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Old 05-02-2013, 09:58 PM   #141
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Greyson, it brings me great joy, to hear that your recovery continues on a positive note. I must agree with you, you are a very lucky guy. Be patient with yourself, and keep up the good work.

Julie, your light shines brightly! Thanks for being there, thank you for your loving care and advocacy, and thank you for keeping us updated. Like Hack said, please take care of yourself.
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That's good news Julie, that Greyson is coming along well in his post-surgery status. I was part of a women's heart study at OHSU, several years ago, so I remember after my particular surgery, how criticial it is to be ambulatory and be able to keep ice chips down. I hope you get some rest tonight and thanks for keeping all of us aprised of his recovery process. Greyson is very fortunate to have you by his side.
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awesome news again,

Greyson you are as they say " a sleeping giant"

One determined fella you sure are! Julie you rock for having his back.

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Greyson will have his laptop tomorrow and I think he will have wifi. Keep those profile messages and pm's coming. He kept asking me to read the thread today. It really helps and makes him feel good. I am so amazed and appreciative of the wonderful support we have gotten. I am taking very good care of myself. I took care of my Mom before she passed and I know know how important that is.
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Here at the hospital with the Patient of the Year. He will moved out of the ICU this afternoon. Besides nausea he is feeling pretty good. He will be back online tomorrow and that will make him happy. I am reading him the thread and it really lifts his spirits so thank you all for that.
Great news. Best wishes for a smooth recovery. You are one tough guy and very lucky to have a great woman by your side.
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Here at the hospital with the Patient of the Year. He will moved out of the ICU this afternoon. Besides nausea he is feeling pretty good. He will be back online tomorrow and that will make him happy. I am reading him the thread and it really lifts his spirits so thank you all for that.
This is wonderful and welcome news! Thank you Julie, for keeping us updated. Greyson, its so great to hear that you are on the mend...still sending prayers, positive thoughts, and wishes for your continued healing and recovery!
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.....it takes a tremendous spirit and the strength of real love to provide gladly the nurturing, gentle, steady touch that you have been for Greyson through this. You have been a heartwarming example to us all. Hope you guys have a great day!!
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Greyson will have his laptop tomorrow and I think he will have wifi. Keep those profile messages and pm's coming. He kept asking me to read the thread today. It really helps and makes him feel good. I am so amazed and appreciative of the wonderful support we have gotten. I am taking very good care of myself. I took care of my Mom before she passed and I know know how important that is.
You can put on some Friday music and start that rehab. So glad everything is going so well.
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It is a new day. I hope you both are comfortable and log in some rest time. This is a unconventional way to honeymoon.
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It is a new day. I hope you both are comfortable and log in some rest time. This is a unconventional way to honeymoon.
You are so right! I was just thinking about this this morning. Would I rather have a week vacation somewhere or the opportunity to stay home for a few months and take care of my spouse? This is actually a wonderful blessing for us both. His nurse yesterday said think of this as a required break from everyday life. I liked thinking of it that way.
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.....it takes a tremendous spirit and the strength of real love to provide gladly the nurturing, gentle, steady touch that you have been for Greyson through this. You have been a heartwarming example to us all. Hope you guys have a great day!!
Wow thank you so much. I think anyone here would do the same for their spouse or partner!
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Here at the hospital. Greyson is not feeling the best today. He is really tired and had some procedures today that hurt a lot. I am trying to force him to take a nap and he finally gave up and now is watching Judge Judy!

He got his computer today and saw all the wonderful messages and it made him feel great. Thank you.
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Judge Judy is the best medicine for healing imo!

Love to you both!
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Home again. Today was tougher for him. I brought the computer and he enjoyed looking at the posts everyone has left but he was really tired. If you know about heart stuff today was the day they removed the chest drainage tubes. That hurt a lot and wore him out. The good news is he is tube free except for one IV for meds. That means he will sleep lots better tonight. I left him watching his beloved Dodgers. I have tried to click on all of your profiles to write a thank you for each post. I know I have missed people. Thank you all so very much for all the kind words. It really does make a difference!
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I'm glad everything went well for greyson with surgery and wish you both all the best with the recovery process.
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Greyson you now have two birthdays to celebrate,Julie take care of yourself so you two can party to just because you can.
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Those drain tubes are painfull and I bet he is tired....lots of rest is always part of the healing process.

The judge Judy made me laugh...hey someday a show called judge grey!

Thanks so much for the updates .

Hugs hugs hugs.

PS grey we do gotta get caught up,good things goin on here!
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The Eagle has landed. Elvis has left the hospital. Greyson is home! He is feeling pretty good and does not have a lot of pain. Sleeping is challenging but he is giving it a try. Thank you all so much for the prayers, good wishes and support!
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That is great news! Keep up the good work.... But rest yourself too!

Glad your home,thanks for the update Julie


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