What are your faults? - Page 9

afemmenatalie · 04-04-2015, 09:16 PM

Faults? You're kidding, right?

Orema · 05-03-2015, 05:22 AM

- Impatient
- Control freak
- Dismissive
- Stubborn

Blade · 05-03-2015, 06:31 AM

Trusting to readily

RNguy · 05-03-2015, 07:49 AM

1. I'm OCD
2. B/C of #1. I only see things as black and white.
3. I maintain complete control of every aspect of my life.
4. B/C of #3 I operate on the fight or flight response quickly.
5. As I age , I have no tolerance for putting up with nonsense.
6. I will never freely give trust to anything or anyone . Trust is something that can take many years to get from me.
7. I never forgive nor forget if I have been lied to. I take grudges to the grave.
8. B/C of #1 I fixate on the smallest things and will go to the depths of hades to prove a wrong or a right.
9. I am a Pitt bull daddy and way to overprotective.
10. My coping mechanism is to seclude , wall up , shut down
and bolt if I think I am going to get burned . Which would
fall in the fight or flight category.
11. I over analyze alot of things.

oboejive · 05-03-2015, 02:48 PM

Being stubborn (I'm a Taurus)
Being too perfectionistic
Being disorganized (in an organized manner as everything is in piles, and I know where everything is at)
Spreading myself too thin at times
Rejection issues

Sammy583 · 06-05-2015, 07:55 AM

1. I have lost too many people in my life (adopted, then lost few close family members to death)
2. Bc of number 1 I have a fear of losing people or something happening.
3. I can over analyze things.
4. If I get hurt seriously or feel like I'm about too I tend to fight or flight. My recent relationship hy broke things off with me during which time hy said he was never in love with me (to hurt me), than we got back together he said he never meant it however I couldn't get it out of my head and ended things. Now I'm thinking I didn't fight hard enough.
5. I'm sarcastic
6. I'm hard headed

Tuff Stuff · 07-30-2015, 10:24 PM

I've been told I use too much salt..i luv salt

Miss_J · 07-30-2015, 11:23 PM

I think there are times that I have unrealistic expectations. I tend to treat people with courtesy, respect and caring. In return I feel people should treat me the same and its a huge disappointment when they dont. Huge..

C0LLETTE · 07-31-2015, 07:09 AM

I am not particularly introspective...annoying to some...a life saver to me.

I tend to find amusement in just about all of the "human condition"...annoying to some....a life saver for me.

Daisy Chain · 08-01-2015, 11:23 AM

These are some of the ones I am more aware of and also the ones that I make an almost constant effort to address with some success I hope....

I can hold a grudge

I can be selfish with my need for solitude at times

I over analyse and over think

I am distrustful and suspicious which can make me distant and watchful

I have expectations of people

I dont always listen to my gut instinct and make the same mistakes again until I finally learn the hard way

I try to cover all bases at all times and get frustrated when I cannot

I find it hard to accept that someone else can handle something for me as well as I can myself or better, I can take self sufficiency to the extreme

I can be very stubborn

I can shut loved ones out when I am processing hurt which in turn hurts them

I can be very outspoken at times but then there are times when I refuse to engage at all

I used to want most things on my own terms

I am very much my own harshest critic !

Daisy { a work in progress }

MsTinkerbelly · 08-01-2015, 12:02 PM

I worry too much about everything.

Shystonefem · 08-01-2015, 02:07 PM

So many...

I trust waaayyyyy to easily

I have a hard time saying no because I don't like to hurt other people.

I don't express myself often and when I do, I can be determined. Lol

I forgive too easy. There are many times when I will just not remember when someone hurts me. But... if you are on the short list and you have really done something thats hurts me bad, I will never forgive or forget.

I am not OCD. My house us tidy but not immaculate.

I can be ruthless when it comes to righting a wrong....

If only I could use my genius for good.... lol

Talon · 08-01-2015, 04:01 PM

Perfectionism......(thanks Dad) 🙋

Chad · 08-01-2015, 06:10 PM

I am very stubborn, I will not ask for help and usually I will not accept help when it is offered.

That is all that I can think of.

puddin' · 08-07-2015, 01:14 PM

i work with folks in recovery (mental illness, addiction, abuse, etc.), so sometimes a weekend bender is what's needed. (not healthy i know, but sometimes it'll cure what ails ya!)

i am fastidious about my laundry, yet not so much so about general house cleanin'

(though i do tidy up)

i can be a bit narrow-minded at times, yet love when i'm challenged to think outside the box

i add no salt to food, yet heaps o' cracked pepper goes on ALL food i eat

Gayandgray · 03-03-2016, 08:47 PM

Oh gee, where to begin?? I have a real hard time trusting people, I'm very stubborn, I'm a cleaning freak, I've got OCD and can't stand a messy house! LOL I clean every day! I will hold a grudge forever (but I'm trying to work on that), I'm overprotective of my spouse since she is sick, I worry over everything, I let myself get super stressed out, I over analyze everything. Guess that's it?

