What is on your mind - Page 549

sierragirrl · 03-25-2013, 08:24 AM

IMsL

rustedrims · 03-25-2013, 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheMerryFairy

My icecream is almost gone already, how did that happen? *blush*

Use a smaller spoon and it will last longer.
Guess how I know?

ruby_woo · 03-25-2013, 11:22 AM

Taxes. I have to do two years of American taxes, one year of Canadian, and get last year's Canadian return looked at because I think I screwed up. Damn cross-border tax issues, pain in my butt.

Sun · 03-25-2013, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by SaltyButch

I am sitting here in a quandry, as to why some can be so cruel, perhaps they don't mean to be but they seemingly are unaware as to how the words they write or speak can cut to the core of someone.

What prompted this vent, is that today I received an email in regards to a picture I have posted somewhere, it is with a friend and shows us smiling. The email was written as such " I notice you have two different women showing in your pics, my friend wants to know if you are the blonde one or the disfigured one beside her." I was quite taken aback by this as I am the one she is referring to as disfigured, I have looked at the picture and have no idea what she is referring to. My response to her was, perhaps your "friend" could identify what she sees as a disfigurement, which happens to be me as I don't see one.

I am trying to grasp why I can't shake this and I think I have determined that it has brought back a memory from my childhood, when a man in my neighbourhood called me a monkey. Obviously this happened many years ago but has stayed with me, again a person uttering something which has left a scar.

I will no doubt get past this, because I am a strong, confident and yes an attractive individual, but it still hurts that someone who doesn't know me
has lashed out at me.

So, if anyone reading this can take something away from it, please think twice before you write a disparaging remark or utter something in anger or in an offhanded manner, for you never know what those words may do to that person on any given day.

I am really sorry that this happened to you. Sometimes people are just cruel to get a reaction out of others and that kind of psychological abuse is truly hard to understand. I really do not think that there was any reality in that comment just a form of bullying. As a person who has been bullied since childhood, I feel the sting in that sort of action and I just wanted to let you know that when people act out like that, it says something about them, not you.

How sad for them to have nothing positive to contribute. In contrast, this post just made a very positive contribution to the world by reminding us of the power of our words.

Sun · 03-25-2013, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by MissItalianDiva

My daddy! There is not a single moment of the day that goes by that I dont wish I could just shoot him a random I love you text, call and tell him he is the best father in the world or just give him a huge hug. I miss him so much and time does not heal all wounds.

Awwwwwwwww...I am so sorry hon. What a loss for both of you, I cant imagine leaving this world and leaving behind an amazing daughter, or several children. A good reminder to cherish each moment that we are given here on earth.

You are right, time does not heal all wounds, but love never dies, and we never forget. Just think of how special you made his life by radiating all that love back to him. Sending you a big Daddy hug.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Diva)))))))))))))))) )))))))))))))))

ruffryder · 03-25-2013, 12:10 PM

Getting moved and settled and back up again. . .

Queenie · 03-25-2013, 12:23 PM

What is on my mind? Right now?
In ten days I am getting my braces taken off. I have had them for the last two and a half years. The short of the story is, I use to have a really ugly overbite. All the painfully years I have gone through with my awful overbite were wiped away with a 5 hour surgery. When the braces come off and I can finally see what I now look like. I don't know what I will do. Will I snob? (As I am kinda doing at the moment.) Or will I be just speechless that I wont be able to say word? Its just such an odd feeling to have. I really do feel like a better me. Yeah I know that is cheesy but its true.

Duchess · 03-25-2013, 12:29 PM

~Happy to be independent
~Happy that my hip is better

CA_BabyCakes · 03-25-2013, 12:31 PM

I have a huge writing paper for my final English class, it is on Homosexuals during the Holocaust. The paper has to be ten pages long, so i have chosen to also include those labeled homosexuals in order to justify actions done to them.

So if anyone has any good books that i can get information on, or any documentaries please inbox me!

I greatly appreaciate any help or any help with topics i can add on to this!

Thanks

TheMerryFairy · 03-25-2013, 12:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rustedrims

Use a smaller spoon and it will last longer.
Guess how I know?

At least I am not alone! If I use a smaller spoon, I will have to use those little wooden ones you get from icecream trucks lol

TheMerryFairy · 03-25-2013, 12:53 PM

Memories of previous backpacking experiences, business ideas, tax returns and finishing up some easter.

Duchess · 03-25-2013, 01:20 PM

I was asked today if I considered myself bisexual because I'm attracted to male identified Butches, female identified Butches and FTMs. Hmmm, never thought about it.

