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03-14-2011, 04:17 AM
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Mentally Delicious
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Mme. Relationship Status:
Married to JD. 
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I had the most wonderful dream last night about Sweet.
Sending love to the entire family. xo
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03-14-2011, 09:42 AM
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Member
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A Force with which to be reckoned Preferred Pronoun?:
just be nice... Relationship Status:
I call her Mine 
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Dearest Cali -
Thank you so very much for being unfailingly kind and patient to me when I first found the dash site. I have always been grateful that you "showed me the ropes" so to speak so I didn't blunder too badly with all the labels and definitions. You touched my life. Sending light and love as you move to your next adventure. I am certain its full of lovely truffles. Mike & the heathens - know you are in our thoughts. Much love, Christie & Jess |
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03-14-2011, 10:13 AM
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Senior Member
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Hippy Join Date: Nov 2009
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We will always be grateful for the Thanksgiving dinner and other such fuckery
festivities with which we have had the pleasure of your Company Sweet.  And grateful I never had to face a Bop o' da Nail File.   We Love You   
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03-14-2011, 10:26 AM
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Senior Member
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Femme Relationship Status:
I need ya boo, gotta see ya boo Join Date: Nov 2009
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Dearest Sweetcali,
What an amazing, loving, beautiful soul you are. You have touched the lives of so many people, and we are lucky to have experienced the joy of your friendship. We all continue to lift you up in prayer and positive energy in hopes that your transition to your next big adventure is a peaceful one.  ((((MIKE & family)))) May peace & comfort surround you during this difficult time. Sending love & light you way. |
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03-14-2011, 11:16 AM
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Member
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Married ~ 4-1-13 Join Date: Nov 2009
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May peace and comfort fill your hearts at this time of need.  |
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03-14-2011, 12:03 PM
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Infamous Member
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femme Relationship Status:
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(((SweetCali)))
I remember your kindness and humour in chat on the dash site. Thank you.
May your journey continue safely knowing you are loved by so many. |
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03-14-2011, 12:26 PM
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Member
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((((sweetchocodiva)))) & mike
it is so very difficult for us to send you on your way to the next, big, chocolate-laden chapter. though we never met face-to-face, i enjoyed so much chat time with you and being bopped with the big ol' nail file. i still have lumps on my head. *grin* since you must depart for other things and other adventures, i hope that in that time you find peace of body, of mind, of spirit. oh...and find that the godiva factory is your neighbor! *grin* may your incredible strength guide you through this transition and beyond. mike...you all are in my and potty's thoughts right now. your dedication and strength are incredible. remember to attend to yourself during this time. you are in a phase of transition as well. sending chocolate hugs to sweet and a strong hand to mike-- nick
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03-14-2011, 12:49 PM
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Timed Out
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Unavailable 
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Mike and Family, I am lifting you up in prayers. I wish you all peace. My deepest sympathies, Andrew |
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03-14-2011, 02:11 PM
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Peace and light to you Sweetcali. Strength to you Mike and your children.
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03-14-2011, 02:40 PM
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sweet and Mike...
you are all in our thoughts and prayers...  vixenagogo and DaddyClyde. |
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03-14-2011, 02:53 PM
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Infamous Member
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Sweet and Mike. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sweet, you were exactly what I needed when I fell into chat six years ago. I was a broken mess and your kindness, realness and patience helped me. Thank you.
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03-14-2011, 03:19 PM
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Senior Member
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This body is not me. I am not caught in this body.
I never had the pleasure to get to know Sweetcali, or Mike, but I know that life is about transitions. I believe there is peace to be found in embracing and celebrating our innate condition of impermanence. And so I offer only this: No coming, no going No after, no before I hold you close to me I release you to be so free Because I am in you, and you are in me Because I am in you, and you are in me *** There are no real goodbyes There are no real endings Because I am in you and you are in me Peace to you both, and your family, From me and mine.
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03-14-2011, 07:28 PM
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Senior Member
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still ballin' Relationship Status:
Triple X Join Date: Nov 2009
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A peaceful journey to someplace better Sweetcali. You are remembered with fondness and love by many.
Peace and love to you and Mike. 
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03-14-2011, 07:39 PM
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Timed Out
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I'm wondering about You now, sweet Kristin.....and holding You in my heart.....
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03-14-2011, 08:29 PM
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Member
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I answer to "hey you" (either works for me!) Relationship Status:
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Lifting you all up in thought and prayer... Sweet... you are a beautiful woman... My prayers are with you during this transformative time.
Mike... I hold you in my prayers...
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03-14-2011, 09:14 PM
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Member
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Sweet - you were always the best in chat, giving me advice and keeping us all in line. I'm glad i got to meet you at your house a few years back and deliver your chocolate covered strawberries to the B/F picnic.
Go in peace. Mike our thoughts are with you. Tura & Stray |
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03-14-2011, 11:49 PM
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Infamous Member
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Usually "Hello" Relationship Status:
Married and Bound to Tommi's kaijira (Ts_kaijira )  Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Suthun.... California that is. Across the ridge from Laguna Beach.
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Thinking of you at this time
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03-15-2011, 03:05 PM
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In Loving Memory and Many Thanks
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I wanted to thank all of you for your thoughts , prayers, and guiding light. Like I said Sweet is a fighter. On Saturday, hospice, and I thought we were at the end of this life as we know it. The nurse was here, Sweet was unresponsive as she had been mostly the 2 or 3 days before. We left it at that. Sunday morning at around 7 Sweet woke me up to tell me she wanted a bath. We made this happen. (Actually we had 6 baths on Sunday.) We got back in bed and dozed off. Around 8 30 the hospice nurse came back and guess who answered the door. Sweet did! The nurse was in shock. this couldnt be the person she had visited on Saturday who didnt even know she was there.
When Sweet couldnt swallow the pills they where giving her we had to stop trying that and just rely on liquid pain meds to help her. They think she was having a reaction to one of the pills and it took that long for her body to rid itself of that medication. She's been up, and very lucid on and off since then. She has started eating again, and altho tired, manages to be awake for the girls for short periods of time. WE know the end is somewhere out there, her will to be there for her girls is amazing to say the least. Again thank you everyone for all your kind thoughs, she hasnt been able to read this yet, but I have been telling her about the amazing community we have and all of you. Mike |
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03-15-2011, 03:08 PM
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MILLION $$$ PUSSY
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Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles 
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She's a fighter and bopped Santa Muerte in the head with hrer glass nail file.
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03-15-2011, 03:09 PM
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Infamous Member
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Simply amazing.
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