And how are you feeling? - Page 336

homoe · 01-11-2021, 05:26 PM

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Restless! i

And it can't be "cabin fever" because it WAY too early in the season for that right....

Gemme · 01-11-2021, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by clementinefemme

I'm feeling frustrated. Could use some advice.

How do you know when someone is really guarded and needs love and care to open them up versus when someone truly just has the emotional depth of a toothbrush? How much time should I invest in this process?

Is this the person that drove off to let you move stuff by yourself? Am I remembering that right? If so, and you've talked to them about that and nothing has changed for the better, move on. But before you do, make it absolutely clear as to what the consequences will be and why you are letting go. Do not make an ultimatum but let them know that you're trying and you aren't getting anything back and you aren't willing to spend a lifetime trying to crack whatever kind of nut they are. Then listen to them. Really listen. Are they talking in circles just to get you to hang around or are they trying too, but not in the way you want them to? That would create two very different results, if it were me.

VintageFemme · 01-11-2021, 09:49 PM

Emotionally whipped and we're not even halfway through January!

theoddz · 01-12-2021, 10:16 AM

Well, I'm feeling a little "muted", so to speak, but aside from my sore left arm, I'm doing well.

I had my first COVID-19 vaccination yesterday.

I think I'll just take it easy today, sit around in my underwear and eat snacks all day.

Life's good.

~Theo~

GeorgiaMa'am · 01-12-2021, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by homoe

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Restless! i

And it can't be "cabin fever" because it WAY too early in the season for that right....

I think we've all got cabin fever due to isolating. I keep dreaming of running away to a beach vacation . . . then I remember that people are isolating and social distancing on the beaches, too.

Cin · 01-12-2021, 02:32 PM

I'm tired of juggling the horrifying and the devastating.

I'm with Randy Rainbow and I wish the horrifying assault on democracy would end so I can get back to my devastating pandemic.

GeorgiaMa'am · 01-12-2021, 07:49 PM

After Wednesday's Capitol event, I think I'm going through the stages of grief. At first I had disbelief, and now I'm just angry. Bargaining - meh, I don't see it happening any time soon. And I don't think I'll ever make it to acceptance, but I don't want to hang around in depression forever, either.

GeorgiaMa'am · 01-24-2021, 05:20 PM

Feeling disappointed and a little depressed. I didn't hear back about Reddy, so I guess she found her forever home with someone else. I expect the right dog for me will come along - they always have a way of finding me. I had such a good feeling about Red though. <sigh>

EmeraldLioness · 01-25-2021, 09:12 PM

Calm...introspective...tired

Gemme · 01-25-2021, 09:50 PM

I'm annoyed with the state. I had my federal taxes about done and was working on the state taxes and when I go to finish it all up, a blurb pops up saying I can't finish my state taxes for 3 more days. This is what I get for trying to get ahead of the stampede.

homoe · 01-25-2021, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

I'm annoyed with the state. I had my federal taxes about done and was working on the state taxes and when I go to finish it all up, a blurb pops up saying I can't finish my state taxes for 3 more days. This is what I get for trying to get ahead of the stampede.

You can't win for losing...

easygoingfemme · Yesterday, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

I'm annoyed with the state. I had my federal taxes about done and was working on the state taxes and when I go to finish it all up, a blurb pops up saying I can't finish my state taxes for 3 more days. This is what I get for trying to get ahead of the stampede.

Yup. Me too. They are like... well well well early bird, we're not ready for you!

I'm feeling relieved to be home. The snow is horrible right now and our city sucks at keeping up with the streets. While I was making my commute home I knew my daughter was making her commute in to work so it was double stress. What is normally a 10 minute drive took both of us 45 minutes. Now I have to deal with waiting until after 1am to hear that she made it home.

I'm also feeling hungry now that the panic from driving has let go of my stomach.

01-11-2021, 09:49 PM	#6703
VintageFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Outside Posts: 2,207 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,556 Thanked 7,273 Times in 1,569 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	Emotionally whipped and we're not even halfway through January! __________________ Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity

01-12-2021, 10:16 AM	#6704
theoddz Senior Citizen How Do You Identify?: Old Poop Preferred Pronoun?: Mr. Beast Relationship Status: Happily Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 3,407 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,192 Thanked 9,586 Times in 2,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Well, I'm feeling a little "muted", so to speak, but aside from my sore left arm, I'm doing well. I had my first COVID-19 vaccination yesterday. I think I'll just take it easy today, sit around in my underwear and eat snacks all day. Life's good. *~Theo~* __________________ *"All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost."* -- J. R. R. Tolkien

01-12-2021, 02:32 PM	#6706
Cin Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Truly Madly Deeply Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: In My Head Posts: 2,789 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,285 Thanked 10,593 Times in 2,475 Posts Rep Power: 21474848	I'm tired of juggling the horrifying and the devastating. I'm with Randy Rainbow and I wish the horrifying assault on democracy would end so I can get back to my devastating pandemic. __________________ If there were in the world today any large number of people who desired their own happiness more than they desired the unhappiness of others, we could have a paradise in a few years. Bertrand Russell

01-12-2021, 07:49 PM	#6707
GeorgiaMa'am Senior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am Relationship Status: involved - poly Join Date: May 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,328 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,444 Thanked 22,165 Times in 3,851 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	After Wednesday's Capitol event, I think I'm going through the stages of grief. At first I had disbelief, and now I'm just angry. Bargaining - meh, I don't see it happening any time soon. And I don't think I'll ever make it to acceptance, but I don't want to hang around in depression forever, either. __________________ -Georgia Ma'am To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. You may say I'm a dreamer But I'm not the only one I hope some day you'll join us And the world will live as one. - John Lennon and Yoko Ono

01-24-2021, 05:20 PM	#6708
GeorgiaMa'am Senior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am Relationship Status: involved - poly Join Date: May 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,328 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,444 Thanked 22,165 Times in 3,851 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Feeling disappointed and a little depressed. I didn't hear back about Reddy, so I guess she found her forever home with someone else. I expect the right dog for me will come along - they always have a way of finding me. I had such a good feeling about Red though. <sigh> __________________ -Georgia Ma'am To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. You may say I'm a dreamer But I'm not the only one I hope some day you'll join us And the world will live as one. - John Lennon and Yoko Ono

01-11-2021, 05:26 PM	#6701
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 36,960 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19,563 Thanked 31,702 Times in 14,010 Posts Rep Power: 21474884	~~~ Restless! i And it can't be "cabin fever" because it WAY too early in the season for that right....

01-25-2021, 09:12 PM	#6709
EmeraldLioness Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Dyke Join Date: Jan 2019 Location: WA Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	Calm...introspective...tired __________________ When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. Maya Angelou

01-25-2021, 09:50 PM	#6710
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