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06-08-2011, 02:46 PM
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What Do You Miss?
I was chatting with a friend today and asked her "what do you miss most about being with someone?"
I think that, for me anyway, I miss having someone to go home to, to go to bed with (and wake up beside)-to just share a life with. I had an ex once who would rub lotion on my feet, knees and elbows while we watched a movie together. I miss that little gesture-I am bad to forget to "lotion." lol It is the little things that I find myself missing. So, I wanted to ask the same question here... What things do you miss about being in a relationship?
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06-08-2011, 05:55 PM
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For me I miss...
Coming home to find notes written on the mirror Showering with someone....my back is never cleaner!!!  Being able to be with them and not even leave the house I miss that heat during the night that makes you kick off the covers just so you don't have to unsnuggle
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06-08-2011, 06:13 PM
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Because I'm really shallow....I miss the great sex whenever. This may be enhanced at the moment since I have not had sex, good or bad, in quite a while.....for me.
And then with this one partner, I miss our love of foods. Often our vacations were built around restaurants. I haven't had a partner that shares my love of food for many years. I am lucky though that The Boy has it, so at least I can share. It's just not the same as with a partner obviously. That's about it.....yep....I'm pretty shallow.  A |
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06-08-2011, 06:45 PM
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I miss: ~ having someone to share the events of the day with ~ having someone to bounce decisions off of ~ having someone to call when I will be late ~ having someone who remembers all the things I forget
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06-08-2011, 06:54 PM
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Cooked food.
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06-08-2011, 07:09 PM
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Being held in strong arms with my head on his chest or shoulder and falling asleep that way...
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10-03-2011, 08:49 PM
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I miss that sense of feeling important to someone. That someone I desire is looking for me and wanting to be with me...
I miss those moments when I fiercely want to share something exciting, something sad, something funny, something frightening... having that someone to call or go to and share it with. Cooking together. Riding together. Showering together. Laying together. The touch in the night... The hand on my back while I walk. The kiss at night... The kiss in the morning... The special desire to make her smile. The special desire to make her quiver. Holding her in my arms until she settles. Being held in her arms until I settle. Gawd, I miss all that and more. Atomiczombie, I should have followed your example... |
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10-03-2011, 08:51 PM
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In all honesty, I just miss sex.
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10-04-2011, 06:32 AM
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10-04-2011, 06:53 AM
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I miss my best friend - RIP Vikki
I miss the West Coast I miss Skyping with Poppi - damn that job 
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10-04-2011, 06:54 AM
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I miss my...
Godfather (seven years ago yesterday) Buddy (five weeks ago yesterday)
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10-04-2011, 11:24 PM
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misses
simple things
1 reaching over and caressing hys thigh when driving around with nowhere to go 2 watching tv with hys head in my lap while i stroke hys hair 3 sticking my foot over to the other side of the bed just to touch him when it is too damn hot to spoon 4 someone to depend on every day fo whatever help i may need lol 5 just talking, laughing, with the one who understands me best 6 coming home because he is there and not just because it is where i live lots of things, and no , j, sex and boobs are not top of the list lmao |
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10-05-2011, 05:50 AM
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10-05-2011, 07:33 AM
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Taking care of her when she's sick.
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01-25-2012, 12:43 PM
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I just miss that feeling of knowing that someone truly loves me
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01-25-2012, 02:00 PM
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I miss the stolen weekends...when there was "just us" in the world!
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01-25-2012, 02:28 PM
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I miss missing her....
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01-26-2012, 02:01 PM
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I miss having someone to spoil and dote on.
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01-26-2012, 02:32 PM
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I miss the intimacy and the laughter....curling up in each others arms and kissing her sweet lips.....and most of all I miss making her feel safe, secure and protected. I am sure I will find it again, this time with the one I was meant to be with.
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07-08-2012, 04:33 PM
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I miss my dog Matty....hiking just isnt the same without her...
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