Angeltoes · 03-22-2016, 11:32 PM

I'm introverted to the point of shutting people out until they think I don't care and then they go away. I tend to worry a lot and obsess about goals and problems. I think if I make room for someone in my life, chaos will ensue, everything will fall apart, and no one will be there to pick up the pieces but me. I guess that means I'm not very trusting.

homoe · 03-23-2016, 06:34 PM

Jaded & bullheaded

JDeere · 03-23-2016, 09:46 PM

Severely insecure
Too nice
Too forgiving
Too laid back

Ophirik · 03-27-2016, 03:01 PM

After falling in love, I almost never fall out of love; to this day, my heart starts racing (or hurting) when I meet certain women, even though we have not been in touch in years

Started transitioning 10 years ago, but still feel that there's something "wrong" with me; it affects all of my relationships

I do not believe good things said about me

I tend to keep "a safe distance" emotionally from people

I'm ashamed to cry in front of people; it makes me feel very weak & I hate being weak

Great thread; Thanks. Hard to read & hard to reply.

05-03-2015, 06:31 AM	#163
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,492 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,850 Thanked 14,400 Times in 4,049 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Trusting to readily __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

05-03-2015, 07:49 AM	#164
RNguy Member How Do You Identify?: trans Preferred Pronoun?: He preferredably :) Relationship Status: the pitbull <€ Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Birmingham, Alabama Posts: 1,058 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,473 Thanked 2,267 Times in 510 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	1. I'm OCD 2. B/C of #1. I only see things as black and white. 3. I maintain complete control of every aspect of my life. 4. B/C of #3 I operate on the fight or flight response quickly. 5. As I age , I have no tolerance for putting up with nonsense. 6. I will never freely give trust to anything or anyone . Trust is something that can take many years to get from me. 7. I never forgive nor forget if I have been lied to. I take grudges to the grave. 8. B/C of #1 I fixate on the smallest things and will go to the depths of hades to prove a wrong or a right. 9. I am a Pitt bull daddy and way to overprotective. 10. My coping mechanism is to seclude , wall up , shut down and bolt if I think I am going to get burned . Which would fall in the fight or flight category. 11. I over analyze alot of things. __________________

06-05-2015, 07:55 AM	#166
Sammy583 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Working on it. Join Date: May 2015 Location: SunShine State Posts: 80 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39 Thanked 178 Times in 42 Posts Rep Power: 1293999	1. I have lost too many people in my life (adopted, then lost few close family members to death) 2. Bc of number 1 I have a fear of losing people or something happening. 3. I can over analyze things. 4. If I get hurt seriously or feel like I'm about too I tend to fight or flight. My recent relationship hy broke things off with me during which time hy said he was never in love with me (to hurt me), than we got back together he said he never meant it however I couldn't get it out of my head and ended things. Now I'm thinking I didn't fight hard enough. 5. I'm sarcastic 6. I'm hard headed __________________ Some say holding on is what makes you strong. But sometimes it takes more strength to just let go & move on.

07-30-2015, 11:23 PM	#168
Miss_J Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: ? Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 508 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,415 Thanked 1,559 Times in 325 Posts Rep Power: 10308962	I think there are times that I have unrealistic expectations. I tend to treat people with courtesy, respect and caring. In return I feel people should treat me the same and its a huge disappointment when they dont. Huge.. __________________

08-01-2015, 06:10 PM	#174
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,325 Times in 5,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Faults I am very stubborn, I will not ask for help and usually I will not accept help when it is offered. That is all that I can think of.

04-04-2015, 09:16 PM	#161
afemmenatalie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: she, honey, dear, but never babe Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Southwest USA Posts: 3,260 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 586 Thanked 660 Times in 427 Posts Rep Power: 9342835	Faults? You're kidding, right?

05-03-2015, 05:22 AM	#162
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her, shawty Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,033 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,083 Thanked 34,108 Times in 8,595 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	- Impatient - Control freak - Dismissive - Stubborn

05-03-2015, 02:48 PM	#165
oboejive Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Open lesbian and more femme-ish (although not much for labels) :) Preferred Pronoun?: Lee, she Relationship Status: Seeking Friends Join Date: May 2011 Location: Plantation, FL Posts: 36 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 76 Times in 22 Posts Rep Power: 449999	Being stubborn (I'm a Taurus) Being too perfectionistic Being disorganized (in an organized manner as everything is in piles, and I know where everything is at) Spreading myself too thin at times Rejection issues

07-30-2015, 10:24 PM	#167
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,318 Times in 506 Posts Rep Power: 9408452	I've been told I use too much salt..i luv salt

07-31-2015, 07:09 AM	#169
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,262 Times in 4,345 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I am not particularly introspective...annoying to some...a life saver to me. I tend to find amusement in just about all of the "human condition"...annoying to some....a life saver for me.

