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friskyfemme · 09-04-2010, 12:52 AM

Dapper

Wrapping you in a green blanket of healing energy! May your recovery be speedy.

Best Wishes to you.

Corkey · 09-04-2010, 12:54 AM

Sending my Bro some hugs from the Mrs and I, woooo is on the way!

JustBeingMe · 09-04-2010, 03:36 AM

I wish you well DapperButch. I wish for you to fully recover and to be cancer free for life.

AtLast · 09-04-2010, 03:41 AM

Dapper, my very best to you.

You are one of the people here I have great respect for and get so much out of your musings.

I am glad you have support around you and I think it is a good thing to post this as we care about you as a right-on member here! A good friend of mine recently had colon cancer surgery and treatment and she is doing great which will be the same for you. But, hell, this is a big deal to be dealing with! sounds like the surgery went well. Good!! The first step is over!

You RAWK and I will keep you in my thoughts while you get through this.

waxnrope · 09-04-2010, 09:23 AM

Hey bro. It was a good idea to let people know here. Well, maybe not Corkey and Betenoir. Lol. They would always sink to the bottom, so to speak.
Know that your community here will keep you in our thoughts and/or prayers, sending light and evoking the healing power of collective will. Candles lit through your chemotherapy. And, yes, rlin was mostly right ... mostly. Depending.

I know that you have a lot of support at home. We've just widened that circle. You can't do better. Hugs to you, bro.

betenoire · 09-04-2010, 09:28 AM

Hey now! Me and Corkey provide a valuable service!

Corkey · 09-04-2010, 11:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by betenoire

Hey now! Me and Corkey provide a valuable service!

That's right with out poo humor there is a lack of WOOOOOO factor.

betenoire · 09-04-2010, 11:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Corkey

That's right with out poo humor there is a lack of WOOOOOO factor.

It is no coincidence that poo rhymes with woo.

waxnrope · 09-04-2010, 11:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by betenoire

Hey now! Me and Corkey provide a valuable service!

Are these services paid for, or, ate they freebies?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Corkey

That's right with out poo humor there is a lack of WOOOOOO factor.

Poo woo?

I'd watch out for these two if I were you, Dapper. In the meantime, just be sure to

and keep the surgeon happy.

morningstar55 · 09-04-2010, 12:18 PM

wow ((((((((((((((Dapper poohs))))))))))))))
hope you mend..soon...... will keep you in my thoughts..

tantalizingfemme · 09-06-2010, 09:01 PM

Just wanted to let everyone know that Dapper didn't fall off the face of the earth after starting this thread.... Hy unfortunately developed an obstruction in hys intestine and ended up back in the hospital on Thursday. Today hy had surgery to remove the adhesions and everything went well.

Thanks for all the well wishes and woo.... (and let's hope the poo will soon follow)

T

Corkey · 09-06-2010, 09:02 PM

WOOOOOOO and bring on the Pooooooo

Gemme · 09-06-2010, 09:05 PM

Lots of woo to you, Dapper. Get well soon!

morningstar55 · 09-17-2010, 02:48 PM

has anyone .......... heard from Dapper ??? and how he is doing ???

DapperButch · 09-21-2010, 11:55 AM

Hi, Folks!

Thanks for all the well wishes...I am back in business!

As tatalizingfemme said (thanks, honey!), the day I wrote the thread (strangely just a few hours later), I started having intense pain and then went into the emergency room. I had a second surgery and just got out of the hospital the end of last week. This is my first day I have turned on the computer. Tougher recovery this time around, but onward and upward!

Later this week I will meet with the oncologist in my area and then next week I will meet with the folks in Philly for a second opinion on chemo.

Thanks again for all of the wonderful support...it is so very much appreciated!

Corkey · 09-21-2010, 12:08 PM

Good to see you back Dapper!

DapperButch · 03-16-2011, 05:26 AM

Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!

It has been a tough road since August, but I am FINALLY done! Just in time for summer!

The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!

Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.

Also, I appreciate the support that I have received from EVERYONE here.

