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What if you don't like Butch Cock?
in an effort to make some feel more comfy posting about what makes them feel un-comfy or just not their cup a tea or to just say "Hey i'm just not into Butch Cock"...don't be afraid this is space created just for you..no one should EVER feel like they are less than because of their likes or dislikes...all that is asked is be respectful..Please..
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This must be the thread you said you were gonna start in honor of me... Again, I neva said I am "uncomfy" with cock nor did I say anybody else should be. Please refer to a reply of your post in the Butch Cock thread. I feel perfectly "comfy" with all of my posts in the Butch Cock thread and was not disrespectful to anyone who has different preferences than I do. By the way tho, just for the record, since you are so focused on me being "comfy". PERSONALLY speaking (for my own personal life) I do not view my cock as a device neccessarily, my cock is whateva gets my girl off. Like you, I've had no complaints.
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ya know..
i was using your post as a jumping off point and i probably shouldn't have made it seem like like i was singling out a Newbie..for that i am sorry..
with that said this space was created for those do not feel comfy with speaking about or those who do not enjoy or understand Butch Cock.. i had no intention of putting you on the defensive..yes that is how i am reading your post.. this was an attempt to be inclusive not exclusive.. BTW welcome to the Planet!!..
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Actually it was ALH who came into the cock thread and talked about cock centric crash said she'd use a cock be it hers, femme brought, etc etc. I don't really know why it's in the lesbian zone (this thread) anyways that's how it rolled out I'd have to go back and cross post to see how this particular thread came about.
I do think it's ok to say that one isn't cock centric since for some of us a cock is much more than a plastic appendage. :shrug: I dunno I could be wrong.
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Originally Posted by AtLastHome I find this refreshing! Sometimes I feel like there is not much room here for folks that are just not cock-centric. We are just not all the same and the last thing I want sex to be is rigidly defined in any form! Quote:
I don't personally think anyone said they did not like cock, they stated their different preferences on what their attach their phantom cock to, be it equipment, limbs, energy etc etc. It does seem crash did not understand why she was being singled out from her earlier posts in the Butch Cock Thread when she answered some really tough questions that were being asked. Anyways, that's my take. PS It would be a good idea to have a thread where folks who do not use toys have a place to talk about it, I dunno if maybe the title of the thread could be changed cause I don't think it's about NOT liking butch cock, it could be about other ways of fucking, sex, making love, grunting and groaning or whatever it is you refer to it as when in the throws of passion or lust or what have you Where in the forums should this thread be I don't know cause I don't really believe that lesbians are the only one's who don't use toys and cocks that's kind of assuming a stereotype.
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It should go without saying that there are those who are not interested in butch cock or any other kind, and there's certainly nothing wrong with it. If something presented here in these first few posts feels personal or "not quite right" to *you*, then please handle that with the person in question and do so privately. And just to be clear, no one in particular is being "moderated" here. This is simply a moderation warning or "presence".....whatever you want to call it.......to curb this before it turns into something it doesn't need to be about. Thinker (moderator)
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well golly gee..she only joined in august, if that is some part of your argument. i have less then 600 and i've been here for two years, since the dash site went sideways..please don't pull that card on me...that is just silly...you of all people know "that just because i don't say anything doesn't mean i don't have anything to say..
re-iterating please be respectful..
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You created it to spoof me, you said you were going to create it directly because of me. Yes, that puts me on defensive and rightly so. You don't know me. We've neva talked, who are you to tell me that I am "uncomfy" with butch cock and that I "don't understand" butch cock? Even more so who are you to accuse me that I implied others should feel bad about their stance on the subject. If you truly were not tryin to flex on me then you should delete this thread which was started to provoke me. Whether you or the moderator deletes this thread or not, this thread is dead to me.
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Hi, Dreams isn't like that--You are making a lot of needless assumptions.
This is just a thread and if you don't think it applies to you then don't post in it. The other option is to post in this thread a bunch and make it all about you: Quote:
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Dreams directly stated in the BC thread she was going to make this thread for me. So, I am not assuming anything. She said it in her own words in black and white.
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I'm confused- I thought it was not OK via the TOS to cross quote from other threads.
I could be wrong about this, however. I'm glad there is a thread for discussion of how we all have our own likes, dislikes, or more important for me, flexibility in what we want when sexually without fear of condemnation. Or personal attacks. Something that I have always appreciated about the Planet (and the dash site) is that all matters of sexuality could have a space for discussion. And we respect each other and not make automatic assumptions or judgments about each other. Sometimes as a butch, I feel there is a generalized assumption thal all butches MUST have cock as part of sex and that you are "less butch" if you want to always have sex with a cock. Or have different feelings about how you experience sex with it or what it means in terms of your body. And there are femmes/women here that do not have the same connections to it as other folks. Both butch & femme cock have their place as far as I'm concerned and that is a personal choice. So is what we want to call it. We are a diverse community. And we need to give each other room to express ourselves even if it goes against the “norms” (really perceived norms within a sub-culture) of our community. Different strokes… |
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*sigh* I'm the one who cross posted to show no one was saying they didn't like butch cock, no other reason.
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hhhmm well well..
lets try this again...this thread was started so that those who do not like butch cock could feel free to speak and share about what they like and choose..i never had any intention of starting a sophomoric food fight..no pun intended..
i started it in the lesbian zone because it seemed to be the safest place for people of like mind to post...i like feeling safe to speak my mind, many times i don't get that vibe.. moving on..gosh knows how many time i have seen/read butches/trans people/queers being put down and ridiculed for their fake appendages for some of us they are not fake and i dont feel anyone has the right to decide what is real for me or how my partner feels about our sexual relationship..so many times (from what i have read over the years) trans/butches/and queer have been negated/put down for liking what they like and being who they are...if you don't want to be berated as less than then don't treat others that way. that's just how i see things..simple i know.. crashhere4eva i did single you out initially..and i did apologize for that in black and white..accept it or don't.. BTW please feel free to refer to me as a guy or hym or you...i'm not a girl or a Boi..thanks BTW X 2 if you have never heard me speak or hear the tone of my voice then please do not make assumptions about what i am thinking or if i might be provoking anyone...if i am provoking you ..their will be no doubt.
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Sorry! My question regarding why it was in the lesbian zone was sent before I saw the moderation.
Indeed- let's get back to talking about sex!!
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This is so lesbian-phobic, I can't believe it!! I'm a lesbian and a butch and at time I like, even love butych cock- although as I have said, it isn't required for sex with me. And I think of it more in female terms, which is my perogative- however, it is part of a full range of sexual activity I like and indulge in. Why is it that the TOS of the Planet specifically notes lesbian-phobic post will not be tolarated righyt along with transphobic, racist, sizest, etc. posts, yet it continues to happen? So someone makes up a thread for someone else due to a remark they made in another thread, puts it in the lesbian zone because.. well, ya' know ALL those lesbians are cock-phobic and are transphobic.... and so lets engage in biogtry against them. Two wrongs do not make a right. It is wrong to make bigoted remarks about transpeople and or lesbians. UGH.. I should not have come back in here... Oh, but, I'm a lesbian, I ought to feel comfortable here. |
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