TheMerryFairy · 03-25-2013, 03:19 PM

Hobbit holes and how tempting it is to live off the grid. Someday!

Massive · 03-25-2013, 03:50 PM

Two hours sleep, one more night before the funeral, I need and want to sleep, will it happen, I hope so.

DamonK · 03-25-2013, 04:52 PM

What should be occurring in the next week or so.
Making plans.

Leigh · 03-25-2013, 05:10 PM

too much on my mind but i'm trying to concentrate on work.

TheMerryFairy · 03-25-2013, 05:38 PM

Why does easter grass have to stick to everything? LOL It is a lot of fun but I just vacuumed over the weekend.

jac · 03-25-2013, 06:10 PM

getting this load of laundry done so i can go to bed..... zzzzzzzzz.........

TheMerryFairy · 03-25-2013, 07:28 PM

I need to find a website that will work for my business plans and while I don't NEED to, I really want to try out the new bio shock game.

Greyson · 03-25-2013, 07:29 PM

The arguments in favor and against Marriage Equality. Tomorrow in the U.S. Supreme Court it begins. Whatever the decision/s, history will shine its' light on this forever more.

I am grateful I have lived to see this day.

03-25-2013, 12:29 PM	#10968
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03-25-2013, 01:20 PM	#10972
Duchess Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Toe curling :-) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 2,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,792 Thanked 5,591 Times in 1,521 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	*I was asked today if I considered myself bisexual because I'm attracted to male identified Butches, female identified Butches and FTMs. Hmmm, never thought about it.* __________________ *無料のライブ*

03-25-2013, 03:50 PM	#10974
Massive Member How Do You Identify?: Trans man Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: not looking Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Northern England Posts: 945 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,669 Thanked 2,383 Times in 765 Posts Rep Power: 17762094	Two hours sleep, one more night before the funeral, I need and want to sleep, will it happen, I hope so. __________________ You may not be able to choose your bio-family, but you can choose your Family

03-25-2013, 05:10 PM	#10976
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	too much on my mind but i'm trying to concentrate on work. __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

03-25-2013, 07:29 PM	#10980
Greyson Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transmasculine/Non-Binary Preferred Pronoun?: Hy (Pronounced He) Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 6,589 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,132 Thanked 8,165 Times in 2,007 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	What Is On Your Mind? The arguments in favor and against Marriage Equality. Tomorrow in the U.S. Supreme Court it begins. Whatever the decision/s, history will shine its' light on this forever more. I am grateful I have lived to see this day. __________________ Sometimes you don't realize your own strength until you come face to face with your greatest weakness. - Susan Gale

03-25-2013, 08:24 AM	#10961
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03-25-2013, 11:22 AM	#10963
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03-25-2013, 12:10 PM	#10966
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03-25-2013, 12:23 PM	#10967
Queenie Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Preferred Pronoun?: Her Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: East Finchley Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 478 Thanked 1,891 Times in 523 Posts Rep Power: 16307163	What is on my mind? Right now? In ten days I am getting my braces taken off. I have had them for the last two and a half years. The short of the story is, I use to have a really ugly overbite. All the painfully years I have gone through with my awful overbite were wiped away with a 5 hour surgery. When the braces come off and I can finally see what I now look like. I don't know what I will do. Will I snob? (As I am kinda doing at the moment.) Or will I be just speechless that I wont be able to say word? Its just such an odd feeling to have. I really do feel like a better me. Yeah I know that is cheesy but its true.

03-25-2013, 12:31 PM	#10969
CA_BabyCakes Member How Do You Identify?: All Femme Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: \ Posts: 364 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 231 Thanked 1,174 Times in 282 Posts Rep Power: 7129096	I have a huge writing paper for my final English class, it is on Homosexuals during the Holocaust. The paper has to be ten pages long, so i have chosen to also include those labeled homosexuals in order to justify actions done to them. So if anyone has any good books that i can get information on, or any documentaries please inbox me! I greatly appreaciate any help or any help with topics i can add on to this! Thanks

03-25-2013, 12:53 PM	#10971
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03-25-2013, 03:19 PM	#10973
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Hobbit holes and how tempting it is to live off the grid. Someday!

03-25-2013, 04:52 PM	#10975
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03-25-2013, 05:38 PM	#10977
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Why does easter grass have to stick to everything? LOL It is a lot of fun but I just vacuumed over the weekend.

03-25-2013, 06:10 PM	#10978
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03-25-2013, 07:28 PM	#10979
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I need to find a website that will work for my business plans and while I don't NEED to, I really want to try out the new bio shock game.