08-01-2015, 11:23 AM	#170
Daisy Chain Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Hy calls me Hys Kitten Join Date: May 2015 Location: 2nd star to the right and straight on til morning Posts: 729 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,814 Thanked 1,810 Times in 448 Posts Rep Power: 0	These are some of the ones I am more aware of and also the ones that I make an almost constant effort to address with some success I hope.... I can hold a grudge I can be selfish with my need for solitude at times I over analyse and over think I am distrustful and suspicious which can make me distant and watchful I have expectations of people I dont always listen to my gut instinct and make the same mistakes again until I finally learn the hard way I try to cover all bases at all times and get frustrated when I cannot I find it hard to accept that someone else can handle something for me as well as I can myself or better, I can take self sufficiency to the extreme I can be very stubborn I can shut loved ones out when I am processing hurt which in turn hurts them I can be very outspoken at times but then there are times when I refuse to engage at all I used to want most things on my own terms I am very much my own harshest critic ! Daisy { a work in progress }

08-01-2015, 12:02 PM	#171
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,958 Times in 5,020 Posts Rep Power: 0	I worry too much about everything.

08-01-2015, 02:07 PM	#172
Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,678 Times in 898 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	So many... I trust waaayyyyy to easily I have a hard time saying no because I don't like to hurt other people. I don't express myself often and when I do, I can be determined. Lol I forgive too easy. There are many times when I will just not remember when someone hurts me. But... if you are on the short list and you have really done something thats hurts me bad, I will never forgive or forget. I am not OCD. My house us tidy but not immaculate. I can be ruthless when it comes to righting a wrong.... If only I could use my genius for good.... lol

08-01-2015, 04:01 PM	#173
Talon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: . Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: . Posts: 4,921 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,246 Thanked 10,230 Times in 3,305 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Perfectionism......(thanks Dad) 🙋

08-07-2015, 01:14 PM	#175
puddin' Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: a genderqueer nuisance Preferred Pronoun?: bitchboi Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: new zealand Posts: 7,120 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,467 Thanked 7,973 Times in 2,344 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	i work with folks in recovery (mental illness, addiction, abuse, etc.), so sometimes a weekend bender is what's needed. (not healthy i know, but sometimes it'll cure what ails ya!) i am fastidious about my laundry, yet not so much so about general house cleanin' (though i do tidy up) i can be a bit narrow-minded at times, yet love when i'm challenged to think outside the box i add no salt to food, yet heaps o' cracked pepper goes on ALL food i eat __________________ be true, be you, be brave.

03-03-2016, 08:47 PM	#176
Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,857 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,579 Thanked 12,910 Times in 3,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Oh gee, where to begin?? I have a real hard time trusting people, I'm very stubborn, I'm a cleaning freak, I've got OCD and can't stand a messy house! LOL I clean every day! I will hold a grudge forever (but I'm trying to work on that), I'm overprotective of my spouse since she is sick, I worry over everything, I let myself get super stressed out, I over analyze everything. Guess that's it? __________________

03-22-2016, 11:32 PM	#177
Angeltoes Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Nunya Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Bernlandia Posts: 1,740 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,286 Thanked 5,525 Times in 1,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I'm introverted to the point of shutting people out until they think I don't care and then they go away. I tend to worry a lot and obsess about goals and problems. I think if I make room for someone in my life, chaos will ensue, everything will fall apart, and no one will be there to pick up the pieces but me. I guess that means I'm not very trusting. __________________ Now say you're sorry for ushering in the fourth fucking reich- anonymous Last edited by Angeltoes; 03-22-2016 at 11:35 PM.

03-23-2016, 06:34 PM	#178
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,587 Times in 14,919 Posts Rep Power: 21474889	Jaded & bullheaded

03-23-2016, 09:46 PM	#179
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Severely insecure Too nice Too forgiving Too laid back

03-27-2016, 03:01 PM	#180
Ophirik Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Trans-Butch Preferred Pronoun?: masculine Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: Israel Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29 Thanked 4 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	After falling in love, I almost never fall out of love; to this day, my heart starts racing (or hurting) when I meet certain women, even though we have not been in touch in years Started transitioning 10 years ago, but still feel that there's something "wrong" with me; it affects all of my relationships I do not believe good things said about me I tend to keep "a safe distance" emotionally from people I'm ashamed to cry in front of people; it makes me feel very weak & I hate being weak Great thread; Thanks. Hard to read & hard to reply.