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Also, of note...problem nails can be caused by getting a little older, medications, like you suggested, and diseases such as anemia. So, just putting this out there... If anyone sees a dramatic change in their toenails or fingernails...get it checked out with a Doc. It is sexy as all get out when a butch has beautifully manicured nails. Great thread.
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oh no you did nt..........laughin..................getting a 'little' older??????????????????
bully will take care of that for me since she is turning 50..............and happy bday to her....
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Hey i'm right behind her. It is still a little gratifying that she is doing it several months prior to me. Hmm. Come to think of it, i've never dated a 50 year old woman before. Sorry for the de-r(n)ail. OMG i need sleep. Night all!!!!
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If I had seen this earlier I would have replied right away, thank you for bringing it to my attention Toughy.. let me start off by saying you have no need to apologize at all let me apologize for even making you feel uncomfortable in any way. I truely apologize. My snicker was actualy at myself because I thought it was about something else and it seemed ok since you started your post with nener nener made ya look So yeah I was thinking like that too... I mean no offinse as I myself like to be clean with my swagg at all times. We all do it in our own way no way being more butch than the next. Toughy it is a great thread and one we needed thanks for posting it. Sincerly, Ri |
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No worries about replying..........it's not been that long and we all have lives...
Thanks for your response. Absolutely I get why and what you meant.........I did start it with nener ne ner. Thanks for coming back .......... <grin>......I am soooooooooo glad I didn't go off like a rocket and make a big ass out of myself...... with both suebee and luv2 I want to thank both suebee and luv2 for coming back. This could have gotten ugly and it didn't. That's a good thing. as to swagg.....laughin.........the femmes seem to like this being part of butch swagg... pay attention guys......
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I neatly (anally) trim mine , so no whites are showing.
Dirty nails gross me the hell out. I cant handle files grinding on me , anywhere. Feet trust _ I do not have it. I've only had that a few times in my life. Before my mom passed, she had a request that me and my sisters all go get our nails "did" together. She had me over a barrel and knew it. I did everything before going so all that was left was filing ( or trying to) I nearly kicked the lady messing with my feet, twice. Her speaking more english would have been very helpful , for me. It's a trust thing ,sort of like who does your hair , amplified by 100 |
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Bard and I have gone for pedi's once, it was pretty fab! A first for me, but I am super ticklish, so I had a LOT of trouble staying still for the massage. Hy will rub my foot for me with a peppermint+plum lotion, and I loveeeee it
Hy oftens clips/files hys nails - they grow fast, and rather thick.. Mine like to peel =/ I think mayhaps all the nail polish and nail polish remover beating them up. We plan to get a mani prior to the wedding. Our friend that did the pedi has her own salon. Otherwise, neither of us really like people touching our feet. I don't mind hym touching my feet though |
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...you could try a vitamin/mineral nail supplement that contains silica, we have one here made by 'Swisse' but not sure if you could get it there. Nails doing that may mean there is a deficiency in your diet that a supplement could really help
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As Abigail Crabby pointed out, I do indeed go for regular pedis - but pedis only.... It started when I had my first knee surgery (about 20 years ago) and I really was uncomfortable gettting my hands down to my feet.... Over the years it continued because I got so damned big that I just couldn't reach my feet! I wouldn't stop going because it does feel good! But I take care of my own hands as the salon where I go won't cut my fingernails as short as I like them..... End of story.....
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I think all this "manicure" "pedicure" stuff is also a class issue which kind of sucks. You don't need to have a "manicure" to to be "clean," and I think that getting manicure or giving yourself one has more to do with what people like to do for themselves than any actual realistic hygiene issue. Personally, I just cut my nails frequently because I can't stand to have any nails at all. It drives me up the wall at work or just generally going about my day. Never filed or done anything particularly special and never run into any issue because of it. I think people exaggerate a little at times when it comes to this stuff.
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I would never get a manicure/pedicure either, but I don't think it is a "class" issue; I think it is people choosing to budget their money for this service. Maybe they don't hit Starbucks 5 days a week like many people do, so they have the extra cash to get this done. I don't read what is being expressed in this thread as people viewing others as not being "clean" if they don't get manicures/pedicures.
