Important things I learned from past relationships

TruTexan · 09-04-2014, 11:29 AM

1. that MY feelings are important and they matter and should matter
2. that if they can't listen and hear at the same time then for me its time to walk away
3. that if they act like my feelings don't matter and do stuff anyways that it's time to walk away.
4. that some people think yelling is a change in tone of voice doesn't always mesh with my definition of yelling which means at the top of your lungs.
5. leave the past in the past and stop bringing it up
6. that it's okay for me to stand up for myself
7. that I've changed over time as to what is acceptable behavior from friends and relationships
8. that I need to put myself first because no one else will.
9. to take care of me first

09-04-2014, 11:29 AM	#11
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,268 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	1. that MY feelings are important and they matter and should matter 2. that if they can't listen and hear at the same time then for me its time to walk away 3. that if they act like my feelings don't matter and do stuff anyways that it's time to walk away. 4. that some people think yelling is a change in tone of voice doesn't always mesh with my definition of yelling which means at the top of your lungs. 5. leave the past in the past and stop bringing it up 6. that it's okay for me to stand up for myself 7. that I've changed over time as to what is acceptable behavior from friends and relationships 8. that I need to put myself first because no one else will. 9. to take care of me first __________________