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03-06-2012, 12:10 AM
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One simple question...
What do you want ?
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03-06-2012, 12:18 AM
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I want to be with people in ways that matter. A good mix of fun and serious is nice...but meaningful is where it's at for me.
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03-06-2012, 12:26 AM
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To leave this world just a little better because I was here...
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 Squint your eyes and look closer. I'm not between you and your ambitions. I am a poster girl with no poster. I am thirty-two flavors and then some. And I'm beyond your peripheral vision, so you might want to turn your head~AniI want to think again of dangerous and noble things; I want to be light and frolicsome; I want to be improbable, beautiful and afraid of nothing as if I had wings Mary Oliver
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03-06-2012, 05:34 AM
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I want to eat ice cream without gaining weight...lol
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03-08-2012, 11:35 PM
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For tonight -
I want the young woman I met tonight to have peace in her grief. |
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03-08-2012, 11:48 PM
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Tonight:
I want to finish my last remaining textbook assignments for this module so I can have a worry-free and fun weekend.. and start my next class in a week without fretting over wrapping up other class homework. I want our cake guy to e-mail me back with a price quote for our wedding cake. and (I can have three, right?) I want the house we bidded on to not fall through with the home inspection, and be ours, TLC needed and slight flaws and all  We are ready for a home to be - our - home.
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03-09-2012, 07:32 AM
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Not that I'm being greedy or anything selfish...but...
I want my friend in Oklahoma to recover from her knee injury.
I want to enjoy warm weather there this Easter when I go to visit her. I want my cat James’ dermatitis to heal quickly. I want my English cousin to be happy, healthy and well loved! He deserves it! I want to win the Lotto so I can have the OCC guy’s custom build me a Harley, that will have some of my Dad’s old Triumph trinkets on. There’s a few things I want for myself, but, I’ll let the universe give me what I need.
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03-09-2012, 08:04 AM
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I want the beginning and the end to blend so well with each other that you can't tell where the beginning is or the end!
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03-31-2013, 01:10 PM
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03-31-2013, 02:15 PM
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Ahhhh, a year later...
I forget exactly how this came to be the center for me, I believe I saw it in some small group session papers, but I became focused on it and thought, well, that one question could be the center of my work with myself and others...
...and it probably initiated the end of the relationship I was in at the time because after much talk about this one night she said, "I want to live alone." And tough as it was at the time, it is good. And I brought it here because I was visiting with someone near the end of her life and I asked her, "What do you want?" She stopped talking and gave the question due thought...and I waited...and she said, "I want my children to be happy. It took one of them several starts, but he is finally happy. That's all I want." She died several days later and I'd like to believe she was satisfied. I brought it here because I believe in conscious living. And I'd like to think that if we can be thoughtful and conscious about what we are doing, we can have fulfilling lives in the here and now, while we still have a chance to do something about it and our attitudes about all of it - if need be. What do I want? I want it all to matter...and to have fun whilst being. Blessed Be. |
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03-31-2013, 03:18 PM
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what I want
More than tangibles....more than true love.....more than security.....more than anything.....I want to be okay... meaning to be at peace...which I believe comes thru acceptance to a degree...I want to be okay with how things are in the universe...on my planet....my continent....my state, town, family, and in my heart.
Peace is not a destination. Life is not linear. I have to take the bad with the good and be okay with it. Working on things is good...feed people..food first. Not accepting and being at peace with imbalance doesnt mean we arent always in motion to make all better. It means I wont struggle against evil or good. No more struggle. No more loss of power. I need to be okay with our pace in resolution whether it is on this site or out in the big world. It is okay. When we are on our deathbeds we see the circle. None of the anger and mistrust ever mattered. None of anything will matter there. I want to live in the circle now. Before the fall, the summer Before the summer, spring Before the spring, the wintertime Before the winter, sing Salud
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03-09-2012, 09:57 AM
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03-09-2012, 10:51 AM
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I want my family to respect and accept me as I am and to
apologize and want to work things out so we can all talk and have each other in our lives. |
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03-10-2012, 05:27 PM
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Tonight I want to bask in the moonlight!
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03-10-2012, 06:30 PM
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At this very moment in time,
I want to struggle less I want a FT job and one more move where my chosen family live, so I don't have to worry myself or them when I get sick
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03-10-2012, 06:37 PM
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I WANT to move to St Aug!
I want to NEVER work in Social Services again (15+ years is enough for me). I want to finally pursue my other talents (writing, photography) and maybe try my hand at starting a tour company. I want to meet more like minded people. |
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03-10-2012, 08:58 PM
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Slow and steady ! We are tightly bound ! 
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I want to always ignite your fire ..
I want to make a difference I want to just be ! |
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03-10-2012, 09:08 PM
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I want my health back because for me that would be the key to everything else I want.
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03-10-2012, 10:30 PM
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Want a sunny day where I can lay in the grass. When the sun goes down I wanna go to a rave. When the rave is over I want someone cute and sweet to spend the night with.
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03-10-2012, 11:24 PM
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It is a beautiful night - the stars and planets are out in their glory - it is just wonderful out there...and the dog next door is barking.
I want the dog to go in so I can enjoy the night sky a little better... |
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