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10-23-2013, 12:54 AM
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Heyas. I'm a lezzo.
I prefer the term "dyke" though. I like my dyke girlfriends to do me with me via their clits, clit-cocks, cocks, mouths, hands, fists, toes, elbows, arses and pretty much all of it. I will do them how they best prefer. I'm not fond of strapping on but some rare people have made it hot for me to do that. I prefer to be their fuckdolly, their sex toy, and us (usually) being both dykes (the occasional one has ID'd as queer), it's dyke sex. I like them to be dominant (the boss in bed and the one in control of what happens and the one to make decisions about what happens around what *they* want to do or to have done to them). but I can switch that - I can be very dominant. but I'm sub:dom 80:20 kind of ratio. so I'm mostly a service orientated pillow queen, really. With a side salad of tie you up and make you say real nasty things. I don't do things to people they don't like (unless, they like being made to do things they don't like so they can like it with no responsibility.... ha) And that is my version of dyke sex. The End |
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