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I don't think you "have to" pay money to have manicured hands and feet. If you have it, great, but you can do your own, or have someone who loves you do it for you. I think the later is even more delicious than going to the salon! It's the trimming, scrubbing, cuticle tidying, etc that give the clean well groomed "hygienic" look, which I have to agree is attractive. Does not matter how you keep yourself groomed, as long as it happens!? Right now I have to do my own, and it's cool, lol my painting needs work but....whatever.
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I know/have known more than a handful of people who can't afford cars/computers/daily starbucks/eatting out, ect... BUT they get their hair and nails done like clock work every two weeks.. I don't think it's a matter of class, but a matter of what is important to someone... I love thrifting/resale stores/ junk stores.... They are my reward for getting up and going to work... Back when my kid was in HS (Private) I was poorer than hell.. (you support three people, plus tuition and all the stuff that goes along with having a teenager and a partner in college full time on 11 bucks a hour... you learn now to be functual poor) I would walk to work vs taking the bus to save my bus fare so I could go thrifting once a month... If something is not important to you, then you might think that it's a unness luxury that only people of a certain class can afford... But if it's important to you, you find a way to make it happen...
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One of the reasons I started this thread was to help dispel the myth that masculine folks do not take care of our nails.....manicure and pedicure. It is a 'girly' thing to take care of your nails. I am not 'butch enough' because I take pride in trimmed nails and clean hands and feet. I have received reps from masculine folks for starting this thread because they get shit about it from other masculine folks or femmes or partners. I do understand there can be a charge around words like hygiene and clean. I also understand how folks could think manicure and pedicure mean money changing hands. I don't think that way. Thanks for bringing it up and giving me the chance to clarify what I mean. And I totally get the can't stand having nails at all..............I'm the same way and so are others in this thread....
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I just looked at my last post and saw the red thumbs down avatar at the very top. I did not mean for that to be there.....I must have somehow accidently clicked on it when I was writing that post. I don't think anything Ender has said should have a thumbs down connected to it. My apologies.
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Neat clean hands and nails are one of the first things I notice on someone, anyone. No matter how you identify, there is just no excuse for dirty, scruffy finger nails. Be it a DIY job with a nail brush and clippers or a long pampering at a salon. Just do it.
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Great thread, Toughy!!!!
For myself, I could care less what anyone else thinks about me getting a pedi....it is just a"feel good", "look good" and nice way to pamper myself. My GF treated me to one a couple weekends ago, as I couldn't afford one. Being with mobility issues and unable to reach my feet to do them myself, this is a luxurious necessity for me...and she does my feet sometimes as well...which is always an awesome time for our one on one time. There are no written "rules" for whom can have a pedi/mani that I know of....nor anything that would dictate that it makes us be anything other than our own selves... So, hats off to anyone who does this for themselves, gets it done, or has an SO do it for them, and repays in kind!!! ETA Toughy.....years and years ago my mom would buy Knox Gelatin...an unflavored dry gelatin packet, in a bright orange box..... mix it and drink that..for tougher, stronger nails.... Bag Balm, sold in most pharmacy sections of store, and at any tack and supply places, or such feed n seed stores that sell tack gear...is another incredible product for those tough, dry, cracked feet. UDDER CREAM for nursing teats of cows.....is a fabulous product. Go figure....anyway, again, GREAT thread my friend....so come on, let's GET NAILED buddy!!!
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i am not persnickety at all, but i like a good manicure and pedicure. i hate a bad one. i just had a bad one in Pacifica. They poked me, moved me around like a horse getting shoed, and gossiped and watched TV while they were using sharp implements on my feet. They didn't even out my nails. i guess they assumed i want to grow them (i don't). They didn't ask, and i didn't notice. One place i like is in Half Moon Bay, but they only take cash, which irks me.
i am in the woodsy north right now and am about to go get a mani. No one will notice, and it's kinda crazy when i am going to go kayaking and stuff. But i like to. The toes are in good shape. Alarmingly plum colored. i do put color on the toes. Clear for the hands though because i am hard on the paint and i hate to see chips. My ex, quite conventionally butch, gets more manis and pedis than i ever did. And she gets color on her toes too. Sometimes more than one color. She loves it. P.S. I also keep my nails short for obvious reason. i have had long nailed femmes fuck me just fine. But i keep mine short. Makes me nervous otherwise. i don't want to be thinking about that when have my hand inside someone. Also, while i am no massage therapist, i do give a lot of massages, and i don't need long nails. Quote:
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