Harshness or Kindness that is the question?

Bubala · 08-22-2016, 08:22 PM

They say kindness is contagious... Unfortunately, sometimes all one can do is stick to their amicable warmth even in the light of the harshest hostile responses.

Have you even found yourself being an object of someone uncalled-for hatred for no plausible reason?

Some people seems to choose such sharp, harsh, heavy negativity as a rule to live by. Lately, I have been wondering why this is. Some people just seem to have been abused so much so that they simply do not have the ability to comprehend that not everyone is "paying" any games of intrigue and true genuine humanity and kindness indeed exist. Not everyone is out to get them. Not everyone wants blood.

The more I thought, the more I started to feel sorry for the harsh ones... How much they must have suffered, who or what must have scarred them so bad, beyond any humanity? How much heavy burden they still must carry and how much they must be unkind to their own selves first, to hate the world around they so damn bad...

Socially inept, emotionally unintelligent or simple a sociopath? What is the universal diagnosis for the barking human beast who just won't stop growling or trying to bite at the slightest human interaction?

Literature describes most sociopaths as chameleons with, at times even, admirable social acumen.

Is choice of human kindness dependent on our emotional intelligence? Are the hereditary or environmental contributors to ones EQ to blame for depth or shallowness of ones ability to feel empathy, consciously elect kindness, or basic human warmth?

There is humanity in the world, I firmly believe so.

What do you think?

08-22-2016, 08:22 PM	#1
Bubala Member How Do You Identify?: Lady Sunflower Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: San Fran Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 463 Thanked 1,669 Times in 615 Posts Rep Power: 9338275	Harshness or Kindness that is the question? They say kindness is contagious... Unfortunately, sometimes all one can do is stick to their amicable warmth even in the light of the harshest hostile responses. Have you even found yourself being an object of someone uncalled-for hatred for no plausible reason? Some people seems to choose such sharp, harsh, heavy negativity as a rule to live by. Lately, I have been wondering why this is. Some people just seem to have been abused so much so that they simply do not have the ability to comprehend that not everyone is "paying" any games of intrigue and true genuine humanity and kindness indeed exist. Not everyone is out to get them. Not everyone wants blood. The more I thought, the more I started to feel sorry for the harsh ones... How much they must have suffered, who or what must have scarred them so bad, beyond any humanity? How much heavy burden they still must carry and how much they must be unkind to their own selves first, to hate the world around they so damn bad... Socially inept, emotionally unintelligent or simple a sociopath? What is the universal diagnosis for the barking human beast who just won't stop growling or trying to bite at the slightest human interaction? Literature describes most sociopaths as chameleons with, at times even, admirable social acumen. Is choice of human kindness dependent on our emotional intelligence? Are the hereditary or environmental contributors to ones EQ to blame for depth or shallowness of ones ability to feel empathy, consciously elect kindness, or basic human warmth? There is humanity in the world, I firmly believe so. What do you think? __________________ When life turns its back on you....grab its ass