One can get a little whacky with chemo (perceptions get off and brain doesn't work oh, so well), so I apologize if I have been a little "off" in my posts at all. I suspect that the ones who know have kind of treated me with kid gloves if I offended without thinking, which I appreciate!

I hope to not have any problems in the future. With the surgery and chemo, I only have about a 18-20% the cancer will return, so that is awesome!

Thanks again, all!

suebee · 03-16-2011, 05:45 AM

GREAT news Dapper! I'm so glad to hear that all of that is over for you. Take a deep breath and know that it's behind you!

Sue

SelfMadeMan · 03-16-2011, 06:59 AM

DB - I feel so bad that I never even saw this thread until today! I am sorry you had to go through that scare at all, and everything that came with it, but I am so thankful that you are ok :-) Sounds like you maintained a positive attitude throughout the process and that is so important - that and the love and support of your girl. I'm glad you're healing well - sending you lots of positive thoughts!

Diva · 03-16-2011, 07:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch

Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!

It has been a tough road since August, but I am FINALLY done! Just in time for summer!

The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!

Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.

Also, I appreciate the support that I have received from EVERYONE here.

One can get a little whacky with chemo (perceptions get off and brain doesn't work oh, so well), so I apologize if I have been a little "off" in my posts at all. I suspect that the ones who know have kind of treated me with kid gloves if I offended without thinking, which I appreciate!

I hope to not have any problems in the future. With the surgery and chemo, I only have about a 18-20% the cancer will return, so that is awesome!

Thanks again, all!

Sweet Dapper....
Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )..... I have no excuse for that....

But THIS! THIS is grand news and I'm so happy for You and Tantalizing Femme....and God bless her for helping You through this hard part...and onward!

09-04-2010, 12:52 AM	#41
friskyfemme Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: precious Relationship Status: down to earth Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arizona Posts: 332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 395 Thanked 370 Times in 152 Posts Rep Power: 827	Dapper Wrapping you in a green blanket of healing energy! May your recovery be speedy. Best Wishes to you. __________________ Love and Light, FF

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09-04-2010, 03:36 AM	#43
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09-04-2010, 03:41 AM	#44
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09-04-2010, 09:23 AM	#45
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09-06-2010, 09:01 PM	#51
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09-06-2010, 09:02 PM	#52
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09-17-2010, 02:48 PM	#54
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09-21-2010, 11:55 AM	#55
DapperButch Roadster Guy How Do You Identify?: FTM, Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northeast Posts: 7,745 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,545 Thanked 26,893 Times in 5,771 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Hi, Folks! Thanks for all the well wishes...I am back in business! As tatalizingfemme said (thanks, honey!), the day I wrote the thread (strangely just a few hours later), I started having intense pain and then went into the emergency room. I had a second surgery and just got out of the hospital the end of last week. This is my first day I have turned on the computer. Tougher recovery this time around, but onward and upward! Later this week I will meet with the oncologist in my area and then next week I will meet with the folks in Philly for a second opinion on chemo. Thanks again for all of the wonderful support...it is so very much appreciated! __________________ -Dapper Are you educated or indoctrinated?

09-21-2010, 12:08 PM	#56
Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,299 Times in 6,640 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Good to see you back Dapper! __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

03-16-2011, 05:26 AM	#57
DapperButch Roadster Guy How Do You Identify?: FTM, Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northeast Posts: 7,745 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,545 Thanked 26,893 Times in 5,771 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	UPDATE Well, this is IT, folks! Last chemo infusion today! It has been a tough road since August, but I am FINALLY done! Just in time for summer! The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner! Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend. Also, I appreciate the support that I have received from EVERYONE here. One can get a little whacky with chemo (perceptions get off and brain doesn't work oh, so well), so I apologize if I have been a little "off" in my posts at all. I suspect that the ones who know have kind of treated me with kid gloves if I offended without thinking, which I appreciate! I hope to not have any problems in the future. With the surgery and chemo, I only have about a 18-20% the cancer will return, so that is awesome! Thanks again, all! __________________ -Dapper Are you educated or indoctrinated?

03-16-2011, 05:45 AM	#58
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03-16-2011, 06:59 AM	#59
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