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Old 01-08-2014, 11:38 AM   #1041
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25 years next month since I quit. It was considerably easy when I threw a pack in the trash and never smoked again. I used to puff 2 packs a day for about 10 years. My mother also stopped cold. I never understood the "addiction" per se since we both had no trouble stopping, but when I tried to get rid of sugar and couldn't, I realized how addiction affect people in different ways. Nicotine was easy for me to quit, not for my sisters. Sugar was very easy for my sisters to quit. Not for me.
I really admire those who had trouble and still quit. And I hope those who are trying find the strength to do so just as I hope someday I'll be able to let go of sugar...
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25 years next month since I quit. It was considerably easy when I threw a pack in the trash and never smoked again. I used to puff 2 packs a day for about 10 years. My mother also stopped cold. I never understood the "addiction" per se since we both had no trouble stopping, but when I tried to get rid of sugar and couldn't, I realized how addiction affect people in different ways. Nicotine was easy for me to quit, not for my sisters. Sugar was very easy for my sisters to quit. Not for me.
I really admire those who had trouble and still quit. And I hope those who are trying find the strength to do so just as I hope someday I'll be able to let go of sugar...
As a person who's given up refined sugars amongst other things (caffeine, alcohol, drugs, nicotine and the smoking habit), I can truthfully say the only way I've found that works for me is applying the 12 step programme, 'one day at a time'.
We can do anything for just one day. I'm not saying it's easy but it's possible with the right mental attitude and coping strategies in place.

If one day is too much then break it down to manageable chunks; one hour, half hour, 10minutes if necessary.

Not having the first one of any of our addictions saves us from the second, third, ad infinitum.

One is too many and a thousand never enough right!?

Good luck all of you who are quitting whatever you're quitting. It's not easy but it IS possible

Keep riding that dragon until you tame it, you'll be so proud of yourself for doing something proactively positive for your own well-being.


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I have been working on a plan for myself to quit. I'm taking chantix for 2 weeks to help curb the urge to smoke and I'm using a vaporizor also. I am going to use a 6 % nicotine solution and ween down to 0 by mixing with a 0% solution over the next two weeks or so. I know I can beat this with help from friends and family and making a plan for myself to do this one day at a time. I"m a 30yr smoker and I Know it's hard to quit for some just as hard as giving up hard drugs for addicts. At least that's what my physician has told me. It's in the mind as well. I"m feel ready to quit mentally and I want to do it the best way possible for me and I think my plan is going to work; we'll see. I'll keep reading posts here, they are full of support and I thank each and everyone of you that are quitting and have quit for the advice and support you've given to all of us here. I look forward to being another EX-SMOKER in the group. My dad and mom have both been after me hard this past year to quit, they are both Ex-smokers themselves. I want to be among the group of people that says I can and I DID.
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I started a cold turkey quit on 29th December 2013.

Day 9 almost completed.

This time I have the help of a sponsor and he's making all the difference.

I'm doing it this time.

Good Luck and Success with quitting Sunflower. Congrats on everything.
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I have been working on a plan for myself to quit. I'm taking chantix for 2 weeks to help curb the urge to smoke and I'm using a vaporizor also. I am going to use a 6 % nicotine solution and ween down to 0 by mixing with a 0% solution over the next two weeks or so. I know I can beat this with help from friends and family and making a plan for myself to do this one day at a time. I"m a 30yr smoker and I Know it's hard to quit for some just as hard as giving up hard drugs for addicts. At least that's what my physician has told me. It's in the mind as well. I"m feel ready to quit mentally and I want to do it the best way possible for me and I think my plan is going to work; we'll see. I'll keep reading posts here, they are full of support and I thank each and everyone of you that are quitting and have quit for the advice and support you've given to all of us here. I look forward to being another EX-SMOKER in the group. My dad and mom have both been after me hard this past year to quit, they are both Ex-smokers themselves. I want to be among the group of people that says I can and I DID.
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That should help you a great deal Ms. Redsunflower and I wish you luck in doing so!!!





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Today is not easy. In fact I feel a little bit nuts. I'm going out for a run in a minute to burn up adrenalin and try and feel a bit calmer.

Well done to everyone in the process of quitting and trying to get to a more comfortable place. We can totally do it.
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Just wanted to pop in and say hello to everyone.

Also great work on quitting!
Keep it up!!

I loveee this thread and the wonderful support that is offered here.
Thanks to all who have helped me along the way and who got me through some really harsh times.

Have a beautiful and smoke free day...SMILES

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Day 15 and I'm still a non-smoker.

I had a brand new challenge today. I went to visit a mate who is a proper smoking buddy. She smokes in her house and everything (as does her partner). I didn't have much of a strategy for coping other than just to go and see how it went.

Well, I didn't smoke, she congratulated me on my quit the whole time I was there and I think I now need to wash my jumper but apart from that it was all good.

I can do this. In fact, I am doing it.

Well chuffed.

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Day 15 and I'm still a non-smoker.

I had a brand new challenge today. I went to visit a mate who is a proper smoking buddy. She smokes in her house and everything (as does her partner). I didn't have much of a strategy for coping other than just to go and see how it went.

Well, I didn't smoke, she congratulated me on my quit the whole time I was there and I think I now need to wash my jumper but apart from that it was all good.

I can do this. In fact, I am doing it.

Well chuffed.

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Day 19 and still doing it.

Yaaaasss!!!!!!!!!!!
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Smoking is the lead story in this newscast 1/17/14. It's an excellent piece on new findings on the affects of smoking and diseases, percentages of youth smoking and the fight against smoking. If you haven't seen this, please do...very informative.

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Yaaaasss!!!!!!!!!!!
Just wanted to say congrats on your choice to be healthy and that I am proud for you.

Keep up the great job and know you have people always here to support you in good and bad moments.
Keep it up!

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Yaaaasss!!!!!!!!!!!

There have been studies done that indicate it takes 21 days to change a habit, it is a milestone for changing any behavior. The hardest part is over, continue to quit, one day at a time. You will be glad you did!
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There have been studies done that indicate it takes 21 days to change a habit, it is a milestone for changing any behavior. The hardest part is over, continue to quit, one day at a time. You will be glad you did!
Well, I'm just finishing day 22 so I guess it should be getting easier.

Trouble is, I don't think it is.

I'm in such a foul mood that even the title of this thread is driving me mad. Habit?? This is a drug addiction.

Maybe it will all look better tomorrow and just for today, I won't be smoking.

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I'm celebrating one month nicotine free today.

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I'm now celebrating 1 month and 6 days nicotine free.



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Today I celebrate Years smoke free.

And to be tottally honest, during times I felt the need to smoke again due to stresses such as health issues, I have used a e gig here and there. My doc told me to do so verses messing up.
I know alot of you don't believe this is being smoke free if you occassionally or all the time use one. But I am here to say in my world it has stopped me from smoking during some really hard times.

I am amazed and very happy with me...smiles

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Two years is a good long time and you're doing it!

I'm struggling again this week, trying to remind myself of a day at a time, but just really wanted to smoke last night.

I was so happy to realise when I woke this morning that I didn't smoke; I'd be kicking myself right now.

Just for today, I won't be smoking.
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